Do you want Ahemji to confront his first year? - Page 2

Originally posted by: varshu27

there was also that other incident with the kangan ordering for raashis birthday...he let that one pass too...what is it going to take for him to remember😕

Yeah, I remember how excited we had all got at that time too. I feel he just can't think he is in love with someone without remembering the pain he gave to them. If CV's don't show him repent, they are fools possessing the worst kind of insensitive souls on this planet. Not only that, I would think the CV's will show an error in judgment by omitting the repentance track because it has a high potential to boost up the TRP's.

Originally posted by: aris22l

Yeah, I remember how excited we had all got at that time too. I feel he just can't think he is in love with someone without remembering the pain he gave to them. If CV's don't show him repent, they are fools possessing the worst kind of insensitive souls on this planet. Not only that, I would think the CV's will show an error in judgment by omitting the repentance track because it has a high potential to boost up the TRP's.

Originally posted by: -neela-

I believe Ahem needs to revisit his past and the first year of his marriage to truly see where he has come today due to his wife's nature. He needs to remember all those God-awful things he did to Gopi and try and make up for them in some way! (Don't ask me how, I can not think of an appropriate act of forgiveness atm!!). Gopi may have forgiven Ahem but if and when something from the past is brought up (hypothetically speaking - Rashi being thrown out and kk's revealed [note = hypothetically as we don't know for sure if she will be thrown out]), Ahem will still have the guilt in him and may not be able to support Gopi in her time of need! However, if Ahem was to confront his actions of the past now, if when Rashi is thrown out (please remember, I am talking hypothetically here!!), at least Ahem will be able to give some support if not fully to Gopi...

I hope that makes sense, if not, oh well... 😉

You are making perfect sense, Neela. In order for him to fully support Gopi as her saathiya in future, he needs to get over his guilt of not being her saathiya in the past. He can assuage his guilt by truly repenting his deeds and making it up to Gopi by truly valuing her for who she is.

Originally posted by: aris22l

You are making perfect sense, Neela. In order for him to fully support Gopi as her saathiya in future, he needs to get over his guilt of not being her saathiya in the past. He can assuage his guilt by truly repenting his deeds and making it up to Gopi by truly valuing her for who she is.

Ahem should definitely go down memory lane of his first year of marriage life, the way he treated Gopi, arrogance, and he was just waiting for the least error to bach Gopi. So he should revisit those moments, seek forgiveness and then at least he will be able to move forward. We know he loves Gopi, but he has never even confess to himself, so...

gopui is too forgiving..even now she is quiet because of Rashi... I want gopi to feel angry , betrayed and not hide those emotiions from him...has she ever been angry? why not...she should feel free to show all her empotions ...then this character will develop..

CVs cud have eoncompassed Ahem's redemption at every steep of the way to him becoming good AHem. . . but the CVs just messed that up. . . they cud have shown it really well. ..

in real life forgetting a past like that is never possible and it has to be done. . .

he needs to go thru the raw pain Gopi went thru coz he was a nut case who never thought like a Human largely in the first place. . .

even if confession or SR or whatever comes. . in reality the dark past will always haunt him and he will never be able to get away with it . . . he just wont i am sure. . one does not simply act like a rakshas and then bee gud but still think he can get away by forgetting about his rakshasi past. . .

after all the past is fully cleared then only can Gohem move forward in strong formation with no eevn insect / mosquito bhai from the past can mess their lifes. . and with that also need to come the Kks in the past. . the deeds Rashi did to get Gopi Ahem seperated. . and pre and after wedding mega KKs that ruined loads of things and were most significant e.g. letter Kk. .

i have no idea what CVs are doing. . but i have always wanted AHem repentance to be step by step . . in a sense that as he gets gud. . he remembers his past action and does a super gud deed to erase that memory. . by not at all remembering the pats and seeing the difference between now and then its a laziness factor that he cant really be asked.. and that he is a happy times only guy and just expects things to go well. . i'm afraid not. . . his past will come and will be interesting how CVs play this out. . . . i wanna see him cry hard LOL. . bangign himself but no memory loss LOL/ // . . holi was a nightmare . . and would not want more of that at all. .

Originally posted by: kafa

Ahem should definitely go down memory lane of his first year of marriage life, the way he treated Gopi, arrogance, and he was just waiting for the least error to bach Gopi. So he should revisit those moments, seek forgiveness and then at least he will be able to move forward. We know he loves Gopi, but he has never even confess to himself, so...

Good points, Kafa. He should definitely seek forgiveness and only then he can move towards his future. Yeah, that is one of my pet peeves that the CV's never show us his thoughts. We know he loves Gopi, but does he? Does he realize he loves her? I feel once he tells himself that he loves her, he will also realize what he did to her in the past and his repentance will start.

Originally posted by: mona05

gopui is too forgiving..even now she is quiet because of Rashi... I want gopi to feel angry , betrayed and not hide those emotiions from him...has she ever been angry? why not...she should feel free to show all her empotions ...then this character will develop..

i want gopi to ruthna a lot..and then ahemji bending backwards to manao her...then the chemistry will show ..not with this silence...

I don't think we have ever seen her angry😆. Shocked after holi and disappointed and sad during batwara track, but not angry. An angry and vocal Gopi will be fun to watch.

I did wish that Gopi's silence will make Ahemji try to woo her as he did after holi, but he is getting angry instead. He is not trying to woo her.

Originally posted by: Vinder90

CVs cud have eoncompassed Ahem's redemption at every steep of the way to him becoming good AHem. . . but the CVs just messed that up. . . they cud have shown it really well. ..

in real life forgetting a past like that is never possible and it has to be done. . .

he needs to go thru the raw pain Gopi went thru coz he was a nut case who never thought like a Human largely in the first place. . .

even if confession or SR or whatever comes. . in reality the dark past will always haunt him and he will never be able to get away with it . . . he just wont i am sure. . one does not simply act like a rakshas and then bee gud but still think he can get away by forgetting about his rakshasi past. . .

after all the past is fully cleared then only can Gohem move forward in strong formation with no eevn insect / mosquito bhai from the past can mess their lifes. . and with that also need to come the Kks in the past. . the deeds Rashi did to get Gopi Ahem seperated. . and pre and after wedding mega KKs that ruined loads of things and were most significant e.g. letter Kk. .

i have no idea what CVs are doing. . but i have always wanted AHem repentance to be step by step . . in a sense that as he gets gud. . he remembers his past action and does a super gud deed to erase that memory. . by not at all remembering the pats and seeing the difference between now and then its a laziness factor that he cant really be asked.. and that he is a happy times only guy and just expects things to go well. . i'm afraid not. . . his past will come and will be interesting how CVs play this out. . . . i wanna see him cry hard LOL. . bangign himself but no memory loss LOL/ // . . holi was a nightmare . . and would not want more of that at all. .

Vinder, good post. The CV's need to have a track dedicated to his repentance where as you said he remembers everything he did and regrets it and makes up to Gopi to erase those bad memories forever. You are right Ahemji is not a good times guy only. The CV's by making him not remember his past mistakes are making his character look frivolous. If he can remember what he did to Anita, why can't he remember what he did to Gopi. His confession of love can not be complete without his remorse over his past errors in judgement over Gopi. You are right, in real life, people don't just forget bad mistakes they made especially if those mistakes affected someone they love so deeply.
I am with you that some of the KKs should come out, but I don't have that much trust on the CV's. I have a feeling those KK's are gone forever somewhere in the space never to be found again. It would have been so satisfying if the CV's had revealed them and to watch Ahemji's reaction - that would have been a scene to cherish forever. I am not sure if CV's have any plans to deal with the KKs.