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Posted: 12 years ago
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Is it right to take advantage of a person's poverty to get what you need?

Alka's mom may have been swayed by what UrShi said they had to offer Vansh but is that right to do it? Money is important in a child's upbringing but is it right to throw that at a poor man and use their poverty to one's advantage.

Why does it feel so worse to me to read what UrShi did?

Looking from the top I think both Rashi and Alka said they want the same things for Golu/Vansh.
A good life for Vansh and to stay close to Vansh but why do I not feel sorry for Rashi but for Alka?

The fact that Rashi is doing this not for Vansh but for herself seems to be the factor. While reading the update I can see Alka's struggle with herself and then her decision to give the good life to her son and yet stay with him atleast as a Nanny, I find no such sacrifice from Rashi's end. She cannot even agree to a compromise and wants everything according to her need. Perfect life without working for it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini.. Rashi intention was worse.. Her reason behind Baby was woresl.. Thats why we didnt feel sorry for Rashi... Todays Rashi tears not for thats she left her baby in other hands n treas for thats she showing her love n concren for Aalka.. Yaar Alka is brith mother how can she stay away from her real blood when she itself knows where he is??? She understand the fect that She wont bring him all good stuff n good education in his life but beside all her love n ture concren for has baby wont become her greedy n curel like Rashi.. Today Rashi again want only baby wht she though this whole earth is rolling on has finger wht n which she want she got.. 🤢

after all spoiler's and newz im desperatly waiting for that day when Rashi taste the real flavour of lose.. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini in my eyes Rashi is not a good person therefore I cannot feel sorry for her "predicatment." What ever she is doing and has done it is the fruits of her and her mother's warped mind. Pity the fruit was rotten in its outcome. 😕 And look at maharani Urmila. Seeing the same greed in Vansh's grandmother's eye and played upon it. She is such a moo cow! (sorry for offending cows.) Wrong all wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Xari, I try my best to see it from Rashi's PoV but I cannot understand her at most times and sometimes even want to kill her as SNS Cvs are bent on not showing justice😆

Urmi is at her own level but what I cannot digest is the fact that Rashi, the girl who gave such tantrums about wanting to be a mother and the 'tadap' etc., cannot see the same in the other person standing right in front of her. Added to that Rashi is able to blatantly play with this poor kid Alka's emotions and get her own way.. Just how fair is that?

Alka seems to be someone who got a bad break. Poor, unwed, pregnant and now a mother but she seems to display a fierce love for her Golu that I cannot see in Rashi inspite of being in a better position than Alka at all levels...

Am I expecting too much? Seems like I am trying to see something akin to human sympathy in Rashi and when I fail to see it, it disappoints me even though I should not have even expected it from her character
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rashi only sees sympathy when it is directed in her direction. She will not see the love that Alka has for her son. That is unconditional and only someone who has yearned for a baby or nutured a baby within them will know that. Rashi has only yearned for five minutes. She has no idea of a maternal bond and therefore cannot see it as existing. For her Vansh is a toy and only that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with Xarina... Rashi will every understand actual value of things coz just become used to get them with in scenods.. Or baby isnt like that... Rashi didnt realise Alka pain coz she didnt itself feel those pain of a mother with has baby before n after delivery... Rashi isnt that person u feel sympathy for her... Today how meanly she shows Alka's her place.. Called wish Vansh got used to for AC.. Or his milk powder were also impoted.. Wht Rashi u trying to show her thats ur core than better mother from Alka.. AC n impoted milk powder wont made good mother...🤢 n yes gold chain n breclet 😕 how can some be so pathetic like UrShi...
Edited by -GiNa- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks Xari.. 😊
I could not put my finger on exactly what was missing and you pointed it out so well.. The yearning.. Yes.. That is what I miss seeing. I miss seeing Rashi really yearn for Vansh or any baby. I cannot see her want the child for itself and yearn to feel a baby in her hands to lavish it with her love.

I see her need to have a baby to satisfy her wishes and dreams of being MM's undisputed queen. I see her want to be equivalent to Gopi at all levels even if it means hurting another mom.. That is what is turning me off in this entire track.. The actual yearning to be a mother.

The Modis seem to have seen it in Rashi but I fail to see it. Growing a melon, taking care of two puppies for a week or dancing to quieten Meera does not exactly portray yearning..

Have the CVs failed to make the point or does none exist?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -GiNa-

i agree with Xarina... Rashi will every understand actual value of things coz just bacome used to get them with in scenods.. Or baby isnt like that... Rashi didnt realise Alka pain coz she didnt itself feel those pain of a mother with has baby before n after delivery... Rashi isnt that person u feel sympathy for her... Today how meanly she shows Alka's her place.. Called wish Vansh got used to for AC.. Or his milk powder were also impoted.. Wht Rashi u trying to show her thats ur core than better mother of Alka.. AC n impoted milk powder wont made good mother...🤢


Exactly Sherry.. Can imported nappies, AC and milk powder take the place of a mother's hug and tears? As much as I agree that some things are needed to make a child comfortable, is material stuff the only thing a child needs?

I think the premise of Rashi's reasoning itself is wrong and she fails to see beyond material things to emotions. Unfortunate No wonder she cannot understand the Modi's love for her😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



Exactly Sherry.. Can imported nappies, AC and milk powder take the place of a mother's hug and tears? As much as I agree that some things are needed to make a child comfortable, is material stuff the only thing a child needs?

I think the premise of Rashi's reasoning itself is wrong and she fails to see beyond material things to emotions. Unfortunate No wonder she cannot understand the Modi's love for her😕



Harini UrShi though whole world is think like them.. Every one loves meterail things instead human love.. Really Rashi need some reality check.. Today her show off.. Show her so called motherly love for Vansh.. 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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To be honest I didn't feel bad for Rashi one bit. 🥱 She made Vansh's mother feel so low just because she doesn't have enough money, well Rashi your mother is no "queen". You were also bought up in a chawl with not much money. 🤢 This fact will never change. Just because she married into Modi house she feels that she all that.🤪 Urshi have no rights to keep a mother away from her child and make them feel low by telling them that they have no money. 😡 Urhsi are the most selfsh people in this universe! 🤬
Rashi doesn't care about Vansh she is just happy like when a child gets happy when it gets a new toy. Rashi only is using Vansh to get money and status in the house. 😵
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