Gopi- my view - Page 2

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Oral abuse and probably torture creates an atmosphere of worry and paranoia. Not an excuse for hiding 8 years but I tend to see Gopi as a victim with severe mental stress here..

Now we also know that Ahem and Koki have the right to be angry for hiding Vidya . I would have respected their anger more if they had not kept blaming Gopi even after 8 years for Meera's disappearance..

She has lived with Urmila and encountered oral abuse even before she met Kokila and Ahem .Oral abuse , as i see it , cannot be the excuse for hiding such a serious fact . Forget the unfairness to Ahem , see how unfair it is on the child ...for her to grow up without a father and to ask questions all her life .

I feel it is simply a case of being thoughtless in fright and guilt . She never gave it deep thought . She is not a bad person , not in her wildest dreams did she want to be unfair to Ahem or Vidya . She just did not give it much thought .

👍🏼.. Yes. That sounds right. I do not think Gopi did it out of spite or wantedly kept the Vidya away.. She just did not think through it. She should have. Being a mother, especially when Vidya started questioning her about her family, Gopi should have realized that she should do something about the situation and she chose to remain quiet, blaming herself and being afraid of her reception with the Modis. That was incorrect and she is going to suffer for that no end in the coming days.🥱

I agree totally with u about respecting the Modi anger more if they had not blamed her unfairly all the time for Meera's mishap . That clouds the seriousness of Gopi's deeds . Still don't know why she did not take even her mother in confidence .

I do not think Gopi forged a bond with her mother like she did with Koki and for that matter Urmi. The irony is that it was only her mother who stood up for her all these years. I hope that Gopi realizes her mother's love atleast now and starts respecting her mom for being there for her when all the others turned on her.

She blames Radha for trying to take away Ahemji . Not once will she blame Ahem for actually conceding to give her place to her sister .As i see it , she has a simple one track mind where everything is prioritised by relations . Pati and sasural come first . One track minds r dangerous though cute briefly . Radha has one too . Pati Umang rules , though he is criminal . He is pati . And like some pativrata nagin she is still trying to avenge him as no common sense makes way into that one track brain .

Completely agree again. This is what I call as Gopi's hypocrisy. She considers anything that her 'Maaji'. Maami, Ahemji and Rashi ben does to be right and does not think that they can make mistakes. I would love to see Gopi realize that Kokila and Ahem are as much at fault in this marriage, maybe more. I would like to see her questioning Ahem back at the right time and demand an explanation for his unprecedented anger and his agreement to marry someone.

It would be lovely to see Gopi like Shabna Azmi in Arth. The last scene where she questions her husband as he returns back and asks for her forgiveness is something that I would like Gopi to do.. She should ask Ahem if he would have forgiven her if she had decided to marry another man in his place.
Gopi can confidently say that she would have forgiven Ahem if he had dropped Meera from that cliff. She always has. But will Ahem forgive her if she had decided to marry again? Will he forgive her for blaming him for Meera's death. Showing Kokila and his love for his mom as a reason is getting old..

The concept of the all forgiving Mahaan Mata of Hindi serials should first be abolished. 😡 Where are those days when we had serials like Kora Kagaz where the wronged Patni did not stay crying all the time and forgiving her pati, but stood up to his hypocrisy and that of her inlaws to chart a new course in her life.. I wonder why the creatives these days are scared stiff to show their lead standing up her to in-laws and elders when she has been wronged.
She does not have to rant and shout but can make her point and walk away with dignity.😊

You are right Kools and I am sure that is how it will play out. I think I can top it actually.
I think the CVs will show the kids finding out about Meera, then Vidya being harmed by Radha and Gopi, Koki coming together to save her. There will be a hug between Koki and Gopi and Gopi will again become the 'Gopi vahu' of Kokila Modi. All will be forgiven because Gopi is such a mahaan.. No questions asked, no apology given.

One can be sure of this approach as the same was used in case of Urmi and Rashi before..All Rashi and Urmi had to do after all their crimes was to save Gopi from a spot and they were forgiven completely, no retributions..😕

It really is boring when you consider that one cannot have some fun seeing Ahem fume with jealousy atleast now..😆 And I would love Koki running behind Gopi for a change..

Currently, Gopi will stay in MM for Vidya and it will be the kids who will do all the plotting to solve the issues between their Kaka and Kaki. Vidya probably would have run away to find her dad if she had not found about the family already.. So this is all good.. I just wish that things change a bit. Seeing Mahaan Gopi again is a pain.. It is more painful than seeing Ahem wallow in self pity and Koki drowning in her own righteousness🥱

Ahem knew that Gopi is pregnant when Meera incident happened. He should be understanding and taking care of pregnant wife and not blame her . Accidents do occur. This Modi clan is completely crazy.

What if Gopi knows what Radha did and to save vidhya she did not inform modi's. My opinion is she should speak up. We do not know the whole story. What if Gopi called and Radha answer the phone and said that for modi's she is dead.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Even then she is wrong coz who is Radha , this a matter betwwen her and Ahem , personal and confidential . what will she tell courts that i tried telling my sister but she told me i had gone away from sasural's heart so i never told them later ?

So it was not that Koki had kicked her out- Gopi left on her own volition. Well if that is the case then I'll have to agree with Kokila that it was just Gopi's need to show her "mahaanta" that has led to this mess. I knew that would be the justification Gopi would give for not informing Modis about Vidya- that it would appear as if she was trying to save herself. Keeping her "mahaan" image intact seemed to be more important than giving both Ahem and Vidya their due rights.

However, none of this justifies Kohem's decision to snatch Vidya away from Gopi. They need to start treating her with some more respect as she was a single mother to Vidya all these years. The past, both the accident and the subsequent misunderstanding, should be forgotten and the couple should start their life afresh with their new daughter. Because that's what's in Vidya's best interests.