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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: xPalkix

I said vidhya because she cares for Durga genuinely. Apart from Shravans and Vidhya, who else gives Durga the right respect she deserves? And Gopi too of course.
Vidhya looks like a hypocrite anyway, she told Meera she'd support her if she ever fell in love with Meera. And now she's okay with two people giving up their love for a loveless marriage.

So to save his own skin, Sharavan should just let his mum be a marriage where the couple don't even talk properly to each other. Let three people sacrifice for him. But that's expected from him, he did that with vidhya and Modis to get his mum back.
And telling his mum to divorce Dharam doesn't mean Dheera will have licence to get back together. Like how Meera thought about Durga, she'd think about her sister too.

He should let his parents as they are for Vidya.

Vidya is not some use and throw material. Now, he should put Vidya above his parents. It was mistake of his parents they stayed in marriage for so long, they didn't seperate on right time. There is no guarantee of dheera, till yesterday they were vamps planning and plotting murders, suddenly they turned into saints and who know? Tomorrow again if they go back to their originality and say 'behen and beta should go to hell, let's enjoy' Durga is like protection. Shravan should not take any such step and become a culprit of Vidya one more time.

If dharam wants to seperate, he should take a stand, he should become a bad person, he should accept that he is a bigamist and a cheater. Why should Vidya and Shravan take any stand for them? Meera never thought twice while getting married that it would affect her sister and stupid dharam became a bigamist just to take revenge of his fractured leg. Now his entire life is a fracture. Good for him and he deserves it.

Coming to Durga, her life story is simple. Her husband had few night stands with her just to make her pregnant. After she conceived and delivered a child, she was useless for her husband. Now divorce or no divorce doesn't matter to her. She can't get over with her husband. Divorce is just matter of surname change for her. If she is happy just looking at dharam and with his name, let her be. Her life and her wish. It's just matter of choice. Being a doormat is not a crime.

Edited by Divine-Pearl - 9 years ago

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kavita

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: xPalkix
Even Sharavan is to be blamed. Why does he want his mum to be with someone who doesn't love her.
Meera showed she is much wiser and mature than Durga. She's younger but she realised that you can't have three in a marriage. Just shows that despite Durga being older, Meera is more sensible and acting more like a responsible person.

Shravan cannot be fully blamed. Just like other children, Shravan too wants his parents to be together which is ideal for him. If at all he wants to leave the house taking Vidya and. his mom with him, it means that he cannot expect his dad to reunite with Durga.

If Meera has sacrificed, it is a good thing she did. One cannot build their house on other persons ashes. She told Durga that she did favor to herself.

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grao

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

My point is that , I agree Durga is not be blamed alone, if she knew that Dharam is not a good husband, why put up with him ? And especially after living separately for so long, god knows for how long, she comes one day and starts crying for him? 😕.. I don't understand this. Why are CVs not showing the flash back of Durga/Dharam. We still dont know what exactly happened between them.. 😡..

Shravan & Vidya respect her because she is Shravan's mother for what has been shown so far.. Respecting her as a mother is one thing, taking non sense from Dharam and coming back after years and take more non sense is really annoying..

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Emie

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

I remember when I was little my grandfather and My grandfather mum treated my grandmother very bad
grandfather abused my grandfather and his mother thought it was good because she did not like my grandma,my grandfather threw my grandmother out of the house...
some people think it was not good for my grandmother to my grandfather beat her and her mother was not at her side
People told her to divorce to my grandfather, but she never take it and people said the same things to my grandfather also he did it never
my grandma said only that she live with him because of her children, and he is their father
which made many angry and even her own family did not understand her at all...My grandmother believed in her love and had always said that one day he will calm down and understand...my grandfather had many young girl who is always running after him...when my grandfather understands that his mother was not well and she is selfish, would not let him come when my grandmother.he was angry at his own child, which he break his relationship with his mother and asking pardon for his wife and now leved quietly...if I watch Durga and Dharam relationship which remind me of my grandfather and grandmother relationship where my grandmother had no chance to her some love to my grandfather...because his mother always came in between and my grandfather at the time to use my grandmother just for his benefit type, I mean sex, and she had no choice

Durga och Dharam

Dharam and Durga history happens to real life...where Durga had no chance to show his love for her husband because of his mother who is manipulating and certainly do not want to let Durga came close Dharam...because she just checking her advantage not even her son and grandson...Gaura only manipulates both father and son for their own benefit and they do it for her would...
I hope cv come show Flashback of Durga and Dharam history of how they had struck
Why Dharam hate her so much...

All children want to always have their parents to be together but the situation is ... always wish for children to their parents to be together...I remember my grandmother usually talk to today new generation can not fight for their love because you see people full time to give divorce to each other...
one man asks people would just say that we had given another chance and now we have the energy Not long because after 5 or 10 years hurricane not again...she usually say that you can not cope already their love and thought when you find other husband or wife, you will not have the same problem again

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@Silvertarax

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl
He should let his parents as they are for Vidya.
Vidya is not some use and throw material. Now, he should put Vidya above his parents. It was mistake of his parents they stayed in marriage for so long, they didn't seperate on right time. There is no guarantee of dheera, till yesterday they were vamps planning and plotting murders, suddenly they turned into saints and who know? Tomorrow again if they go back to their originality and say 'behen and beta should go to hell, let's enjoy' Durga is like protection. Shravan should not take any such step and become a culprit of Vidya one more time.

