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Posted: 12 years ago
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I felt sorry for Gopi today She is indeed in a dilemma and that dilemma is basically because she cares and she cares too much for her own good. How ironic. One cousin cares naught and the other cares too much😭

Gopi cares too much and hence is holding herself responsible for Rashi leaving MM. Not just that she feels guilty for making the others in MM miss Rashi (🤪). But there is still this small voice in her that tells her that Rashi needs to understand her mistakes and change her ways. This fight between wanting to do the right thing and not wanting to hurt others is making Gopi kill herself with worry.

It was classic Rashi today. She is still adamant that she wants to keep lying. She even told Gopi (which the poor girl did not understand) that she will make her move in such a way that she gets out of Gopi's conditions slyly. Poor Gopi. She missed the point until Rashi explained on her way out that Rashi was doing all this to get her off her back

Rashi did play well. She decided that the only way she can get her way with Gopi is to emotionally blackmail her by becoming the victim. Well played too. She sited missing her mother to be the reason (fooled all the family again and made Jigar give his soppy smile🤢) and then left with a smirk because she knew she had cornered Gopi.

To Rashi, this is win-win. She gets pampered at her mother's (I loved how she made Urmi do all the dishes she wanted and left them without eating them. The chinese dinner order was classic😃), she gets away from doing anything in MM, and she is sure Gopi will call her back by promising not to reveal anything to Koki. Yes. A very good plan.

The only thing Rashi has forgotten is the fact that Gopi may miss her, Gopi may feel she is being bad making Rashi stay away from MM and Gopi may blame herself again and again but in all this, Gopi also wants Rashi to learn that she is making a mistake. Hence the precap.

It is obvious that Rashi declining to go back to MM is going to hurt Gopi more. Added to that with Jigar's Devdas act (what is with this guy anyway🤢), Gopi will be put deeper into the dilemma of wanting to give Rashi what she wants and making her come back to MM.

Will Gopi be strong and let Rashi learn a lesson?. I hope so.

If Gopi does not, then Rashi will use this everytime she does something horrible but yet wants to get her way. It is high time that she stays in RN and realizes that she is wrong to take her relationships and her lifestyle for granted. If the CVs show Gopi letting Rashi have her own way, then it will highly disappoint me.

Yes. It is important to keep women happy during pregnancy. But Rashi is not unhappy because she is being mistreated. She is unhappy because she is too selfish and arrogant to see that she is hurting others with her lies. It is alright to be selfish. But when you start hurting others with your selfishness and more, care naught about it and strut around like a stud, then it is time that some home truths are given.

I just wish that the Modis come to know the truth somehow and tell Rashi that she stay in RN and not come back. For someone who thinks she has got one over Gopi and the rest, the truth will teach Rashi a valuable lesson.

Things to note:
* Loved Kinjal's attitude with Rashi. She was decent enough and had no issues with Rashi being at her mother's house but she was clear when Rashi behaved rudely to her. 👏 A girl who stands up to herself

* Felt really sorry for Gopi. But I feel, she should let go. Gopi cares too much for someone undeserving of that care. There is a phrase in tamil that basically is for someone who shows their attitude when being begged and then would beg if they find themselves in the receiving end again. Rashi is doing the first part. She thinks that she can make Gopi beg her and get her own way. If Gopi stops caring, rashi will have no option but to learn.

* What is it with Jigar anyway? Devdas in a few hours? He is just too pathetic🤢 What happened to being the sad father of Vansh😡

* Koki's point was completely missed by the others. She told Rashi that Rashi does not actually want the elders permission and is anyways going to go to Urmi's. It is sad that no one else gets what Koki is getting at. 😭

* I can now see why Koki sees GoHem's missing romance. Ahem came home and went to have a call while Gopi has been deeply worried about Rashi and then the house work. Glad that we can take a break from Rashi's constant tantrums for a bit😃

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post.😊⭐️

Why is Gopi in a dilemma?? I did felt sorry for her as she does not know what to do, Rashi was right that she is Rashi and you can't change who she is.. but why when she should be more worried about her and Ahemji pay less time worrying about Rashi.

Rashi is not going to give in so Rashi will be in RN for a while... giving Urmi orders was the funniest thing today.. her making Chinese 😆 I like the Jigar bit him showing his concern and the Kinjal bit too..

