Originally posted by: ani_gr
It is really astonishing that every one said she is bachchi and she does not understand.. na samajh hai.. my foot.. so she does not get punished...😡... Kokila.. what to say.. meri golu polu...😡.. Gopi less said the better.. hated this so much...
It is hard on a human being when the kid they brought up with so much love and care did something very horrible. The mind refuses to believe it. Much less accept it . when others try to punish the kid severely they oppose it.
Kokila finds it difficult to accept the fact that the small kid did so much. But acting stupidly singing loris and saying the kid is their responsibility that is wrong. Denial is what Kokila is going through. And her mind denies the fact that Rashi jr tried to do all that.
The kid is intellgent she will not do it again. She is not a criminal . Nor is she gandha khoon. Manhandling the kid showing hatred towards the kid like Paridhi does it is not right. Throwing her out in the middle of the night that too is not right.
Speaking to her asking her why she did what she did and making her understand firmly but in a nice way the facts that is what they should do.
Paridhi I am sad to say did wrong by speaking loudly in the presence of the kid. Paridhi for that matter is wrong in not letting the kid come inside the house
I cannot understand the Modis reactions. Paridhi was given the responsiblity of the child when Radha was there pregnant. They gave it to her just so that Radha does not claim any right as Jigar's wife.
Paridhi accepted it. Just like singing loris they had this ceremony laborious and time consuming. And then Gopi killed Radha and went to jail
When she came back Paridhi not only did not take care of the child but also did not let the child inside MB.
Conflicting and confusing. Paridhi knew even during godh bharai the kid was Radha's and agreed to take care of it. She even ran behind the kid along with Jigar in Omkareshwar crying . After all that drama she coolly did not let Kokila Kokila of all people bring the kid inside the house.
And they let her do it. Not just that she shows so much hatred towards the kid all the time. saying Radha ki beti.
Agreed she took responsiblity of the house but she speaks too soon. And she does not have the patience that Gopi has in handling things. She is silly and stupid on many occasions showing lack of understanding the situation. For example the kheer scene. How dose she think she can serve only Jigar and leave out Rashi when the kid is also sitting there? Gopi would not have done such a thing. One can have any kind of opinion in their mind but to show it openly to a small child is very wrong. Acting mean towards the kid calling her gandha khoon etc pulling the kid's hand ( I do not understand what the thing is with cvs they show every person out there trying to pull others by hand dragging them by the hand etc.) Paridhi is educated. She did "research" on joint family. One would expect her to behave with more tact and restraint as befitting her age and educational background. She behaves like a silly uneducated woman by saying gandha khoon , Radha ki beti etc. It does not matter whose beti it is . Rashi jr is a kid and should be treated as such and not differentiated. or made to feel different.
and she is hot tempered and when she is angry she says horrible things. She shows hatred towards the kid saying it is Radha's khoon. That is not good enough reason. She took care of Tolu/Molu only to impress Jigar and the Modis. And she agreed to take care of Rashi jr during godh bharai just to compete with Radha and impress Jigar. her goal is achieved and her position in MB was secured when Gopi went to prision and Radha was dead and gone and she threw Rashi jr out promptly. The reason ? gandha khoon , Radha ki beti etc. etc.
And she showed so much attitude to the kid whenever she had the opportunity to meet the kid.
She spoke bluntly to the kid about Radha clearing the misconceptions that is correct . But the rest of her behaviour is wrong.
When Paridhi is too rude and nasty towards Rashi jr Kokila and Gopi are behaving stupidly towards the kid..
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago