In these sort of situations - Page 2

I'm bowing out from the serial :( I'm not even gonna bother reading the written updates. I'm removing the forum from my favourites :( It just doesnt feel like the same show anymore. I actually missed the first 10 minutes and switched on waiting for the first break to finish. Then I saw this girl in yellow... i thought who is this, a new guest? Then realised it's gopi - i thought this was some strange dream sequence and the next scene would show the realy gopi. But then realised she'd been replaced.

I don't have much hope that she is going to come back :( The production team/ big wigs that made the decision must have had a lot of faith and confidene in the show's popularity that to change the lead character was like water off a duck's back and irrelelevant. If they have the power to do that, there's no way gia manek will come back. My mood feels really sore now!! :(

I'm a crazy romantic and I can't sit by and watch gohem scenes with the replacement actress. The scene where ahem says i love you (even in imaginary mode) just lost alll pizaazz and spark for me.

It's been a wonderful journey and I've been addicted to the show and I love sitting with my parents and watching it...and rushing home so we could all watch it together and make chai tea! But now, perhaps its a positive sign to do something else (not sure what)!!! Thank you everyone for entertaining me on the forum!

Lots of love
Julia :-)

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

In these types of situations... You walk outside on your own two feet. Look at a beautiful rose with your own two eyes. Smell it's amazing scent with your nose. Feel it's velvety smoothness with both your hands. Eat a chocolate and be carried away with the sensation. Then think of the millions of other people who cannot do one or more of the things that you just did. Hell some of them haven't eaten in days. And then you be totally honest with yourself and say. I am a whiny pathetic excuse of a human being who is so caught up in myself that i cannot see the wood for the trees! And pray that god gives you the wisdom to realise that of all the thousands of things that matter in this world. A tv soap opera is not one of them and it will never be one of them in the next million generations!

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

In these types of situations... You walk outside on your own two feet. Look at a beautiful rose with your own two eyes. Smell it's amazing scent with your nose. Feel it's velvety smoothness with both your hands. Eat a chocolate and be carried away with the sensation. Then think of the millions of other people who cannot do one or more of the things that you just did. Hell some of them haven't eaten in days. And then you be totally honest with yourself and say. I am a whiny pathetic excuse of a human being who is so caught up in myself that i cannot see the wood for the trees! And pray that god gives you the wisdom to realise that of all the thousands of things that matter in this world. A tv soap opera is not one of them and it will never be one of them in the next million generations!

When you put it like that Shaun, that's hilarious!!! I think I needed a reality check and you provided it...but im still not gonna watch Saathiya - the show has come to it's natural end - Gopi and Ahem finally accepting each other - Rashi and Kokila accepting and working together/ prasing each other etc. I was actually gonna ask this question on the forum the other day - Is the sho coming to an end - everything seemed to be concluding in a positive way.

But you're right in the 7pm slot here in the UK, I will do something else...there is no chocolate in the house...and its raining muddy and grey outside!

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

In these types of situations... You walk outside on your own two feet. Look at a beautiful rose with your own two eyes. Smell it's amazing scent with your nose. Feel it's velvety smoothness with both your hands. Eat a chocolate and be carried away with the sensation. Then think of the millions of other people who cannot do one or more of the things that you just did. Hell some of them haven't eaten in days. And then you be totally honest with yourself and say. I am a whiny pathetic excuse of a human being who is so caught up in myself that i cannot see the wood for the trees! And pray that god gives you the wisdom to realise that of all the thousands of things that matter in this world. A tv soap opera is not one of them and it will never be one of them in the next million generations!

Frankly to say i did't like it at all today's episode.. except Raji scene.. and Koki taunting Saavita.. i don't think i can continue it anymore. i watch it for Gohem, but today iwas like wak!! no reaction when ahem said i love you to unknown girl, because she is not GOpi for me.. so i quit the show.. llet them go to hell, after all it is just a serial, i don't mind if it goes off air too

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Naf it was like an out of body experience I was watching the show but the soul had gone.

I have nothing against the new actress but the way today's episode was portrayed was nothing but rubbing salt into the wounds. the bit the gets to me is the koki speech at the start "peoples priority's change" sounds like it came from starplus saying its not our fault but we had to do this. 😡

I would stop watching it and will fight for my fav actor to come back in the show.

I do sympathise with you nafs! And i know how crap this all feels right now. But always have some perspective on the matter. Instead of worrying about goham who are two fictional characters. Worry about your own life. worry about your studies. Worry about the kid next door who always looks so unhappy. Worry about your work colleague whose husband beats her up every weekend. Worry about the old woman down the road whose kids have abandoned her. But worry about a tv serial? Never!

And then when you have finished worrying about all of those than stop worrying about them. Only stress about What's under your control. If the matter is out of your hands than leave it to the one above you. That is his job. Not yours.

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

I do sympathise with you nafs! And i know how crap this all feels right now. But always have some perspective on the matter. Instead of worrying about goham who are two fictional characters. Worry about your own life. worry about your studies. Worry about the kid next door who always looks so unhappy. Worry about your work colleague whose husband beats her up every weekend. Worry about the old woman down the road whose kids have abandoned her. But worry about a tv serial? Never!