Cant a brother understand? Deadly disappointed with Jigar - Page 2

Originally posted by: MADHU.BARUN

Yes but when you are in a family you should think about others, we have no idea of what happened with gohem so i wouldn't comment on it and if my sibling would have done with me the same thing i would have been hurt. Not coz its my fault i stopped living a normal life but the fact that she doesn't bother about my feelings! When living together with family certain things are to.kept in.mind and this one of the thing, dont shove your happiness on ur family member who is sad! Life is not you alone. Your family matters, raji can hig,kiss or do anything but not in front of people,!

Originally posted by: Leki

Rashi and Jigar have their own life how long do one expect them live on other's wishes and happiness ?? Neither Rashi nor Jigar did that purposely.. did they??? then how can you blame them to be insensitive??

Ahem was the one who was insensitive he couldn't celebrate so he expect others also not to..

If I was in Ahem's place I would have been happy for my sibling thinking what I couldnt have atleast he/ she is hvn... and would have been haapy for them...

So what you are living in joint family dnt we have our own lives??

i totally agree wid u just bcoz ahem is away from his wife and cant share his good and bad moments wid her that does not mean he can stop or get upset when others do so and all rashi did was give flowers wish jigar and apologise to him it was not something huge for which he had to behave so rudely and moreover 8yrs is a long tym to move on in lyf i agree its difficult to get out of the trauma of loosing ur child but 8 yrs is enough to move ahead evn gopi lost her child ahem had his whole family to support him gopi had none she beared the pain her own family blaming her for the loss leave the house when she was pregnant give birth to a child and be a single mother it was a difficult path for her she cud easily do what ahem did but no she moved on
post the leap i am totally dissapointed with ahem

Ahem should have stood up for his wife if he s missing her so much. He had his whole family for support but he left gopi all alone to deal with her grief. On top of that he and koki piled guilt on her.

As for joint family and being sensitive to each other, does that not apply to ahem also? What about yelling at his little brother and treating him like crap esp in front of his wife? He is sad so everyone else shouldbe too. No one gets to be happy or spontaneous or fun

And lets not forget that this is 6-7 years afterwards. Its not as if rashi and jigar were coochi-cooing in front of him a day after his wife lift. Its beenyears for god sake. Can no one even be normal?

And it was such a harmless scene. She just gave him flowers. Jigar told her lets celebrate later and told ahem - bhai lets go home, eat and then go to office.

I wish ahem had saved some of this anger for his mother instead when she threw out his wife like a piece of garbage

I am happy that vidya is not like gopi n i know she will teach lesson to them who ever hurt his mom,ahem is wrong why he didn't support gopi when kokila kick gopi out of house.i think why kokila n ahem didn't understand gopi that meera is gopi child too.