Why is it !!! Always why !!!

Navya, I can't tell you how much I love you for making this post. I am glad that someone else is seeing the degradation and humiliation Gopi is being put through by having to prove over and over again that she is worthy of her husband. She has been proving that every single day of her life since she got married and now, for an outsider and an evil ex-girlfriend, she has to do it all over again. You are absolutely right, if someone has a doubt, go ask her husband. Is Gopi a puppet who has to dance to everyone's tunes at their whim? She is a human being who has a beating heart that hurts and cries when it gets crushed and trampled over and over again just for dreaming and hoping.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Sorry Navya. I do not agree. I think we are taking the promo too seriously thinking that there will be competitions to prove Gopi's worth.. However I think that will not be the case. I do not think this is a competition to prove anything by Gopi..

It is a way to prove to all and especially Anitha that she is not worthy of the place she thinks she fits better.. It is a test for Ahem to prove that his mom's decision was right and that he married a girl who he now considers that he is lucky to be married to..

There will be no competition.. It will be Anitha who will be able to be made to prove the point she is putting forward and she will fail..

For the question why is it that Ahem need not prove his worth to Gopi.. I think this will be that.. This will be more Ahem's fight at the end than Gopi's😃

Originally posted by: navyab

Good to see you back Harini...well the question if Anitha has to be proven unworthy of Ahem then so be it...she can be proved but why pitch in Gopi against her...well Im not even going by the promo...but by the SBB segment which talks a step beyond the promo...

Why trigger it from Gopi's shoulder that Anitha is not worth it...well if Anitha proves to be worth it then will people say ok now she is worth it so please take the place...well it does not work that way !!! Why prove anything to Anitha...who is she...just because Ahem has a past with her you cannot expect his wife to come prove her wrong !!!

Originally posted by: aris22l

Navya, I can't tell you how much I love you for making this post. I am glad that someone else is seeing the degradation and humiliation Gopi is being put through by having to prove over and over again that she is worthy of her husband. She has been proving that every single day of her life since she got married and now, for an outsider and an evil ex-girlfriend, she has to do it all over again. You are absolutely right, if someone has a doubt, go ask her husband. Is Gopi a puppet who has to dance to everyone's tunes at their whim? She is a human being who has a beating heart that hurts and cries when it gets crushed and trampled over and over again just for dreaming and hoping.

You raised a good question, Navya. Why is Ahemji worthy of Gopi? We know he loves her and has supported her when she has needed him lately, but when she has really needed his support, has he really there for her? He has his ex girlfriend living in his house, and he is supporting her at every step, while his quiet wife watches him desperately waiting for his support. I am not saying he has to prove to the world he is worthy of her, but when is he going to prove to his wife he is her saathiya and he is the worthy one for her? His wife is not talking to him. Does he not know why? It's not just what he said to her in anger, but it is also because she saw him holding hands with his ex. Doesn't he feel no need to explain? Even when you think that the other person knows where you are coming from, you still sometimes need to voice your reasons to drive your point home and clear out the air. He tells his ex he was lucky in getting Gopi. Has he ever told Gopi that? If he realizes that why wouldn't he show Gopi that she was also lucky to get him?

May be one day he will, but he needs to do it sooner than later and not after Gopi has been through the fire one more time to prove her worthiness.

I am sorry for the long post, Navya, but I needed to get it out. It is high time the CV's stop making Gopi the scape goat every time and make Ahemji step up to the plate to prove himself.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Anitha proving herself will not happen. Navya, you are underestimating Kokila.. If she knew that ANitha was worthy of Ahem she would not have rejected that girl😛

As for the SBB Navya, I think Anitha made Kofta that is all.. Gopi did not make anything. But she helped Baa with something for which she got a the silver coin.. That is all.. I again say that we are overhyped due to what we saw instead of waiting for what is to come..😊

Gopi is again not expected to prove anything. Ahem is happy with Gopi. Koki will prove it.. Gopi has already done that..

Originally posted by: RachP

Apparently, the CVs love to have the ball in the man's court at all times. He'll decide when he'll love her. He'll decide when she's passed all the rites of passages. He'll decide the time.

I just want to see a day in SNS when Gopi makes one selfish choice, without thinking about her Ahemji, or her Maaji, or her Rashiben.

Originally posted by: navyab

My question Harini...as much as I respect Koki for the MIL she is...why should it be Koki who has to prove anything...& prove it whom !!!!