Don't you feel ashamed?......

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

The marriage of Vidya Shravan was Kokila's fault.

Meera/Dharam (sic) was Meera's fault.

Even Gaura's revenge saga can be understood. though unclear. Before it was Kokila blaming Karunesh for trying to misbehave with a village girl. Now it changed to misbehaving with Jigna .

Now yesterday Gaura says Kokila refused Karunesh's proposal for Jigna.If that is the reason it is stupid of Gaura to take revenge for such a small thing.

and then this Ladkiwale ladkawala etc is getting to be crap. So what the marriage has happened? Take Vidya out and get out of the house.

They talk like Vidya's life is gone . It is so stupid to show such nonsense on tv.

Meera's marriage is Meera's mistake.

Dharam is married. He has a wife . Shravan's mom. how can he marry Meera ? It is mot even legal.

Disgusting Meera is married to Dharam. Disgusting they try to show it like a love story. They show a fist wife that too behaving this way.

Originally posted by: zainabawoon

As far as dharam's first wife is concerned we cannot jump into conclusions about that cuz a large part of that story is still to be revealed, we have no idea about dharam's past so lets wait till the cvs reveal it before pointing fingers at him. And as far as dheera are concerned , they are both legally adults (20/40/60 or even if they were 120) as long as they both consented to marriage by their own will without being forced then we have no right to question their decision.it is their right. And just saying even if dharam was still married to his first wife there is nothing alienating about it, its nothing new in society (i can mention the names of a number of popular very good human beings who have two wives)and in today's society at that where people are in living-in relationships and are giving birth to children without a marriage liscene. people who belive in the sacredness of marriage and are in relationships bound by it and are giving the woman the dignity and respect of being a wife and not a mistress should be respected. The only thing I find wrong is that meera didnt know dharam had a first wife but then again we need to know the whole story before making assumptions. What I feel is that people in society should open up their eyes and see things with a broader view that extends beyond their own beleifs, culture or religion , we should learn to let go of our predjudices then and only then can we grow as a person.

Originally posted by: Xarina

I do think that Dharam is not ideal husband material. A puppet of his mother in her schemes it looks like he mistreated his first wife and does not have respect for women. Like I said previously, I'm not a fan of Dheera. Meera has entered this 'marriage' for all the wrong reasons. The outcome does not look good for her. I agree that if they are consenting adults then fair enough but I see this marriage as coercion, which is a type of force, and Meera played into Gaura and dharams hands.

Is it really right for a man to have two wives when society does not allow a woman the same? If you were a first wife how would you feel?

Originally posted by: Xarina

I do think that Dharam is not ideal husband material. A puppet of his mother in her schemes it looks like he mistreated his first wife and does not have respect for women. Like I said previously, I'm not a fan of Dheera. Meera has entered this 'marriage' for all the wrong reasons. The outcome does not look good for her. I agree that if they are consenting adults then fair enough but I see this marriage as coercion, which is a type of force, and Meera played into Gaura and dharams hands.

Is it really right for a man to have two wives when society does not allow a woman the same? If you were a first wife how would you feel?

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

@bold: Exactly! It is always said that man can marry as many times as he wants but a woman can marry only once. That is without divorce.

I am also not a Dheera fan. However, Meera thinks that she is too smart & can handle anything. I still doubt whether she would be able to tackle both Gaura & Dharam.

She is not an expert in kalakaris like Urmila & Rashi. Yes, Meera had agreed to marry Dharam & vice versa. However, it is a force in a way.

Meera agreed only because of her hunger for power & Dharam agreed only because of Gaura. So how can it be their free will?

Originally posted by: Xarina

I do think that Meera has bitten off more than she can chew. She's burnt her bridges with Ahem and played into Gaura's hands. Galling thing is, is that if she does come to her senses she'll be welcomed back no questions asked.