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basuanasuya thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

Well i too lived in joint family but i havent seen my aunt's interfere when my mom do something for me neither my mom interfere when they do something for their kids(my cousin's)... Living in joint family doesnt mean you have to give up your individual space and freedom...

Rashi didnt gave ice-cream to Meera & Vidya coz she knows Gopi don't like it... Rashi respected Gopi's decision for her kids.. fair enough..Same way Gopi shouldn't interfere when Rashi does something for her kids...
The outcome of Gopi's action will be either kids( Tolu-Molu) losing respect for Rashi, or they start to dislike Gopi and the warmth and love kid's have amongst themselves will be lost...





True true 😆 Rashi can completely spoil her children how they were just starting of the leap, Complete monkeys and 🤬...and they were not in one percent of control under her ..I think people doesn't have amnesia ...so that was rashi doing all her responsibilities as a mother and growing kids like those 😲.tolu molu are spoiled brat from beginning and rashi made them ..and one more thing to tell you privacy is one thing and well wishing is another thing ..do u think rashi gave them chocolates to kids because they like them??? Hahha ...she just gave to show she is their mother And have more control over them than gopi ...if she ever cared about kids then kids could have not failed exams and came to pappu class, they could have not send to hostel, they could not have send out from school...Nonsense ...rashi just needs to walk over gopi as she is always doing since marraige may be since childhood so now she can't tolerate gopi having her own terms ..that's it ..

And what did u say ?? Rashi made gohem meet after eight years ?? Really she wanted gopi to come? Then why was she searching a naukrani to marry with ahem ?? No she was just searching who will take her work burden, and she knew very well if Radha marries ahem she can no longer have the control over modi's money ...she will loss everything ...that's the reason she was searching somebody who can replace Radha ...she was supporting gopi in the whole thing because she knew once gopi leaves Radha will be the malkin, and she also was touched by gopi saving her from fire ...that's true ...she is not a bad person, but she is not definitely the best sister and mother and bahu also like all are trying to portray...

Of course one mother can give anything to her child ,but there is a difference between a spoilt children tolu molu and well behaved and disciplined kids vidya...trust me ...if rashi doesn't become firm to them, they will walk over her as they were doing just starting ...was she capable to rectify them???

And gopi is teaching kids wrong ?? What rashi is teaching ?? To lie?.u r thinking about tolumolu and what about vidya ???how she got humiliated by rashi that she is telling lies when she is not ...chi...rashi has done these for years with gopi .,now with vidya ...when kids are small, in house elders be it grandma, or badi maa, always say to give good things and not to give much chocolates and ice creams , as it's not that good ...that doesn't mean they are trying to take kids from mother...ridiculous ...I guess if rashi needs these much privacy she should get separated with jigar and kids ,she needs to talk to her husband and take an action instead of making differences between kids ...sigh !!!!
Edited by basuanasuya - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: basuanasuya




True true 😆 Rashi can completely spoil her children how they were just starting of the leap, Complete monkeys and 🤬...and they were not in one percent of control under her ..I think people doesn't have amnesia ...so that was rashi doing all her responsibilities as a mother and growing kids like those 😲.tolu molu are spoiled brat from beginning and rashi made them ..and one more thing to tell you privacy is one thing and well wishing is another thing ..do u think rashi gave them chocolates to kids because they like them??? Hahha ...she just gave to show she is their mother And have more control over them than gopi ...if she ever cared about kids then kids could have not failed exams and came to pappu class, they could have not send to hostel, they could not have send out from school...Nonsense ...rashi just needs to walk over gopi as she is always doing since marraige may be since childhood so now she can't tolerate gopi having her own terms ..that's it ..

