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Madhu

@MADHU.BARUN

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Posted: 11 years ago

She can run away, she can separate a dad and daughter and call the daughter meri meri beti! God she and her stupid tears are so freaking irritating!! Everything can happen on her will?? She can separate anyone but everyone should be thinking of her! She and her brainless logics of vidya being replacement to meera! OMG it was all fine till yesterday right, why did they.make gopi mad all of a sudden! Today i hate her to the core! Mrs. Gopi i think you are forgetting vidya is ahems beti too,you separated them!

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 11 years ago

Madhu, is it not mad for the Modis to keep thinking that Gopi killed her own daughter? So why is it mad for Gopi to think that Vidya may be considered a replacement child?

Fear has no reason.. It is what makes us human. Gopi reacted like a human and ran.. Whatever her fears, it was multiplied by her recent grief and her ongoing pregnancy.

She was wrong to keep Vidya a secret but she was not mad.. She was just being human and trying to stay afloat in the midst of all accusations from her husband and MIL

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MAHEEK MEHTA

@maheek

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well said Madhu...👏👍🏼

Ahem have full right to know he have daughter,gopi did big mistake of her life to not tell about vidhya...Ahem was not wrong at this point,that was gopi mistake...😡🤢

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Madhu

@MADHU.BARUN

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Madhu, is it not mad for the Modis to keep thinking that Gopi killed her own daughter? So why is it mad for Gopi to think that Vidya may be considered a replacement child?

Fear has no reason.. It is what makes us human. Gopi reacted like a human and ran.. Whatever her fears, it was multiplied by her recent grief and her ongoing pregnancy.

She was wrong to keep Vidya a secret but she was not mad.. She was just being human and trying to stay afloat in the midst of all accusations from her husband and MIL

Hi harni!!! Hows you?? Coming to ur comment, modis say its coz of gopis carelessness and not she doing it wantedly. When a person is in grief,leave koki i am never a fan.of her,consider ahem and his bond with meera the frenzy feeling he showed the day meera fell in river was more than.gopis. He was more affected. In that pain,he said his wife was irresponsible! Fine he was wrong what does she know about ahem? Did she really think he would see vidya as replacement? Is that what she understood in her marriage? If yes then.she is awesome! Vidya is ahems daughter too, and she has no right to hide her! When a person in a couple is more pressurised the other one needs to support! Instead of letting the matter settle she ran away assuming stuff!

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Xarina

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MADHU.BARUN

Hi harni!!! Hows you?? Coming to ur comment, modis say its coz of gopis carelessness and not she doing it wantedly. When a person is in grief,leave koki i am never a fan.of her,consider ahem and his bond with meera the frenzy feeling he showed the day meera fell in river was more than.gopis. He was more affected. In that pain,he said his wife was irresponsible! Fine he was wrong what does she know about ahem? Did she really think he would see vidya as replacement? Is that what she understood in her marriage? If yes then.she is awesome! Vidya is ahems daughter too, and she has no right to hide her! When a person in a couple is more pressurised the other one needs to support! Instead of letting the matter settle she ran away assuming stuff!

Madhu, losing a child is one of the hardest things in this world, ahem may have had his bond with Meera but you are negating Gopi's feelings. How do you think she felt if time and time again it was implied that our child died because of you. It shouldn't have been a time for recriminations but support and she did not have that. As for wanting Vidya to replace Meera, that would have never happened. Each child was and is an entity in its own right. Cvs have not done their research there and have made Gopi to look unbalanced and stupid.

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Man

@Manzz

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Posted: 11 years ago

😃 True 😃

😃 😃 😃Your Analysis Is Great, And Precise 😃 😃 😃

😃 Cannot Imagine That A Mother Cannot Understand Another Mother 😃

😃 😃 😃 😃 😃 Also So Far The Rest Of The Family Are Silent 😃 😃 Men Folk And Raashi, Hetal ! ! 😃 😃 😃 Kokila Is So Overbearing And From Mouse To Cat / Tigress 😆 😆 All Of A Sudden 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Madhu, is it not mad for the Modis to keep thinking that Gopi killed her own daughter? So why is it mad for Gopi to think that Vidya may be considered a replacement child?

