Originally posted by: DivineDarkness
Well i too lived in joint family but i havent seen my aunt's interfere when my mom do something for me neither my mom interfere when they do something for their kids(my cousin's)... Living in joint family doesnt mean you have to give up your individual space and freedom...
Rashi didnt gave ice-cream to Meera & Vidya coz she knows Gopi don't like it... Rashi respected Gopi's decision for her kids.. fair enough..Same way Gopi shouldn't interfere when Rashi does something for her kids...
The outcome of Gopi's action will be either kids( Tolu-Molu) losing respect for Rashi, or they start to dislike Gopi and the warmth and love kid's have amongst themselves will be lost...
True true 😆 Rashi can completely spoil her children how they were just starting of the leap, Complete monkeys and 🤬...and they were not in one percent of control under her ..I think people doesn't have amnesia ...so that was rashi doing all her responsibilities as a mother and growing kids like those 😲.tolu molu are spoiled brat from beginning and rashi made them ..and one more thing to tell you privacy is one thing and well wishing is another thing ..do u think rashi gave them chocolates to kids because they like them??? Hahha ...she just gave to show she is their mother And have more control over them than gopi ...if she ever cared about kids then kids could have not failed exams and came to pappu class, they could have not send to hostel, they could not have send out from school...Nonsense ...rashi just needs to walk over gopi as she is always doing since marraige may be since childhood so now she can't tolerate gopi having her own terms ..that's it ..
And what did u say ?? Rashi made gohem meet after eight years ?? Really she wanted gopi to come? Then why was she searching a naukrani to marry with ahem ?? No she was just searching who will take her work burden, and she knew very well if Radha marries ahem she can no longer have the control over modi's money ...she will loss everything ...that's the reason she was searching somebody who can replace Radha ...she was supporting gopi in the whole thing because she knew once gopi leaves Radha will be the malkin, and she also was touched by gopi saving her from fire ...that's true ...she is not a bad person, but she is not definitely the best sister and mother and bahu also like all are trying to portray...
Of course one mother can give anything to her child ,but there is a difference between a spoilt children tolu molu and well behaved and disciplined kids vidya...trust me ...if rashi doesn't become firm to them, they will walk over her as they were doing just starting ...was she capable to rectify them???
And gopi is teaching kids wrong ?? What rashi is teaching ?? To lie?.u r thinking about tolumolu and what about vidya ???how she got humiliated by rashi that she is telling lies when she is not ...chi...rashi has done these for years with gopi .,now with vidya ...when kids are small, in house elders be it grandma, or badi maa, always say to give good things and not to give much chocolates and ice creams , as it's not that good ...that doesn't mean they are trying to take kids from mother...ridiculous ...I guess if rashi needs these much privacy she should get separated with jigar and kids ,she needs to talk to her husband and take an action instead of making differences between kids ...sigh !!!!
Edited by basuanasuya - 11 years ago