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pamela01

@pamela01

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Posted: 9 years ago

Kokila is unbelievable. She never accepted the truth when Ahem was accusing Gopi. kokila is the person who is responsible for all the hurt in the Modis life. If she had not given permission and agreed to Vidya's marriage then the present problems would not have been created.

Kokila gave vidya permission to return to her In Laws home but she never admitted that to Ahem neither did Hetal. or Baa.

Kokila uses everyone to her advantage. I agree with Ahem. Gopi think about others rather than her own children and husband. She does whatever she wants without thinking of what the outcome might be.. Vidya is following in Gopi's footsteps.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: pamela01
Kokila is unbelievable. She never accepted the truth when Ahem was accusing Gopi. kokila is the person who is responsible for all the hurt in the Modis life. If she had not given permission and agreed to Vidya's marriage then the present problems would not have been created.
Kokila gave vidya permission to return to her In Laws home but she never admitted that to Ahem neither did Hetal. or Baa.

Kokila uses everyone to her advantage. I agree with Ahem. Gopi think about others rather than her own children and husband. She does whatever she wants without thinking of what the outcome might be.. Vidya is following in Gopi's footsteps.

It was Kokila who gave the permission to Vidya. Not Gopi. Gopi neither wanted to give Vidya to that family nor she wanted to send Vidya back.

Gopi also called Ahem to tell this to him but he didn't pick the call. So how is she responsible for it? Even if Ahem gets to know that it was kokila who sent her he will accept it. When Gopi told Meera and Vidya to pack their luggage and come with them, Ahem was fine with that.

Yes, Gopi thought about others but in this case, it was her own daughter, Meera. How does she come under others?

Just because Ahem disowned Meera, it does not change the fact that Meera is their daughter.

As a father, it is his duty to stand for Meera too. He is not only Vidya's dad but also Meera's.

Agree that Meera is a brat but it was also Ahem who is responsible for it.

He didn't tell the truth about Radha to Meera. On the contrary, he brought the old story though he knows that Radha was behind Meera's 8 years separation from the family.

If Gopi interferes in other's business, what about Ahem? Even he sent Jigar abroad for few days or weeks when Paridhi asked for her own child.

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MADHYAMAVATHI

@MADHYAMAVATHI

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Posted: 9 years ago

Brat is too mild a word for Meera. For all the deeds she has done , and still doing, she does not deserve any sympathy . Yes being a mother Gopi may feel for her. But even if their own children cross the limits and continue to do wrong deeds and harm others, how long should the parents tolerate. And with all this, the idea of sending Vidya to bring back Meera, is not to bring Meera on the right path. The family never made an attempt to tell Meera the truth and Gopi was only trying to cover up for Meera. At this rate even if Meera is brought back she will continue her behaviour and will not mend or realize as no one in the Modi family will attempt to correct her. I cant but help agree with Ahem in this aspect. Only if the family shows disregard for Meera and leaves to her fate will she realize her mistakes. When Gaura realizes that the Modi family is no longer concerned about Meera , she will also leave her from her trap.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI
Brat is too mild a word for Meera. For all the deeds she has done , and still doing, she does not deserve any sympathy . Yes being a mother Gopi may feel for her. But even if their own children cross the limits and continue to do wrong deeds and harm others, how long should the parents tolerate. And with all this, the idea of sending Vidya to bring back Meera, is not to bring Meera on the right path. The family never made an attempt to tell Meera the truth and Gopi was only trying to cover up for Meera. At this rate even if Meera is brought back she will continue her behaviour and will not mend or realize as no one in the Modi family will attempt to correct her. I cant but help agree with Ahem in this aspect. Only if the family shows disregard for Meera and leaves to her fate will she realize her mistakes. When Gaura realizes that the Modi family is no longer concerned about Meera , she will also leave her from her trap.

Yes, Meera crossed her limits. But she was away from her family for 18 years. She is/was more close to her father as she was with him for 10 years.

More than anyone else, Ahem should have told the truth to Meera about Gopi & apologized to her for lying to her when she asked him about Gopi the first time.

When Kokila decided to take Meera's responsibility, Ahem left the entire burden to her. It was that Kokila kagadi who let Vidya to Gaura's place & convinced Gopi the same. Ahem didn't pick the call or call back when Gopi called him to tell him about this matter.

He should be blaming Kokila for this instead of Gopi. Kokila is the main culprit but in Ahem's eyes, Kokila is always right & even if he gets to know that it was Vidya's decision & Kokila agreed to it Ahem still won't say anything to her.

How did he even consider Gaura's proposal for Vidya in the first place? Gopi was not at all keen in that relationship but did he stand by her?

When Gopi wanted to convey about Karunesh to Kokila, ahem only supported her when Dharam started yelling at her but did he stand by her when Kokila confronted her?

If they had prevented this wedding, Meera would not have taken this step.

