Ahem and love: frustration building up

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swasthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Gopi's prevailing silent treatment was gradually building up frustration in Ahem.

Gopi's silent treatment towards Ahem continued yet she tended to his daily needs in every way. Each time he attempted to start a conversation with her body language had shown no interest to reciprocating. She looks away without any smile on her lips or any twinkle in her eyes.

What Ahem saw was his wife taking care of his needs for breakfast to the nth degree and doing it so lovingly and perfectly too, at the same time she was not showing it through her voice or with the expressive warmth of love on her face. When he called out at her he noticed her lack of attentiveness and pretence to being busy. He flared his nostrils and pursed his lips in vexation. He was fuming inwardly for his inability to have a decent conversation with her and apologise to her for his behaviour after the party. His mind was so disturbed that when he was done with breakfast he angrily stood up and walked away leaving his handkerchief behind having just used it.

As he was about to step out of the doorway he realised he was missing his handkerchief. He did not need to step back to get it as his wife was right behind him handing him it, it was as though she could read his mind. He thanked her and started talking to her thinking he had finally got her attention but it wasn't to be so. She merely looked the other way and walked away as he spoke. He looked on after her fuming, turned and in three strides he was out of the house.

It was a ruined morning attempting to make it up to his wife. With his frustration levels increasing he could not get in edgewise to say anything to her. When he returns later in the day he will mad with rage as he naturally tends to do, or will he not?

Another thing that was angering him was overhearing his mum shopping around with the panditji for a groom for Anita. He thought whether this could have been the same way she had done for him. How can her armchair judgement assume to be the right one?

What do you say?

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ll-Shilpa-ll

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Wonderful analysis once again Swasthi.

Agree Ahem's frustration is building up and soon he is not going to be able to take her silence anymore, but he won't respond in anger.

He sees that Gopi still cares for him very much in the way she is lovingly serving him and taking care of his needs. She is still the same, only change is that she is not talking to him.

He is trying his best to say sorry but she is not giving him chance, I still say that when he has had enough and loses his patience with her silence he will make her listen one way or another. He won't give her a chance to escape or avoid him.

He will say his piece and then storm of leaving her to decide what she want to do next.

By then end of the week I am sure there will be a positive outcome to this whole thing.

Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago

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ritika

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Posted: 13 years ago

Gud analysis. Hanky scene was gud enough to show his restleness nd showing that how eager he is for talking with gopi.

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doc4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

Fantastic Swasthi...👏 It's difficult when you once had everything on a silver platter when you didn't ask for it and now when you want it, need it, there's is nothing...

Ahem was used to having Gopi's care and love shine on him everyday even when he didn't want it...Now that it's not available anymore...As your title is saying...his frustration is building up...

It's gradually overcoming his patience and as seen he left for work in anger...what is yet to see is how and to who is he going to direct all his anger and frustration at?

Rashi's KKs are not making it any easier for Gopi as she is ready to show him that she has forgiven him...As Harini mentioned in another post...Gopi is learning that marriage is not just being able to serve her family and her husband...it's also about her standing up for her rights...And my feeling is that is what Rashi is trying to drive home here with Gopi and maybe that is why she is pushing Gopi to remain silent right now...just a PoV...maybe wrong...😳

Looking forward to tomorrow's episode to see what's in store with Anita's wedding supposedly being stopped by Ahem and how this impacts on Gohem's relationship further...

Edited by doc4ever - 13 years ago

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-neela-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Great analysis Swasthi ⭐️ 😊

Ahem's frustration is building up and as I have said in another post, this is just the beginning to the moment of Ahem snapping 😉

Kshama, you have said many points that I agree on, especially this one - "It's difficult when you once had everything on a silver platter when you didn't ask for it and now when you want it, need it, there's is nothing..." Ahem Modi is now realising what it is like to work for something you really want 😛

Tomorrow is going to be interesting, I just can't get my head around why Ahem has said no to the wedding but let's see whats in store for us.. 😊

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suk19

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Posted: 13 years ago

sorry its so late Ahams frustration i am waiting for the day he explodes not to his sweet gopi but anita n rashi n his mother everyone except gopi i want him to grab her hand take her to the bedroom n goodnight everyone 😳

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varshu27

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Posted: 13 years ago

wonderful analysis swasthi...ahem is frustrated and angry...i just wish that he doesnt let the anger get the better of him this time...i want him to return home in the evening with a huge bouquet of roses and apologise to her...but it looks like we are going to get something else ...

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swasthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Aveiro
Agree

Thanks and welcome to the forum.

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swasthi

@swasthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ritika-gohem
Gud analysis. Hanky scene was gud enough to show his restleness nd showing that how eager he is for talking with gopi.

My pleasure Ritika.

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swasthi

@swasthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: doc4ever
Fantastic Swasthi...👏 It's difficult when you once had everything on a silver platter when you didn't ask for it and now when you want it, need it, there's is nothing...
Ahem was used to having Gopi's care and love shine on him everyday even when he didn't want it...Now that it's not available anymore...As your title is saying...his frustration is building up...

It's gradually overcoming his patience and as seen he left for work in anger...what is yet to see is how and to who is he going to direct all his anger and frustration at?

Rashi's KKs are not making it any easier for Gopi as she is ready to show him that she has forgiven him...As Harini mentioned in another post...Gopi is learning that marriage is not just being able to serve her family and her husband...it's also about her standing up for her rights...And my feeling is that is what Rashi is trying to drive home here with Gopi and maybe that is why she is pushing Gopi to remain silent right now...just a PoV...maybe wrong...😳

Looking forward to tomorrow's episode to see what's in store with Anita's wedding supposedly being stopped by Ahem and how this impacts on Gohem's relationship further...

You are welcome.

So true about your opening statement. One should always appreciate and uphold these good this all the time. This is one lesson Ahem is learning.

This time round he needs to direct his anger to himself and think deeply of his way forward.

In Gopi's case whilst she is learning the value of being a wife she is learning to become selective in her choices and think like an individual.

With Ahem stopping the Anita's wedding, his words could be double edged, building blind confidence in Anita.

Whatever said and done this roller coaster ride has a bit longer way to go.