If dharam wants to seperate, he should take a stand, he should become a bad person, he should accept that he is a bigamist and a cheater. Why should Vidya and Shravan take any stand for them? Meera never thought twice while getting married that it would affect her sister and stupid dharam became a bigamist just to take revenge of his fractured leg. Now his entire life is a fracture. Good for him and he deserves it.

Coming to Durga, her life story is simple. Her husband had few night stands with her just to make her pregnant. After she conceived and delivered a child, she was useless for her husband. Now divorce or no divorce doesn't matter to her. She can't get over with her husband. Divorce is just matter of surname change for her. If she is happy just looking at dharam and with his name, let her be. Her life and her wish. It's just matter of choice. Being a doormat is not a crime.

If he wanted to put vidhya above everyone, why is he hiding the secret from her? And you don't forget about others just because you're married. How does that make sense?

Dharam hasn't changed, he has redeemed himself. That's what Meera has done as well. She was rude to Durga too initially but now she's changed her behaviour and attitude for the better.

And by telling his mum she's better off without Dharam, isn't putting vidhya in any trouble. In fact, Vidhya is someone who would understand and be happy for Durga.

Dharam can easily divorce Durga if he wanted to but he isn't. There is clearly something missing from the story and it probably has something to do with Shravans secret. And why should Dharam take all the blame, Meera too was involved in bigamy. But they've resolved that issue by thinking about others and taking responsibility. Even though, a paper can't wipe out your feelings and emotions, they tried to do the right thing. The only problem now is Dharam doesn't love Durga. If Dheera were wrong because it was bigamy, this marriage isn't right either. You can't just force two people together and expect things to work.

@Bold I don't think Shravans or vidhya would be effected if Durga gets a divorce but anyway...

Btw if they can't take a stand, why should Dheera? And Dharam did not marry Meera to take revenge for his fractured leg kya kuch bhi 😆 He did it because he was manipulated by his mum and because he wanted to take revenge against Kokila for unintentionally causing his uncle to commit suicide. Very different reasons.

Lol funny how you say let Durga be, it's her choice etc etc But, don't forget there are two in a marriage. If Durga deserves happiness then so does Dharam. If he isn't happy, then why should he stay in a baseless marriage? For him, title or no title, he belongs to Meera. And I personally think there is more to the story so I'm not going to comment on the 'few nights stand' point. How can you be sure that is exactly what happened? a) Shravan may not be his son. OR b) Sharavn may be his son but something happened between Durga and Dharam. OR c) your theory is correct.

Being a doormat is not a crime and I never said it was. But it's not right either. If my loved one was treated like a doormat, I would protest.

Edited by xPalkix - 9 years ago

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@Silvertarax

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: katrinasalman
Shravan cannot be fully blamed. Just like other children, Shravan too wants his parents to be together which is ideal for him. If at all he wants to leave the house taking Vidya and. his mom with him, it means that he cannot expect his dad to reunite with Durga.

If Meera has sacrificed, it is a good thing she did. One cannot build their house on other persons ashes. She told Durga that she did favor to herself.

Not fully but he can be partly blamed. No child wants their parents separated you're right but if there is no life in the marriage then what's the use?

Of course Durga is not at full fault either, it's Dharam too for not setting both of them free.

@Bold This can be applied to Durga as well.

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@Silvertarax

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Emie

Dharam and Durga history happens to real life...where Durga had no chance to show his love for her husband because of his mother who is manipulating and certainly do not want to let Durga came close Dharam...because she just checking her advantage not even her son and grandson...Gaura only manipulates both father and son for their own benefit and they do it for her would...
I hope cv come show Flashback of Durga and Dharam history of how they had struck
Why Dharam hate her so much...

All children want to always have their parents to be together but the situation is ... always wish for children to their parents to be together...I remember my grandmother usually talk to today new generation can not fight for their love because you see people full time to give divorce to each other...
one man asks people would just say that we had given another chance and now we have the energy Not long because after 5 or 10 years hurricane not again...she usually say that you can not cope already their love and thought when you find other husband or wife, you will not have the same problem again

I hope they show the full story too cus it's difficult to argue 'correctly' as for now.

You're grandmother is right, more and more people are using divorce as a quick option to resolve things. There's this saying that in the olden days, if things broke, they would fix it. Whereas, now we just resort to discarding things completely.

My point for Durga and Dharam's case is that there is no love and I don't think there ever was. So her things haven't just broken, they never were together to begin with.

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grao

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

I feel that CVs dont even know how they want to show Durga, they are still probably writing a story for her.. 😆

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kavita

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: xPalkix

Not fully but he can be partly blamed. No child wants their parents separated you're right but if there is no life in the marriage then what's the use?
Of course Durga is not at full fault either, it's Dharam too for not setting both of them free.
@Bold This can be applied to Durga as well.