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MADHYAMAVATHI

@MADHYAMAVATHI

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Yes, Meera crossed her limits. But she was away from her family for 18 years. She is/was more close to her father as she was with him for 10 years.

More than anyone else, Ahem should have told the truth to Meera about Gopi & apologized to her for lying to her when she asked him about Gopi the first time.

When Kokila decided to take Meera's responsibility, Ahem left the entire burden to her. It was that Kokila kagadi who let Vidya to Gaura's place & convinced Gopi the same. Ahem didn't pick the call or call back when Gopi called him to tell him about this matter.

He should be blaming Kokila for this instead of Gopi. Kokila is the main culprit but in Ahem's eyes, Kokila is always right & even if he gets to know that it was Vidya's decision & Kokila agreed to it Ahem still won't say anything to her.

How did he even consider Gaura's proposal for Vidya in the first place? Gopi was not at all keen in that relationship but did he stand by her?

When Gopi wanted to convey about Karunesh to Kokila, ahem only supported her when Dharam started yelling at her but did he stand by her when Kokila confronted her?

If they had prevented this wedding, Meera would not have taken this step.

Meera's reason to get married to Dharam was to have an upper hand over her sister. It was out of pure jealousy which was aptly use by Gaura to entrap her. Meera did not marry Dharam to protect Vidya from Suryavanshi family. Yes the Modi family did not listen to Meera about the marriage. But how did Meera's getting married to Dharam help her or her family. She has unnecessarily complicated the whole matter.

Ahem is wrong in not revealing the truth to Meera. But Meera did come to know later that Gopi was in jail when she was away from them for 10 years and not for any other reason. When Vidya who knew the truth about Gopi could accept her why could Meera not do the same.

Meera was away from her family for only 8 years and not 18 years. The 10 years separation was only with her extended family and her mother which even Vidya and Ahem went through.

There is no excuse for Meera's behaviour. And the reason that she would have been different if Ahem had told the truth is ridiculous. If you are prejudiced and blind and do not want to see the truth, whoever tells the truth does not matter.

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kavita

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI
Meera's reason to get married to Dharam was to have an upper hand over her sister. It was out of pure jealousy which was aptly use by Gaura to entrap her. Meera did not marry Dharam to protect Vidya from Suryavanshi family. Yes the Modi family did not listen to Meera about the marriage. But how did Meera's getting married to Dharam help her or her family. She has unnecessarily complicated the whole matter.

Ahem is wrong in not revealing the truth to Meera. But Meera did come to know later that Gopi was in jail when she was away from them for 10 years and not for any other reason. When Vidya who knew the truth about Gopi could accept her why could Meera not do the same.

Meera was away from her family for only 8 years and not 18 years. The 10 years separation was only with her extended family and her mother which even Vidya and Ahem went through.

There is no excuse for Meera's behaviour. And the reason that she would have been different if Ahem had told the truth is ridiculous. If you are prejudiced and blind and do not want to see the truth, whoever tells the truth does not matter.

@bold: Meera came to know that part of it but she also came to know through that letter that Gopi had accidentally dropped her on the pond. She didn't know that Radha was behind it & how will she even know? She was a toddler but no one told her about that part.

And Ahem instead of telling her the other side of that incident is now blaming Gopi on the contrary even after knowing that Radha was behind it. That is very much disgusting.

In all Meera was away from her mother & extended family for 18 years. She has been deprived of motherly love. At least Vidya was with her mom for 8 years.

Gopi brought up Vidya single-handedly but Ahem could not bring them up in the same way. Meera can be easily manipulated by people.

First, it was Mansi & now it is Gaura. Meera herself didn't like that family. She would not have married Dharam if Vidya had not married Shravan.

As for the upper hand, it was Gaura who manipulated her & she fell in that trap. And that lady (Gaura) continues to do that.

By the way what was the hurry in getting Vidya married? She had just crossed 18 years & a college going student. She does not have any knowledge about the outside world. Actually, the CV's shouldn't have brought this track.

They should have brought the storyline in which the children go to the college & enjoy the college life.

When Kokila agreed to let Vidya go to her sasuraal to bring Meera back, why should Ahem blame Gopi for that?

When Gopi wanted to tell him about this matter over the phone, why didn't Ahem pick the call?

Kokila also told that if they tell him now, he won't let Vidya go. So Kokila is the culprit. But if Ahem can throw his temper on somebody in the house, it is only Gopi irrespective of whether she is a culprit or not.

