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DEEPZzzz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hello people it is my turn with this wks DOTW.

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The English word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ' Definition from Wiki

For this week's discussion I want to know what is love to you? How do you know if it is love that you feel for someone?

For Gopi she fell in love with Ahem from a picture, so another question can love happen at first sight?

For Ahem it took him a long journey and eventually got there at the end..

How do you know if the person your with is the right person.

Love is a mysterious thing it can happen to anyone.. I have not been in that state of mind yet only been in one relationship which ended abruptly. I have seen so many romantic movies and from them seen that love is beautiful and it can have its good and it's bad.

So that's it the floor is yours.😊

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Xarina

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Ace topic. Love comes in many shades and it s made up from many different depths. This needs a more detailed response from me so I will come back and comment when I am less sober 😆

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yhm_craze

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Posted: 12 years ago

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that's a brilliant topic for discussion Deepz 👏

to be honest I dont believe in love at first sight at all..if you are drawn towards a person just by looking at him/her once it's attraction according to me and not love. Love comes with knowing each other and sharing with each other..

you have cited the example of Gopi who fell in love with Ahem by just seeing his photo. But was that love? Gopi at that time had not known love at all except for the little affection that she got from her mama and Panna. Her only desire in life was to have a family to love and be loved. And the moment she came to know she is marrying Ahem, she centred her dreams around him. But when she got married she realized he loves someone else. Being generous as she is, she forgave his cruelty and understood the reason behind his anger. Though he hated her, he still always happened to reach her first when she needed help and was never dishonest with her. She was always devoted to him as his wife. But like Ahem, I think even for Gopi love happened gradually.

That's my take for now 😊

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DEEPZzzz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@deepa fantablous reply

@xar take ur time

Will b back later to reply the meri maa show is coming here watching that

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delsi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Deepz wonderful topic dear

iam not sure of what is all true love about i can't explain till then i realize that feeling

but now love is a faith that a lover should have for each other and make them to go in a right path when they are wrong always stand by the as like Ahem stand by Gopi

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DEEPZzzz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@ Deepu good reply as well.

Love for many depicts on fate, will you call it fate that Gopi was chosen out of Rashi to be Ahem's wife? I would say yes but i can go on about that.

But yes to me, staying by your partner no matter what is good, showing that you will and can do anything for a the person you love.

Love can happen gradually some would say it changes people, I would say yes Love can change a person.

But what about Rashi and Jigar, I never once understood their stance in relationship, are they in love with each other? Or is there relationship something else.

Another thing is that Kinjal at late has started to see what a person Dhawal is is that enough to say that she is love with him?

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delsi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Deepz i would accept with you

and yes Raji relationship is something but definetly not a love they are for themself but not for the preson their love or meant to be loved if that happens then Rashi won't feel like such a inscure and act against Gopi

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swasthi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Fascinating topic with a range of interesting responses.

Perhaps love begins as an attraction. It excites our senses to an unimaginable level leaving you confused yet yearning for more.

Gopi's heart fluttered upon seeing Ahem's picture but through his journey to love she had learnt how to love deeply.

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Sunnyahem

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Love is a what starts as a weird feeling. ..something special around the heart...a weird dhak dhak...a need to see that person. .speak to him..hear his voice. ...never getting enough ..always need to meet more...which then results in physical intimacy...love is basically the desire and need to be with and there for the person...I get gopi and ahems love totally...and I also believe that ahem loved Anita ... but she didn't love him ..and he finally figured it out...long before he felt it for gopi...

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DEEPZzzz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@ Swasthi nice reply..

@Sunnyahem I really love your response.. its ACE sorry i dnt know your name for me that is LOVE in its nut shell