Gopi and Ahemji's marriage is being made a mockery

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Tanmaya1

@Tanmaya1

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Hello all,

I am Thankful for all the members who responded to my first post. Gopi Please leave Modi Mansion

a Thankyou also to all who read the post.

I am back with another post.

Gopi and Ahemji's marriage is being made a mockery in Saath Nibhana serial.

The serial writers of Saath Nibhana have crossed all limits of sanity.

First of all it is very wrong to give that stupid advt is Gopi the Yogyapatni ?

After one year of illtreatment by her husband Ahem, a serious accident, a full forgotten episode of Holi and not being able to retaliate his former girl friend's views of his wife it is time to ask Is Ahem a ideal husband for Gopi.

The serial writers are destroying character of Kokila Maaji.

We don't support Kokila Maaji's way of telling that Gopi is the perfect choice for her son and she will prove it. (Gopi's life is not something which has to be proved to a guest.)

It is thumbs down for Kokila Maaji for putting her daughter-in-law Gopi in tough, heart wrenching situations which are not meant to be done by a mother.

Atleast in today's episode she should have realized that lot of damage has been done to her son's and daughter-in-law's marriage.

She has to tell Anitha that this is not the way to talk about her son and daughter-in-law. She has to tell Anitha that her family is sorry that anitha's marriage was cancelled and they want to help her settled well in a humanitarian way. Anitha has to be told not to interfere in Gopi and Ahem's life.

She has to have a talk with Ahem in front of Gopi and he has to explain what pain he caused to Gopi by his words and why Gopi is avoiding him.

She has to talk with Gopi in a comforting way and know the exact reasons for Gopi's heart break.

She being the mother should carefully help Gopi and Ahem to solve this problem which has been created after arrival of anitha.

Marriage is a sacred institution. Gopi and Ahemji's marriage is being made a mockery in Saath Nibhana serial.

Every married couple have their own ways of working their marriage. Ahem and Gopi will work their marriage and put their best effort to bring happiness for each other. They will take advice from their parents if necessary.

Please bring a closure to this nonsensical track and start another track of Gopi getting back to her education.

I feel that even if Ahem confesses his love for Gopi in front of Lord Kannaya, his family, Anitha, Gopi will not belive now because she has lost her trust on her Ahemji and so I feel she will get back to her studies.

We need not worry what Ahemji will do because Sathiya writers still have not decided how to rework Ahemji's character and make him an ideal husband for Gopi. This may take more than one year from now. So Ahemji will get back to work and we will still get to watch Gopi bringing green tea.

Please do read and comment on my post

Thanking You all

Edited by SAnonymous - 13 years ago

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aris22l

@aris22l

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

SAnonymous, first of all, a great post. Many of us have already said numerous times that the CV's have shown a serious error in judgment in using the word "yogya" for a wife, especially a wife like Gopi. After all what is the definition of yogya? Yogya in whose eyes and for whom? This is an absolutely useless word concocted by some male chauvinists. Yup, shouldn't the CV's first make sure that the husband is also yogya for his wife before accusing the wife of not being yogya?

This track has ruined a lot of strong characters we used to love and respect. Both Ahemji and Kokilaji are acting out of their characters. You are left scratching your head trying to justify some of their actions. One point I have to make though. A lot of things that you are saying should be done in the serial would make sense in real life, but you would never see that in the serial world. If Kokila just went ahead and talked to everyone calmly, the track will be over. The CV's want to stretch it and they have come up with these stupid competitions to test Gopi vahu's yogyata.

I feel a serial has to have drama to keep the viewers hooked, so they can't show a logical conversation as you have metioned. But I wish they could come up with some other creative and entertaining way to deal with the problem. Instead of showing a mother and an ex-girlfriend engaging in a war to prove who is worthy of the son's love, it would have been much more interesting if they had shown the son slowly realizing what his ex is up to and try to clear out misunderstandings of his wife while the mother also tries to keep the ex away from her son and his wife. There could have been some games played by Anita with some counter action from Rashi for some comic relief. I am not a writer, so I am not that creative, but I am sure the SNS CV's could come up with some interesting ideas. They are being paid for this after all.

I am all for closing this track as soon as possible. Now it is like stretching a chewing gum that has no elasticity left. I feel they should quickly redeem Ahemji's character by making him figure out who Anita is and protect his wife from the evil witch by telling her off, and starting his repentence track.

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kafa

@kafa

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Great post, but I am repeating myself, Gopi don't have to prove anything, and Kokila doesn't have the right to make Gopi compete with Anita

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thala

@thala

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

nice post

the cvs have lost the plot

we thought anitha would be positive and bring gohem together

but the track is leading in a wrong direction

with all nonsense

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

also i dnt get the fact that how on eath will a stupid cooking comp make her the ideal wife? id wife meraly to cook feed dress a man? koki dsnt feel there is a need beyond the chores???

y dsnt gopi refuse to compete saying she dstn have to go on proving herself ansi f someone has to prove that is ahem?

is he reallya yogi pati??

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: kafa
Great post, but I am repeating myself, Gopi don't have to prove anything, and Kokila doesn't have the right to make Gopi compete with Anita

koki always makes gopi do what ever... gopi is more of a puppet for ahem and koki and also rashi

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Vinder90

@Vinder90

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

liked ur post. . . .

i dont know what mroe to say. . . i am just putting up with it. . coz SNS is my daily serial dosage lol. . .if i dont get it i am not at peace lol. ..

things not going as we want. . or prefer. . its common in every serial . . but for some reason in SNS. . things have really got on my nerves. . and i can feel my heart moving all the way to my heart and bang my brainz lol. . i haev always hated the yogyata crap . .for GOpi. . . and not having to prove herselt in a way just so stand up to a challegne that koki / Anita sets up hm mm . . i better stay quiet until things materialise

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