We still don't know what happened between Dharam and Durga as that is yet to unfold. Gaura taunted Vidya that despite the loveless marriage, Durga gave her Shravan but what about her getting a child from Shravan.

Meera told Dharam that Durga is his legally wedded wife no matter what. She herself admitted that she came between them. So the sentence which you have highlighted in bold is applicable to Meera. But she realized her mistake & doing what is right. That is the redemption for her.

Coming to Durga, I would say that she should take a stand. She should either fight for her right or walk out of Dharam's life. But if she does not divorce him, it will still affect Meera.

Edited by katrinasalman - 9 years ago

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CoffeeCake

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: xPalkix

If he wanted to put vidhya above everyone, why is he hiding the secret from her? And you don't forget about others just because you're married. How does that make sense?
Dharam hasn't changed, he has redeemed himself. That's what Meera has done as well. She was rude to Durga too initially but now she's changed her behaviour and attitude for the better.
And by telling his mum she's better off without Dharam, isn't putting vidhya in any trouble. In fact, Vidhya is someone who would understand and be happy for Durga.

Dharam can easily divorce Durga if he wanted to but he isn't. There is clearly something missing from the story and it probably has something to do with Shravans secret. And why should Dharam take all the blame, Meera too was involved in bigamy. But they've resolved that issue by thinking about others and taking responsibility. Even though, a paper can't wipe out your feelings and emotions, they tried to do the right thing. The only problem now is Dharam doesn't love Durga. If Dheera were wrong because it was bigamy, this marriage isn't right either. You can't just force two people together and expect things to work.
@Bold I don't think Shravans or vidhya would be effected if Durga gets a divorce but anyway...
Btw if they can't take a stand, why should Dheera? And Dharam did not marry Meera to take revenge for his fractured leg kya kuch bhi 😆 He did it because he was manipulated by his mum and because he wanted to take revenge against Kokila for unintentionally causing his uncle to commit suicide. Very different reasons.

Lol funny how you say let Durga be, it's her choice etc etc But, don't forget there are two in a marriage. If Durga deserves happiness then so does Dharam. If he isn't happy, then why should he stay in a baseless marriage? For him, title or no title, he belongs to Meera. And I personally think there is more to the story so I'm not going to comment on the 'few nights stand' point. How can you be sure that is exactly what happened? a) Shravan may not be his son. OR b) Sharavn may be his son but something happened between Durga and Dharam. OR c) your theory is correct.

Being a doormat is not a crime and I never said it was. But it's not right either. If my loved one was treated like a doormat, I would protest.

All redemption saga reminds me about Rashi, her redemption never stayed for long time. I never had any issue with her coz she used to plan and plot against idiot kokila and she was harmless. Redemption goes in gutter in this show once they get whatever they want. I am not saying dheera would definitely turn negative again but there are chances of them going back to their originality. Divorce won't make any difference for Durga, not like she would get 20 years younger guy like dharam got, even if she gets she would not fall in love and get married.

Dharam deserves happiness? When he was not happy? His happiness was in dedicating his entire life to his mother and he did that. How much more happiness?

I agree if in a marriage if 2 people are not happy then better to seperate but dharam was not happy from last 10 years. Why didn't he get divorce in those 10 years? He was happily living seperate but still married and after finding meera he suddenly realised he was never happily married. 😆 Or he never wanted to free Durga, so that her mom can blackmail shravan to marry Kokila's grand daughter? If that is the case he deserves what he is getting now. For divorce both partner should agree. If Durga doesn't want divorce, case would go in court and in court it won't be hard to prove dharam is a bigamist. Then instead of going on honeymoon with meera, he would go on jail tour. 😆

Secret? Could you elaborate? Shravan is doing no injustice with his mom, divorce won't change anything for his mom but it would change much for Vidya. Let them remain married at least for his relationship. Dharam wanted him to marry Vidya for revenge of Gaura and he did it, he used Vidya for this revenge even if it was against his wish, he can't keep playing with Vidya just to keep his father happy. What if after few years dharam demands kokila? He would start behaving like he is not happy with meera and kokila was never happy with parag coz of his unemployment. Does it mean shravan should think both couple are not happy, lets seperate them and make a new couple from broken couple? You cant keep giving dharam everything in thrname of his happiness. (Kokila one was just an example) AND best way to control dharam is not to give him freedom from Durga. If dharam wants divorce then he should become a bad person and take it. If meera wants dharam then she should become shameless and ask for it. No way shravan and Vidya should give them on platter.

To me it looked like he was more annoyed with fracture otherwise he would never fall in love with grand daughter of a lady who killed her uncle in la la land of her mother. Redemption doesn't mean you have to fall in love. Now, where is respect for her dead uncle?

Good if you have faith that there is some untold story. I don't get any sign of hidden story. And they won't waste time on dheera. This show cvs can't think beyond koki and Gopi. After exposing fake koki, they would bring fake gopi and same nonsense continues. Modis won't get freedom from trouble and Dharam would never stop doing havan for there protection, one day he would turn an official poojari.

Edited by Divine-Pearl - 9 years ago

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