spouse vs dad!

A good spouse neednt be a good dad, and vice versa! Same thing goes with ahem! He might not like gopi and that doesn't give her any right to run away with vidya again! Ahem has no right to keep her with him too! Both the parents are very important. How can people without mother are living in.the world? How are adopted children living!? So this whole stuff of mother is more than.father irritates me to the core! Im a girl mind you,who already got engaged! 😉

Ahem is not such a great father either. His mistake is not in being angry at Gopi. His mistake is humiliating and shouting at her especially with Vidya around.. So let us give him that leeway that he was really, really angry and hence did not see what was happening and who was around..

Vidya runs and cries asking him why he does not love her.. She goes and blames the girl Ahem says he is going to marry. So what does this very good dad do? He orders his girl to her room.
Lets say, that is also ok. Circumstances and that is the option he had..

After that, after shouting at Gopi and Rashi and declaring his intent to marry, what does the adoring dad do? He was there in his frightened, insecure child's room? I think I did not see that.
Was he giving her a hug and explaining to her that he does love her but he has other things to deal with and he will never let her away from him? Naah..
The adoring and loving father was nowhere in sight.

BTW, he did not even notice his daughters misery when he shouted at her mother before in the temple.. Naah.. A good father does not have to care for all that now, should he?😕

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Ahem is not such a great father either. His mistake is not in being angry at Gopi. His mistake is humiliating and shouting at her especially with Vidya around.. So let us give him that leeway that he was really, really angry and hence did not see what was happening and who was around..

Vidya runs and cries asking him why he does not love her.. She goes and blames the girl Ahem says he is going to marry. So what does this very good dad do? He orders his girl to her room.
Lets say, that is also ok. Circumstances and that is the option he had..

After that, after shouting at Gopi and Rashi and declaring his intent to marry, what does the adoring dad do? He was there in his frightened, insecure child's room? I think I did not see that.
Was he giving her a hug and explaining to her that he does love her but he has other things to deal with and he will never let her away from him? Naah..
The adoring and loving father was nowhere in sight.

BTW, he did not even notice his daughters misery when he shouted at her mother before in the temple.. Naah.. A good father does not have to care for all that now, should he?😕

no matter what ...infront of their child they need to get along ...well I see gopi does not say anything bad about ahem,,,but ahem is not like that ...ahem has alot to learn ...and so does koki ...ahem only does what koki tells ahem... all is koki fault.