And what did u say ?? Rashi made gohem meet after eight years ?? Really she wanted gopi to come? Then why was she searching a naukrani to marry with ahem ?? No she was just searching who will take her work burden, and she knew very well if Radha marries ahem she can no longer have the control over modi's money ...she will loss everything ...that's the reason she was searching somebody who can replace Radha ...she was supporting gopi in the whole thing because she knew once gopi leaves Radha will be the malkin, and she also was touched by gopi saving her from fire ...that's true ...she is not a bad person, but she is not definitely the best sister and mother and bahu also like all are trying to portray...

And gopi is teaching kids wrong ?? What rashi is teaching ?? To lie?.u r thinking about tolumolu and what about vidya ???how she got humiliated by rashi that she is telling lies when she is not ...chi...rashi has done these for years with gopi .,now with vidya ...when kids are small, in house elders be it grandma, or badi maa, always say to give good things and not to give much chocolates and ice creams , as it's not that good ...that doesn't mean they are trying to take kids from mother...ridiculous ...I guess if rashi needs these much privacy she should get separated with jigar and kids ,she needs to talk to her husband and take an action instead of making differences between kids ...sigh !!!!



exactly...
being independent, having privacy doesnt mean u can b irresponsible towards ur kids, ur family... & educating ur kids 2 do wrong things...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: coolhi1988



exactly...
being independent, having privacy doesnt mean u can b irresponsible towards ur kids, ur family... & educating ur kids 2 do wrong things...






Very well put!! I don't make too many comments but I think Gopi must never ever forget about all the help she has received from Rashi and Urmila throughout her life...she is in MM again because of Rashi...she is alive today because of Urmila... she must never be allowed to forget any of that It is unthinkable that she is raising her voice against these two 😕

I am amazed that some are disliking this side of Gopi...probably we want her to remain subservient and grateful lifelong to Urshi? Isn't that what she has been doing forever and ever... Urmila demands this loudly but Rashi never does...she just roadrolls right over her with her actions showing complete disdain for Gopi like the keys to safe episode and then questioning her about the money in that tone of voice as if Gopi was in the wrong..

Why can't Gopi question Rashi about the icecream stains...she outright lied to Vidya and insisted on that lie in front of her...

And yes I agree completely with basuanasuya as to the reasons of gohem getting remarried!

I must stop before I go completely bonkers 😆 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simi0808

I agree, I found it really wierd that Rashi was getting so scared over chocolate ice cream. She can give her kids whatever she wants. But I am also enjoying watching Gopi dominate Rashi since she was treated like a servant by her earlier. It's fun to see the tables being turned. Rashi might be older in age but she still has to respect Gopi- not just see her as a servant.


I agree! This track is itself stupid, but I am enjoying Gopi giving Rashi a taste of her own medicine. 👏 Rashi has bullied Gopi all her life and in the very beginning of their marriage, she did so many things to create differences between Ahem and Gopi. She bossed Gopi around and bullied her, took advantage of her innocence, and now when Gopi for once is giving Rashi a taste of her own medicine, people have a problem with it?

Kokila bossing Rashi is getting damn annoying and redundant, but I definitely want to see Gopi bossing Rashi around more, and if Rashi asks Gopi why she's doing it, Gopi should throw it in her face that Rashi did the same to her her whole life. She should bring up all those examples of Rashi torturing Gopi and doing kalkaaris to make her look bad in front of Ahem. So if Gopi makes Rashi look bad in front of Tolu-Molu, it's just Rashi's deeds coming back to bite her in the butt. Many people may have forgotten Rashi's kalakaaris back when Giaa Manek was Gopi, but I haven't. Rashi did far worse things to Gopi than Gopi is doing now, yet people still love Rashi because she is "interesting". Rashi is not a negative character, but she is definitely selfish and an opportunist, so she need to be put in her place, not by Kokila but by Gopi.
Edited by ..RamKiJanaki.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: risha8

honestly today gopi is back into mb coz of rashi and kids 😡 she should be grateful to rashi instead of it she is dominating her . koki is too much over acting now a days she is the one who taunts ithers not to interfere in their family matters then what about her?? these rules are only meant for others???


