Why is it !!! Always why !!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

She is showing Anitha that she is a over confident, ambitious, ungrateful, untruthful witch.. That is all Navya.. She is going to show Anitha the mirror and ,make her look at her true face herself and not assume she is an angel in distress😛

My question Harini...who is Anitha that Koki feels it a point to prove it...she is an outsider...so my question is why make an outsider look in the mirror about themselves...you see your DIL suffering, you should be more concerned about her ...than about proving something to an outsider !!!

Originally posted by: navyab

My question Harini...who is Anitha that Koki feels it a point to prove it...she is an outsider...so my question is why make an outsider look in the mirror about themselves...you see your DIL suffering, you should be more concerned about her ...than about proving something to an outsider !!!

Well said Navya. Like I mentioned in a post, that Gopi have proved herself time and time again and she has been successful. It's time for the great Ahem Modi to be worthy of Gopi, instead of just being fooled by the fake tears of Anita

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Well Navya lets just say from where I am looking from, Koki needs to prove this to Anitha to make sure that Gopi never doubts herself..
This is a much needed fact that Gopi needs to realize to get the confidence she lacks in her marriage. Why Kokila and not Ahem, I know will be your next question. Well my belief is it will be Ahem who will prove it in the end.. This is just the start😊

And BTW, this is Gopi's story.. So you can expect nothing else but problems that Gopi overcomes and others either aid or create problems for her.. So it is that all tracks are for Gopi 😊

well sorry Harini I thought this was saath nibhana saathiya which talks about husband & wife...forgot it was saath nibhaana sathiya Gopi !!!

Originally posted by: RachP

Apparently, the CVs love to have the ball in the man's court at all times. He'll decide when he'll love her. He'll decide when she's passed all the rites of passages. He'll decide the time.

I just want to see a day in SNS when Gopi makes one selfish choice, without thinking about her Ahemji, or her Maaji, or her Rashiben.

well that will also be a day when we will all support Gopi 😉 !!! well I know this is a mean world by men 😡😡 !!

Originally posted by: aris22l

You are so right Rachna. Most of the viewers for these serials are women and the stories most of the times revolve around women, but even if the leading men have smaller roles, they are the ones calling the shots. The women have to suffer all the pain and walk through fire to win their man's love. I don't understand it at all. SNS takes it all one step further. I don't think there has ever been any other serial where the husband hasn't even confessed his love to his wife for two years, yet she has to prove her love for him every single day.

The day CV's entertain the idea of Gopi vahu not thinking about anybody else, they will have a heart attack.

agree aris...the CVs will just not even be able think about Gopi standing up for her !!!! she will always need help from other...😡

Originally posted by: kafa

Well said Navya. Like I mentioned in a post, that Gopi have proved herself time and time again and she has been successful. It's time for the great Ahem Modi to be worthy of Gopi, instead of just being fooled by the fake tears of Anita

Im also so for it kafa that Ahem proves his self !!!

navya i really loved ur post

i haev always wanted Ahems to be dragged by the feet into this yogyata crap . . and once he goes thru . . GOpi will be instant change. . Gopi already has yogya patni inside her. . jsut that whenever she hopes her hopes get shattered each and eevry time so she is scared to hope and believe any moer. . . and her trusts get shaken each dya . . and AHem still not realising anything going on. . coz thats how its being done. .

there were soo many ways to keep Ahem alert just for Gopi at least jsut that. . before ths Gopi to Yogya patni crap started. . to make AHem lift the heavy load. . but that did not really happen at all. .

just hope CVs do get a chance to do justice to both Gohem . .esp AHem . .out of all SNS. . Gopi has done over 90% of the heavy lifting and suffering. . its his turn for once. . ths silet treatment is too less compared to what Gopi went thru. . . AHem cannot beat this silent treatment lol even for a day or two. . and why does he not feel that he endured his cold and silent ttreatments in the dark days and stayed put. . braved that storm. .

and i got a feeling that if they can show AHem to be over concerned for Anita perhaps guilty for their past and whatever. he might have the same for GOpi after Anita is thrown out or as it builds up to that. . but Ahem redemption cud have been done is such a more better way . . they cud have showed it as a journey he took as he became a better and more good Ahem . . they could have encompassed all that moemnt beautifully. . and wud be no need for a Ahem repentance track. . .or anything along taht lines that had potentail to run too long. . .no idea what the CVs are up to. . . but i just want Ahem to do more ehavy lifting for once. . i want him to carry million times the wweight and hurt gopi is going thru no matter what on his shoulders and see how it feels 😭 😭