Older or younger does not matter here. But the fact remains that he is Shravan's dad to whom her sister, Vidya is married to. That is the main thing. From Shravan's secret, it is revealed that he killed his BIL accidentally and Nayya wants them to compensate them with Shravan's child which does not resolve MDD relationship. Now, there is no other indication about the twist.
Meera had told Dharam to accept Durga with all his heart and not just pretend. If Meera confesses her love for him, he will reject Durga like a hot potato.
When he found that Meera is feeling the pinch, he is trying these tricks to make Meera to change her mind.
Even if Meera loves him how can she settle with him when he already has a wife and 2 grown up children especially when her own sister is his DIL? Dharam has 2 children from Durga without any love for her๐What a joke?๐He is now going to be a grandpa too yet he behaves like a 16 year old boy. He was showering his love towards Meera till she made him sign the dp. He can be always be normal with her as long ad she is staying in that house instead of all this drama.
Somethings are still not answered na..its all our speculations..like earlier even dharams daughter was no were but see suddenly she comes out as a twist.. And till date it is shown there is or was nothing between dharam and durga..remember once even gaura said to meera at that bed burning scene that durga does every other thing but one thing she is unable to do so from now you will be his bed-partner..
So its still very confusing what kind of relationship durga-Dharam actually shares..and if they didn't had anything in b/w how come he has two child's..and if they really are his then why for all these years so much differences in between them.. ๐ I hope you getting my point..So if we see so many questions are unanswered yet and half-truth is not truth na..on basis of this we can't actually judge him.
Okay now coming to dharam falling in love with a girl at his 40's is weird..right? But yarr as a modern viewer I expected all to understand love can't be caged in name of age,caste,custom,society etc.. Why he doesn't has the right to fall for his wife..(yes being a matured man he didn't fall for her at first sight right?) he actually fall for his wife..that too meera wooed him little bit.and he is not sexually in love he loves her genuinely..he cares for her,see how stubborn meera is but Dharam easily calms her down,he makes her smile..Tell me which girl will not fall for a guy/man who if loves her so genuinely..When she asked for divorce he didn't objected and signed it coz he wanted her betterment..but if he sees that she is faking and she loves her equally..why as a husband he won't try a little to keep her..yeah he can smell selfish at times like you may say she is young and he should let her go..but here she has already fallen for him and he can see it..so he is just trying to realize her that..
And about throwing durga..look there are lot of live examples of a man who hasn't divorced his first wife but has again married his love of life as a second wife..its not coz they wanna throw,disown or betray his 1st wife..its just they ain't in love with her but they understands their responsibility and wanna fulfill it if only the 1st wife doesn't ask for divorce herself.So now its upto durga if shevwants divorce and upto dharam if he wants to disown her coz if he wanted that then they could have divorced much earlier.here he also have cleared several times he can give durga her right but can't love her..and durga also knows it..so he can't be at fault now fully for anything..rest lets see how it turns in show.
About vidya-meera relationship yes..if we dig into them it is awkward..but its all in our head and our customs..coz don't you think there are several such relationship as a real example which actually is awkward but it exists.like in Muslim they marry their close cousin too who we consider brother/sister right? But for them its normal..same sometimes a brother in law marries his widow Bhabhi..and if I am not wrong Bhabhi is treated as maa right? There can be many more.. So that's why I say they have already married now correcting it won't make a difference coz in future also if they gets separated they will see each other as their ex..even for vidya also nothing will change..so these relationship complications are alwaz in our head.I am not saying it means anyone can get marry to anyone..yes we have some boundaries..but now the wrong has done and they have fallen for each other..and when they make such a cute pair..
What's wrong in letting them live with each other ๐
Just my view dear..rest to CVs hi Jane aur unki story..but yes Dheera share a story about complicated relationships and to accept such relations..we need to broaden our thinking.but no worry I understand your point too and agree to some extent also..lets see how CVs handle it ๐ณ