Just My Personal Thought. π
Well, Raashi has valid points and reasons for rejecting and opposing Radha as the bride of Ahem.
First and foremost Radha did not trust her own sister and mother when marrying Umang. Further prior to that Radha caused disruptions in Modi family by creating innumerable tensions and almost broke Raashi and Jigar's Marriage ; of course Urmilaa did add fuel to that not so good scheme of things.
Radha is misguided girl, instead of trusting her sister and in law's family, Radha went by Umang and his wife's talk, still goes on those lines.
Counter talk of Hetal and Kokila ; that past should not be a criteria and should move on, she has changed, etc.
Well, one's past makes what we / they are. That is what experience is. A few years I was watching an interview of Late Dev Anand. Talk veered to his few present set of things and what he is. He responded thus, " I Am What I Am Because of What I Was, Achieved In The Past, And Because Of My Past, I Am What I Am". Not exact the same words were used by Dev Anand then. These words indelibly Struck and Stuck {in} my mind.; Answered my many unanswered questions then.
I, for one, really feel Scriptwriters have reasoned out through Raashi a reason for past incidents to be taken in to consideration while dealing in any, sensitive or otherwise, issue or matter. Scriptwriters through Raashi have brought out The Feelings / Thoughts very well.
As I said, these thoughts are my own.
-- > Man π