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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gopi was forced to do it she never had any intension to hife her pregnancy from Ahem... but their words drove her away from MB... if Vidys stayed away from Ahem he too is equally responsible... If Ahem lost his child so does Gopi... wat if it was other way around Meera fell from Ahems hands no one not even this koki would have accused him...
You askef is this what Gopi thought of Ahem thinking Vidya as replacement then I have o ask same thing Is that wat Ahem thought of Gopi that she vl throw her kid n lake or she vl b careless about Meera... then Awesome Ahem..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i am on gopis side always but i also think that she should have informed ahem about vidya after she was born cos we all saw how she was unsuccessful in telling ahem and the rest of the family about her second pregnancy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is not right to withhold important information from a child.
I agree that Ahem should have been informed about Vidya but maybe Gopi was afraid to let the Modis know about her daughter. She was afraid that they would have taken away her daughter.

I am sure that t they would have snatched the baby from Gopi. They would have proved that Gopi is an unfit mother. Gopi was very hurt , stressed and naive at the time she was pregnant. The 8 years have given Gopi time to improve in her outlook and hopefully to defend herself.

If Gopi had informed the Modis about Vidya when she was born and the modis had taken Vidya from Gopi then viewers would have most likely said that Gopi should not had informed the Modis.

Lots of people like criticising without knowing the facts.
Only Gopi knows about her reasons of not informing the Modis. No one knows how Gopi survived during her pregnancy and as a single parent. Gopi's faith has certainly helped her

It is good that Vidya met her relatives and she can judge for herself as to what type of people they are.
She will not tolerate anyone saying or doing any horrible things to her mum.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think anyone blames Gopi for fleeing the house at that time. Like you said, it was natural and anyone would have done the same, but I am surprised that she kept this up for eight years. So when was she planning on telling Vidya about her father? After the girl grew up? 😕 Wouldn't Vidya have harbored resentment against her mother by that time? The secret came out only because of the kids. Otherwise, Vidya would have grown into an adult not knowing who her father was, and she definitely would have resented her mother when she found out the truth as an adult. So yeah, Gopi's actions when she ran away were natural, but her actions after Vidya's birth were selfish and benefited herself, not her daughter. So in a way, I can see why viewers would resent Gopi crying "meri beti" when she herself separated the girl from her father for eight years. So are the CVs trying to send the message that a father and child can be separated, but it's a heinous crime to separate mother and child?

It's high time India gave importance to both husband and wife, mother and father. It is often portrayed in serials that the husband is greater than the wife, and the mother is greater than the father. This is totally wrong. Both husband-wife are equally important. Likewise, both mother-father are equally important in a child's life.


I actually doubt that Vidya would be resenting her mother. In fact if she comes to know the reasons of her mother abandoning her family, I think she might be sad, but she will become her mother's support. By the time she becomes a grown person, she would also know if her mother is a caring and responsible one. So the whole blame of Gopi being the killer of Meera will not be accepted by Vidya.
All said and done, Gopi should have informed the modis, but if today's reaction is any indication, it wouldn't have been any better 7 years ago. They would have snatched away Vidya from Gopi saying Gopi is an irresponsible mother!!! So I think I understand Gopi's reasons for not informing modis any time sooner

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