i dont think Gopi will be forgiving Ahem so soon

even after the truth comes out, i hope to see Gopi stand strong she walks away from Ahem not giving him a chance to apologise because that is not what it takes, yesterday Ahem called Gopi La pavar well now those words are going to come back n hurt ahem more. Remember the track when Gopi refused to talk to ahem when Anita was there but this one will take a lot longer, Ahem will have to get the help of the kids

I think he was taunting gopi for bring la pavar with meera hence he is now of the understanding that she la pavar with everything else. How long will ahem play the blame game with gopi, even she lost her daughter.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

I think he was taunting gopi for bring la pavar with meera hence he is now of the understanding that she la pavar with everything else. How long will ahem play the blame game with gopi, even she lost her daughter.

he has a mind set so when the truth comes out he will expect everything to go back to normal, but Gopi has heard it all, now i would love her to put kokila and Ahem in their places. A lot was said n done hence when Gopi refuses to get back with Ahem this will be a good shock to duo mother n son. I hope she tells them both that to get any galat fermi out of their minds her word sticks, She has a relationship with her daughters n family but as for Ahem she wants nothing to do with him

There's two sayings which come to mind. First is sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me." And the second is, "it's a thin line between love and hate." The first is Gopi and her attitude to a t. She puts up with all the insults and still comes back forgiving and smiling. The second is actually what I want but instead of the hate I want indifference or aloofness. I don't want Gopi to be the pushover and forgive and forget so easily. I want some attitude. What she has portrayed so far in speaking back to Radha and Ahem is a start but I want more. Whilst I understand that this is an Indian based show and that the writers cannot show a dutiful DIL being hard and unforgiving surely they can show the level of damage done to Gopi because of the events of 8 years ago. Effectively I want the death of the doormat Gopi and in her place a Gopi who stands her ground, is selfish enough for herself and her daughters and show to ahem and Kokila just how hurt that she has been because of their actions (then) and their taunts since she has returned and then in time she can turn around and declare that she will forgive but not forget.

Originally posted by: Xarina

There's two sayings which come to mind. First is sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me." And the second is, "it's a thin line between love and hate." The first is Gopi and her attitude to a t. She puts up with all the insults and still comes back forgiving and smiling. The second is actually what I want but instead of the hate I want indifference or aloofness. I don't want Gopi to be the pushover and forgive and forget so easily. I want some attitude. What she has portrayed so far in speaking back to Radha and Ahem is a start but I want more. Whilst I understand that this is an Indian based show and that the writers cannot show a dutiful DIL being hard and unforgiving surely they can show the level of damage done to Gopi because of the events of 8 years ago. Effectively I want the death of the doormat Gopi and in her place a Gopi who stands her ground, is selfish enough for herself and her daughters and show to ahem and Kokila just how hurt that she has been because of their actions (then) and their taunts since she has returned and then in time she can turn around and declare that she will forgive but not forget.

i also want the death of doormat Gopi, i dont want her hating them either , they hated her n showed it she will be polite and answer them back firmly and when kokila n Ahem roar thats when Gopi will answer back politely n walk away making them both look like idiots. When it comes to her daughters she will be a lioness as for kokila n Ahem they will realise that Gopi is no pushover n even rashi will realise that as well

ahem doesnt deserve gopi or her forgiveness

What I find hard to digest in this is the fact that Gopi always seems to understand what Ahem and Kokila may go through. She empathizes and sympathizes with them and their pain. She accepts their anger because she sees from their PoV and understands their nature. It is sad that they do not reciprocate even .1% of that.

Why is it that Gopi's mistakes are punishable but theirs is not? If dropping Meera was her fault, then it was an accident too.. Similarly, being bitchy and hard on Gopi is Ahem's fault even if it is on a wrong premise. So doesn't that mean that he should be subjected to some punishment too?😕 His losing Gopi and VIdya does not count because Gopi suffered the same way too, away from her own parents and in the wilderness for 8 years.

The fact that Ahem still does not acknowledge that Meera's disappearance is Gopi's pain too is what irks me. He accuses her of being careless when he is careless himself, all the time.

But unfortunately, I do not think the CVs will show Gopi not forgiving or forgetting Ahem or Kokila. She has already explained to Gauri and Vidya about why she understands Ahem's anger. She has justified his reaction to herself. So there is nothing in her that will stop her from letting him in.. and making her open to hurt all over again.. this time for another fault..

Gopi will never learn and Ahem won't either. His anger will momentarily change to confusion and then transform into a half baked apology but that will only be for a few fleeting moments. All will be well in their family in a matter of minutes.. Especially with the kids involved. Gopi will never hold a grudge against her MIL or husband and she will be influenced to do it quicker because the kids want it that way.

Gopi is too kind for her own good. She loves Ahem and Kokila. She will forgive them. She sees only the good in people.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

What I find hard to digest in this is the fact that Gopi always seems to understand what Ahem and Kokila may go through. She empathizes and sympathizes with them and their pain. She accepts their anger because she sees from their PoV and understands their nature. It is sad that they do not reciprocate even .1% of that.

Why is it that Gopi's mistakes are punishable but theirs is not? If dropping Meera was her fault, then it was an accident too.. Similarly, being bitchy and hard on Gopi is Ahem's fault even if it is on a wrong premise. So doesn't that mean that he should be subjected to some punishment too?😕 His losing Gopi and VIdya does not count because Gopi suffered the same way too, away from her own parents and in the wilderness for 8 years.

The fact that Ahem still does not acknowledge that Meera's disappearance is Gopi's pain too is what irks me. He accuses her of being careless when he is careless himself, all the time.

But unfortunately, I do not think the CVs will show Gopi not forgiving or forgetting Ahem or Kokila. She has already explained to Gauri and Vidya about why she understands Ahem's anger. She has justified his reaction to herself. So there is nothing in her that will stop her from letting him in.. and making her open to hurt all over again.. this time for another fault..

Gopi will never learn and Ahem won't either. His anger will momentarily change to confusion and then transform into a half baked apology but that will only be for a few fleeting moments. All will be well in their family in a matter of minutes.. Especially with the kids involved. Gopi will never hold a grudge against her MIL or husband and she will be influenced to do it quicker because the kids want it that way.

👏 Harini i just hope that cvs do something different this time, when Gopi heard Ahem calling her lapavar Gopi looked at Ahem, each time Ahem insulted Gopi or blamed Gopi she just looks at him, i am sure her feelings for Ahem are changing she sees what a jerk he is. Their relationship will not be the same, cant be a lot has happened and said, kokila relationship with Gopi will change also.

Gopi for sure will forgive Ahem. She will say that is me aap ki koi ghalti nahi waqt hee aesa tha. Blah blah...😭