Meera is so alert😊 she looked cute with Baa and with Gopi in the precap and also by her self on the bed😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why does Gopi have to be in a dilemma? 😔. She should seriously concentrate on herself. It would be nice if they showed Ahem sulking because Gopi is not paying attention to him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Why does Gopi have to be in a dilemma? 😔. She should seriously concentrate on herself. It would be nice if they showed Ahem sulking because Gopi is not paying attention to him.


that would be marvellous...gohem need to concentrate on each other now..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mona05


that would be marvellous...gohem need to concentrate on each other now..


I agree. Gopi needs to stop worrying this much. She worries about Rasihi, she worries that Jigar is unhappy, she worries that Koki is missing Rashi😲

It is all really undeserved and more so unwanted. But the way Rashi made it sound, she told Gopi that her return depends on Gopi doing something ie. take her promise back. I would say, Gopi should use this opportunity and never take her promise back.

Rashi can cool her heels in RN as long as she wants. Why would that have to affect Gopi. Jigar more or less promised he would meet Rashi anytime and if Rashi wants she can come back, no one will stop her. 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


I agree. Gopi needs to stop worrying this much. She worries about Rasihi, she worries that Jigar is unhappy, she worries that Koki is missing Rashi😲

It is all really undeserved and more so unwanted. But the way Rashi made it sound, she told Gopi that her return depends on Gopi doing something ie. take her promise back. I would say, Gopi should use this opportunity and never take her promise back.

Rashi can cool her heels in RN as long as she wants. Why would that have to affect Gopi. Jigar more or less promised he would meet Rashi anytime and if Rashi wants she can come back, no one will stop her. 😕

I watched the episode today and I really felt irritated. Yes irritated. Gopi has to behave all self sacrificing and goody goody and go running to catch Rashi's pallu. At a time when she should be concentrating on her baby daughter she is concerned about other household members. Babies don't stay little for long. I think she should forget Rashi and her no good maami and enjoy being a wife and a mother instead of the Modis policeman. Sorry.😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

I watched the episode today and I really felt irritated. Yes irritated. Gopi has to behave all self sacrificing and goody goody and go running to catch Rashi's pallu. At a time when she should be concentrating on her baby daughter she is concerned about other household members. Babies don't stay little for long. I think she should forget Rashi and her no good maami and enjoy being a wife and a mother instead of the Modis policeman. Sorry.😳


Xari don't apologize 😃

One side of me feels sorry for Gopi because I know a person who worries the same way for things they should care naught about. She is really sweet but can overdo on the worrying bit and believe me, you get angry, irritated and frustrated when they do it. It gets on your nerves because you know that they will always be this way and never let go🤢

But I agree.. Gopi should now forget Rashi. I wrote in Deepz's thread and I write the same here now.

If Gopi wants to show Rashi that she needs to change, she should either let the truth of vansh known to all telling Rashi that it is easy to lie but when caught it is not easy to face repercussions or she should just forget all this and move on.
There is no use going behind someone who just does not want to change and crying for others while forgetting your child and husband

Gopi really is overdoing it😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Xari don't apologize 😃

One side of me feels sorry for Gopi because I know a person who worries the same way for things they should care naught about. She is really sweet but can overdo on the worrying bit and believe me, you get angry, irritated and frustrated when they do it. It gets on your nerves because you know that they will always be this way and never let go🤢

But I agree.. Gopi should now forget Rashi. I wrote in Deepz's thread and I write the same here now.

If Gopi wants to show Rashi that she needs to change, she should either let the truth of vansh known to all telling Rashi that it is easy to lie but when caught it is not easy to face repercussions or she should just forget all this and move on.
There is no use going behind someone who just does not want to change and crying for others while forgetting your child and husband

Gopi really is overdoing it😭

You know. Somewhere else on IF the writers have joined up and have joined up and are pacifying the viewers. I wish our lily livered writers would come on here and explain themselves. It would make the bitter pill that is Urshi's kk easier to deal with.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Let them come here Xari 😈 I really want to ask them a few questions and I have a feeling they will stumble and go red in their face when they realize what they have done in the name of drama😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Let them come here Xari 😈 I really want to ask them a few questions and I have a feeling they will stumble and go red in their face when they realize what they have done in the name of drama😡

I think they are too scared😆. They can feel our wrath from all the way over there.

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