One year no progress Rashi

I can't believe it. I wasn't here for about a year and haven't really kept up with the story or anything. But everytime I come have a look again there is always some Urmila, Rashi or Urshi rubbish going on 🤢

I really do think that Rashi isn't a bad person. She has shown her good heart quite a few times. But she doesn't 🤬 think. Not for a second. She doesn't think about the consequences of her actions. And why should she? The CVs have always made sure that there weren't really big once for her. So she doesn't learn. I have waited and hoped and begged for her to change for the better. To start listening to her good heart and act accordingly. She doesn't have to turn into a second Gopi, she doesn't have to be the most active and helpful person ever. She can be a little selfcentered and spoilt. Not a problem. But she should start to think about others. Her kids, her husband, her family. They should come first. And her Mummyji shouldn't be that important anymore. She should have seen her true colours long ago. But she doesn't. Even if she tries to distant herself from her for a short time she is always running back and listen to the same old rubbish.

Seriously as a mother, when she saw that Urmila put her son in mortel danger because of her stupidity she should have snapped like Jigar. I mean I am German and even I know that the hay will be set on fire at this festival!! So why the .. hide there with a baby?! And then she drops the child. I mean look how he fell. He could have broken some bones, could have fell on his head or broken his neck for goodness sake 😡 And what does she do next? She doesn't react like any responsible and loving grandmother who would have gone after the boy within a second. She backs away. She saves her 🤬 self. What if she might have gotten a burn or two. At least her grandson would have been save. But no herself was more important to her. Also lets not talk about all the smoke the boy must have inhaled (in reality he would have been taken to the hosipital without delay!!) And Rashi sees all of this and doesn't realise her mother's true colours? I mean how blind is she? How stupid? Was she infacted by Gopi? Any normal person would have screamed and raved at her. Maybe not in front of all the outsiders at the venue but at least at MM. Only this much aleady makes me question her love for her kids.

So while I am at it I can't understand why she was allowed to take the boys with her. I love Koki but I have to disagree with her. A mother should not have supremecy over a father automatically. But she must earn this. Rashi didn't earn it. But Jigar has earned to be trusted to take care of his kids.

I am a RaJi fan but mainly because I just love and adore Jigar and want him to be happy and smiling. Since I know that there will not be a divorce in SNS Rashi has to change to make him happy!!! She must!

Okay enough ranting and raving!!!

nice to see u here i dnt watch SNS to know what is happening i read WU but ur view have a solid point

Originally posted by: Deepzpadukone

nice to see u here i dnt watch SNS to know what is happening i read WU but ur view have a solid point

I don't even do that. Just get a really short update from my friends and then step in once a months or so to see what kind of track is on in the moment.

But thanks for agreeing 😊 I just wished the girl would learn

Originally posted by: revati_nakshtra

Thanks ,@ ichangedit
Ya ..Urmila actually threw him in haystack .
With her own fear.

What. To do?
Hetal never listened to kokila - not to bring girls from same house

Khair...

Btwn r u from east or west Germany
I was in Hamburg. Btwn 2000-2001

I know I watched it. Well because there are no epis with subs anymore I didn't understand what was said but heyho. When I read about it in the WU I just wanted to have a quick look on Urmi's and Rashi's action.

Yes let it go Hetal is to blame for being so clueless and not seeing Rashi's true colours

Also I live near Berlin. So quite a way from Hamburg. What did you do there for a year?

Hi
I agree. But a mother is a mother for everybody whether she is good or bad no matter.
But raasi is grown up and she saw different kinds of people.. So she has to correct her, she should not run after her.
But she is listening and doing what ever her mother is saying.
Ok by the by
I also was in germany in hannover bt 2005 to 2009.
Now I return back to india.
I have visited Berlin and hamburg too.Very nice country.
Except the weather.
😊

Originally posted by: rubeena

Hi
I agree. But a mother is a mother for everybody whether she is good or bad no matter.
But raasi is grown up and she saw different kinds of people.. So she has to correct her, she should not run after her.
But she is listening and doing what ever her mother is saying.
Ok by the by
I also was in germany in hannover bt 2005 to 2009.
Now I return back to india.
I have visited Berlin and hamburg too.Very nice country.
Except the weather.
😊

I know that your mother will always be your mother. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't have learned what kind of person she is. So I agree with you. She has seen so many different people and mothers. Hetal who is supportive and loving, Koki who may be strict but loving and warm as well, Baa and even Gopi, who loves her little girl so much.

Also she should have opened her eyes a long time ago and realise that she already got everything. A very loving, handsome and for her important rich husband. A MiL who loves her and has forgiving her mistakes and flaws. Chirag has also been always supportive of her. She has a loving sister, who does anything for her. And you know Koki has shown that she supports Rashi against outsiders as well. I mean she even defended her against Jigar, who really got a point! And most importantly two cute little baby boys, who should be her tresure

My oldest brother lives in Hannover now. I have to agree the weather is really not that great. In the moment it is always wet and cloudy

even after 100 years rashi wount change

Originally posted by: ajaved

even after 100 years rashi wount change

I have the distinct feeling that you are right about that

I used to think the same as you, in that Rashi was intrinsically a good person. But after her behaviour with Radha, not anymore. Rashi is a selfish, uncaring, and terrible person.

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

I used to think the same as you, in that Rashi was intrinsically a good person. But after her behaviour with Radha, not anymore. Rashi is a selfish, uncaring, and terrible person.

And actually, she doesn't care about her mom that much anymore. She skips her moms phone call from time to time and thinks of herself before her mother. Rashi knows her mom sucks. She just doesn't care.

And I agree with the whole mother isn't always best.

Since I haven't been keeping up that closely I don't actually know what she did with Radha and what I have read till now has me more confused than anything else. Will have to sit down and start readind the WUs I missed.

Also it kind of changes everything if Urshi aren't an item anymore. If she already knows that her mum is no good and still acts the same (manipulating, hurting others, and so on) I have to agree that she isn't a good person anymore. But still she wasn't bad from the start but has turned that way.