Durga

Some how I am not liking her. Though I pity her for whatever had happened with her, (we dont know what) for some reason she is really annoying.. I never thought it like this before, but now I feel her actions, the way she is crying seeing Meera/Dharam etc.. the way she falls on Meera's feet etc.. is too much to handle..If Dharam has abandoned her long time ago, if he has treated her so badly, why is she acting like this.. as if Dharam loves her and Meera did a favor to get out of his life... ufff..

Originally posted by: ani_gr

Some how I am not liking her. Though I pity her for whatever had happened with her, (we dont know what) for some reason she is really annoying.. I never thought it like this before, but now I feel her actions, the way she is crying seeing Meera/Dharam etc.. the way she falls on Meera's feet etc.. is too much to handle..If Dharam has abandoned her long time ago, if he has treated her so badly, why is she acting like this.. as if Dharam loves her and Meera did a favor to get out of his life... ufff..<div></div>

If she truly loved dharam and knowing he has never loved her and loves Meera she should show some self respect and ask dharam for a divorce.

Agree.. if he did not treat her the way he should have, she should have just gone away from his life..

For me, Durga is neither fighting for her right nor she is she asking dharam for divorce. That is disgusting.

Frankly I feel Durga's character is unnecessary in this serial.

Even Sharavan is to be blamed. Why does he want his mum to be with someone who doesn't love her.

It's wrong to blame her alone.

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

It's wrong to blame her alone.

That's the story of almost all marriages of this show. Every marriage of this show is far from perfect. Except Hetal-Chirag, give me name of any couple and I would give you reasons to seperate them.

There is no equality in this show. If husband is normal like parag or jeetu, their wivez are bossy. If wife is simple like Gopi or Durga, their respective husbands have never treated them like human.

If dharam wants to seperate then he should take a stand.

Originally posted by: xPalkix

I personally don't blame Durga, for me she doesn't have a mind of her own so she can't think for anyone. Not even herself. But if she's going to be happy when two people are sacrificing their relationship for her, then that is selfish. People like Sharavan and vidhya need to give her the right advice and make her understand that being independent isn't wrong.

If Dharam took a stand, he would be called a bad person for ditching her.

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

Vidya should be the last person giving any wise advice in relationship. Her own father cheated on her mom. She never asked her mom to move on and stop trying to please that worthless man. She would look like a hypocrite with any such gyaan.

Shravan should do something but any wise advice would screw up his own life. His wife would become his mausi if those 2 sacrificing devta ever got legally married.

May be he should ask his mom to leave his dad without divorce.