Fear has no reason.. It is what makes us human. Gopi reacted like a human and ran.. Whatever her fears, it was multiplied by her recent grief and her ongoing pregnancy.

She was wrong to keep Vidya a secret but she was not mad.. She was just being human and trying to stay afloat in the midst of all accusations from her husband and MIL

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Anisha_anitan

@Anisha_anitan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Madhu, is it not mad for the Modis to keep thinking that Gopi killed her own daughter? So why is it mad for Gopi to think that Vidya may be considered a replacement child?

Fear has no reason.. It is what makes us human. Gopi reacted like a human and ran.. Whatever her fears, it was multiplied by her recent grief and her ongoing pregnancy.

She was wrong to keep Vidya a secret but she was not mad.. She was just being human and trying to stay afloat in the midst of all accusations from her husband and MIL

I agree and actually I think gopis reason was ok when she said that what reason shall I stay in mm just cuz I have another child

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Janaki

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Madhu, is it not mad for the Modis to keep thinking that Gopi killed her own daughter? So why is it mad for Gopi to think that Vidya may be considered a replacement child?

Fear has no reason.. It is what makes us human. Gopi reacted like a human and ran.. Whatever her fears, it was multiplied by her recent grief and her ongoing pregnancy.

She was wrong to keep Vidya a secret but she was not mad.. She was just being human and trying to stay afloat in the midst of all accusations from her husband and MIL

While it was natural in her situation to run and hide during her pregnancy, don't you think Gopi should have given thought to Vidya's future after she was born, when she was no longer high on nerves and had moved on a little bit after Meera's supposed death?

I don't think anyone blames Gopi for fleeing the house at that time. Like you said, it was natural and anyone would have done the same, but I am surprised that she kept this up for eight years. So when was she planning on telling Vidya about her father? After the girl grew up? 😕 Wouldn't Vidya have harbored resentment against her mother by that time? The secret came out only because of the kids. Otherwise, Vidya would have grown into an adult not knowing who her father was, and she definitely would have resented her mother when she found out the truth as an adult. So yeah, Gopi's actions when she ran away were natural, but her actions after Vidya's birth were selfish and benefited herself, not her daughter. So in a way, I can see why viewers would resent Gopi crying "meri beti" when she herself separated the girl from her father for eight years. So are the CVs trying to send the message that a father and child can be separated, but it's a heinous crime to separate mother and child?

It's high time India gave importance to both husband and wife, mother and father. It is often portrayed in serials that the husband is greater than the wife, and the mother is greater than the father. This is totally wrong. Both husband-wife are equally important. Likewise, both mother-father are equally important in a child's life.

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LazyBing

@LazyBing

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Posted: 11 years ago

I support Gopi with whatever she did! Like if you think about it, that if she told the modis that she is pregnant again with vidya then I don't think after vidya is born they would let Gopi spend lots of time with her daughter after what happened to meera and that was clearly shown in the way ahem was talking to her today and it has disturbed ahem so much that Gopi don't tell him anything about vidya and he didn't live with her for the 8years of her life the. He should also think that he is doing the same thing to Gopi now will there be any difference and the most important thing amongst this is vidya is she getting any happiness it just proves that he's a selfish father whether it was about meera or vidya

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miren

@miren

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Okay firstly, I disagree.

In all honesty, Gopi was more or less blamed for something she didn't do. Kokila forced her out of the house, whether she denied or not, it's the truth. Yes Ahem has a right to know, but if you've been rejected by a group of people, would you honestly tell them? I think Gopi did think sustainably, she knows that her child would get taken away from her, but the happiness and her memories with vidya has meant she forgot about this. I believe gopi when she probably did try to contact her, for 8 years she believed that Kokila was a mother figure.

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