1) Without Gopi, Rashi and Jigar would have divorced eight years ago. If Rashi is back in MM, it's because of Gopi.

2) Gopi was the one who saved Rashi from that Holika fire, while everyone else stood back dumbly and watched, including her own husband, so if Rashi is alive, it's because of Gopi.

Rashi may have helped Gopi, but that doesn't mean she doesn't owe her life to Gopi. Gopi's put up with Rashi's "greater than thou" attitude her whole life. For once Gopi is the one in charge and I'm loving it. Rashi needs to receive a taste of her own medicine.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with basuanasuya. Rashi doesn't know how to raise children. When Tolu-Molu were born, she was always irritated whenever they cried or made a fuss. Often it was Gopi who comforted them while Rashi rested or had "fun". After the eight years leap, it was shown that Tolu and Molu were completely spoiled by Rashi and had even turned into bullies against Prateik aka Pappu. If they became well-behaved boys, it was because of Gopi.

In a joint family, if a parent(s) are not raising their kids well, the other family members do have the right to step in and put their foot down. Gopi putting down rules and regulations for the children is necessary. Yeah, the whole chocolate/ice cream issue is taken out of proportion as usual by the CVs, but Gopi putting rules for Rashi's kids is not bad. In fact, it's necessary if they are to grown into responsible adults, or else they'll just become like their mother or maternal grandmother who only care about themselves and not others.

Rashi needs to learn to be a responsible adult and parent. She can have fun, but she should balance it with her duties as mother/DIL/wife as well. Rashi needs to grow up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Basu I dint say Rashi made Gohem together after 8ys i didnt comment on that part... So I dnt think I need to reply!
About kids part well i will read ur take and reply right now bit busy 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

@Basu I dint say Rashi made Gohem together after 8ys i didnt comment on that part... So I dnt think I need to reply!

About kids part well i will read ur take and reply right now bit busy 😳


Hehe leki, but u did say rashi always solve their problems, and ungrateful bitches and I guess that include gopi too... And now if I start writing all rashi did that can prove the opposite it will take some two three pages 😆 Take your time 😊


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: basuanasuya


Hehe leki, but u did say rashi always solve their problems, and ungrateful bitches and I guess that include gopi too... And now if I start writing all rashi did that can prove the opposite it will take some two three pages 😆 Take your time 😊


Well she did help them in solving problem's plz dont deny that😆

Well That was for Modi's i didnt include Gopi in that... said in same sentence i mentioned Gopi???😕
Remind me ok my memory power these days is pathetic👎🏼
And Essay go ahead write but I promise you I wont read😉😆 Since you quoted me i vl reply otherwise i dnt read long replies how much ever interesting it may be😳
Edited by DivineDarkness - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..


1) Without Gopi, Rashi and Jigar would have divorced eight years ago. If Rashi is back in MM, it's because of Gopi.

2) Gopi was the one who saved Rashi from that Holika fire, while everyone else stood back dumbly and watched, including her own husband, so if Rashi is alive, it's because of Gopi.

Rashi may have helped Gopi, but that doesn't mean she doesn't owe her life to Gopi. Gopi's put up with Rashi's "greater than thou" attitude her whole life. For once Gopi is the one in charge and I'm loving it. Rashi needs to receive a taste of her own medicine.


Totally agree...why only divorce...rashi could have never entered house ...when jigar n hetal have thrown her out because of sonal marriage kk ,it was gopi who insisted Koki in hospital to bring her back...when gopi does it is mahanta and when rashi does it's favour ??😲
As much as bad Radha is, it all started with rashi doing a stupid humiliating swayam kk...but gopi never listened to Radha because she trust rashi .. Now also she wanted to trust rashi over vidya about this chocolate thing but in both cases rashi at fault ...
If gopi needs to stay grateful to rashi for whatever rashi did for her , then rashi needs to be more grateful whatever gopi did for her ...it's not easy to forget all the things she did in past years ...just because she is interesting and real 😲

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