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ramyagopal2691

@ramyagopal2691

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Posted: 9 years ago

i agree with u sharoon.. meera didnt get good guidance in her life... she was manipulated by everyone.. and when gaura was insultin meera , kokila locked her in room and prohibited from attending vidya's function and they completely ignored meera.. ahem is fully responsible for this as he didnt say what happened with meera what radha did to her.. if he told meera would have accepted gopi.. but i think ahem doesnot care about meera's hatred towards gopi.. he let it go. because he also blames gopi for everything.. if ahem genuinely loved gopi when meera was insulting gopi did wrong thing to gopi he would have told the truth and patched meera up with gopi.. but i think ahem wanted meera to hate gopi lifelong in his deep down... but i dnt want when meera comes to know this truth she cry very badly all alone. atleast gopi should be with her. because she is not at fault when a person doesnot get mother love and family love good guidance everyone will be like meera only.. as far as vidya she got his mom love for 8 years she was not all alone in her life gopi gave good guidance and raised alone so vidya loves her mom.. but for meera 8 years she was orphan next 10 years with ahem and mansi.. she learnt everything anger and ego from ahem and hated gopi because of ahem's lie.. when meera was 10 years that time only every kid will learn good values but meera learnt everything from ahem... i hope when meera comes to know everything they make sure gopi and family with her

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ramyagopal2691
i agree with u sharoon.. meera didnt get good guidance in her life... she was manipulated by everyone.. and when gaura was insultin meera , kokila locked her in room and prohibited from attending vidya's function and they completely ignored meera.. ahem is fully responsible for this as he didnt say what happened with meera what radha did to her.. if he told meera would have accepted gopi.. but i think ahem doesnot care about meera's hatred towards gopi.. he let it go. because he also blames gopi for everything.. if ahem genuinely loved gopi when meera was insulting gopi did wrong thing to gopi he would have told the truth and patched meera up with gopi.. but i think ahem wanted meera to hate gopi lifelong in his deep down... but i dnt want when meera comes to know this truth she cry very badly all alone. atleast gopi should be with her. because she is not at fault when a person doesnot get mother love and family love good guidance everyone will be like meera only.. as far as vidya she got his mom love for 8 years she was not all alone in her life gopi gave good guidance and raised alone so vidya loves her mom.. but for meera 8 years she was orphan next 10 years with ahem and mansi.. she learnt everything anger and ego from ahem and hated gopi because of ahem's lie.. when meera was 10 years that time only every kid will learn good values but meera learnt everything from ahem... i hope when meera comes to know everything they make sure gopi and family with her

Ahem knows only to shout & slap. When Meera was insulting & abusing Gopi, Ahem only told her to mind her tongue & was about to raise his hand on her. But that does not solve the problem.

Even Kokila did the same thing. No one bothers to tell her how she fell in the pond & it was Radha who made Gopi to lose her balance.

Ahem didn't marry Mansi because he knows that she won't accept the crap that he gives to Gopi. She won't be a punching bag for him whereas Gopi has been a punching bag for him.

Gopi only retaliates against Ahem when they are not in good terms. Once they patch up, she comes back to her doormat avataar.

As for Ahem's love, he does not love anyone except himself & his mom.

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Mila

@Millerrr88

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI
Brat is too mild a word for Meera. For all the deeds she has done , and still doing, she does not deserve any sympathy . Yes being a mother Gopi may feel for her. But even if their own children cross the limits and continue to do wrong deeds and harm others, how long should the parents tolerate. And with all this, the idea of sending Vidya to bring back Meera, is not to bring Meera on the right path. The family never made an attempt to tell Meera the truth and Gopi was only trying to cover up for Meera. At this rate even if Meera is brought back she will continue her behaviour and will not mend or realize as no one in the Modi family will attempt to correct her. I cant but help agree with Ahem in this aspect. Only if the family shows disregard for Meera and leaves to her fate will she realize her mistakes. When Gaura realizes that the Modi family is no longer concerned about Meera , she will also leave her from her trap.

omg yes...agreed!!! 👏

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Millerrr88

omg yes...agreed!!! 👏

@bold: If that is the case, then what about Ahem and Kinjal? They too have done many wrong things. For that matter, even Kokila should give up on Ahem & Kinjal. But did she ever do that? Even Kokila tolerated every atrocity that Ahem had done to Gopi. He has been crude & rude to Gopi.

Even after making up with her, he didn't want to take Meera's responsibility when Gopi was carrying her in her womb. Yes, Kokila had disowned her but forgave him when he realized his mistake.

When Ahem left the family taking the girls with him, Kokila could have given up on him but she didn't. She was hoping & looking forward to Gopi coming back & setting everything right. Otherwise, she could have kept Gopi as her own daughter & got her remarried or made her independent by motivating her to focus on her achar business.

But she didn't do that.

What was the need for her to serve Urmila? She could have spoken to Urmila and sent Kinjal back to Urmila.

She could have given up on Kinjal when she started her kalakaris to stay in MB. But she didn't.

Meera is after all Ahem's blood & his product. She has got his traits and whatever Ahem did to his family, he is getting it back from Meera.

Why the girls are suffering at their in-laws place? It is because Ahem himself is unpredictable towards Gopi. He becomes mean to her as per his whims.

Newton's law of gravity is right. For every action, there is an equal & opposite reaction and that is what is happening with Ahem now.

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