Originally posted by: ani_gr
I agree.. Gopi should leave immediately and also take Rashi with her to an unknown place...
Kokila throwing Gopi...was shocking.. but I am thinking she is just acting as if she is hating her, but she wants her to go and live her life... I may be wrong..😕
Yes, she is serious as she does not wish to leave Rajkot. What Paridhi said to Gopi was correct. She told Gopi that Kokila does not want to give her place to any other woman.
Gopi didn't fight for her right. She could have filed a case on Ahem if needed. Kokila would not have minded that as long as he comes to the track.
We all say that Gopi should have her self respect and should not be after Ahem and we are right from our viewpoint.
There is a saying that if you love someone, let him fly wherever he wants. If he returns to you then, he is yours. If they don't return, then he was never yours. (For the males, it is opposite.)
Gopi has always followed that policy but Kokila does not follow that policy because of her controlling nature.
Even or any other woman like Rashi, Paridhi or even Radha never follow that policy.
In Kokila's viewpoint, is not only with respect to her husband should Gopi be alert. She should be alert in every aspect and be on her toes all the time. All that she wants to convey is that she does not want Gopi to give up. She wants Gopi to solve her problems independently. She gave an example of Krishna & Arjun that the former only drove the chariot but the latter fought the entire battle single-handedly.
When Gopi can solve others problems, why can't she solve hers? Forget about her immediate family, Gopi does not even care for herself.
She slapped Ahem for Kokila but not for herself.
Gopi and Ahem are matured couples and they should sort out their differences.
Edited by sharoon3210 - 10 years ago