Do you want Ahemji to confront his first year?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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We are seeing Ahemji suffering these days due to his wife ignoring him. Do you feel this is enough for him since we know he loves her? Should Gopi forgive him? What I feel that Gopi's forgiveness in this case doesn't matter because she already has. She doesn't want to punish him. In her mind there is nothing to forgive any ways.

What I want is as this track comes to a conclusion Ahemji revisiting the first year of his marriage and really analyzing what he did, why he did it, what effect his actions had on Gopi, how he felt about Gopi in the past, how his feelings about Gopi are now and how Gopi has always felt about him. I want him to have a good look at his life for once and all and realize where he used to be in the past and where he is now. Does he like the man he was or does he like the man he is now?

I feel until he revisits his past, he can not move forward no matter what. Even if he confesses his eternal love to Gopi, it wouldn't be real to me until he confronts his first year of marriage. He needs to regret what he did, forgive himself and ask for forgiveness from his wife.

How do you all feel? Do you think Ahemji's first year of marriage should just be ignored or it needs to be visited to prove he is Gopi's true saathiya? Is it too late or too early to bring it up?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ariss I never had analytical skills and cannt say anything about the people in SNS but this track and Ahem's actions plus this creepy Anita are making me 🤢!! I just want that someone could knock some sense in these cvs and just get the things finally end up grippedšŸ¤”!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: abbay

Ariss I never had analytical skills and cannt say anything about the people in SNS but this track and Ahem's actions plus this creepy Anita are making me 🤢!! I just want that someone could knock some sense in these cvs and just get the things finally end up grippedšŸ¤”!


So wrong timing for this post, hmm?šŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you know how i feel aris...his first year should be absolutely visited...his repentance is long over due...he has flash backs of recent incidents but never of that hellish year...how come...is he ashamed of the way he behaved or does he not think about it at all...šŸ˜•...ive had it with him getting things easy and expecting gopi to understand him no matter what...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l


So wrong timing for this post, hmm?šŸ˜†


no its just wrong person answered your post!!!!!šŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27

you know how i feel aris...his first year should be absolutely visited...his repentance is long over due...he has flash backs of recent incidents but never of that hellish year...how come...is he ashamed of the way he behaved or does he not think about it at all...šŸ˜•...ive had it with him getting things easy and expecting gopi to understand him no matter what...


Yes, we have been waiting for a long time. He has selective amnesia. I had some hopes, when Gopi mentions to him that she sang the birthday song to him last year, but he had fallen asleep. I got all excited and thought - oh, now he will think back. Alas, nothing happened. I feel the timing is right. The CV's should show it now.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l


Yes, we have been waiting for a long time. He has selective amnesia. I had some hopes, when Gopi mentions to him that she sang the birthday song to him last year, but he had fallen asleep. I got all excited and thought - oh, now he will think back. Alas, nothing happened. I feel the timing is right. The CV's should show it now.



there was also that other incident with the kangan ordering for raashis birthday...he let that one pass too...what is it going to take for him to rememberšŸ˜•
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: abbay


no its just wrong person answered your post!!!!!šŸ˜†


šŸ˜† It's all because of that witch Anita, making my friend Abbay feel she lacks analytical skillsšŸ˜†. COme on Abbay, take the challenge. Imagine you have a sword and Anita is a dragon to be slayed.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27



there was also that other incident with the kangan ordering for raashis birthday...he let that one pass too...what is it going to take for him to rememberšŸ˜•


@ bold : another birth!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I believe Ahem needs to revisit his past and the first year of his marriage to truly see where he has come today due to his wife's nature. He needs to remember all those God-awful things he did to Gopi and try and make up for them in some way! (Don't ask me how, I can not think of an appropriate act of forgiveness atm!!). Gopi may have forgiven Ahem but if and when something from the past is brought up (hypothetically speaking - Rashi being thrown out and kk's revealed [note = hypothetically as we don't know for sure if she will be thrown out]), Ahem will still have the guilt in him and may not be able to support Gopi in her time of need! However, if Ahem was to confront his actions of the past now, if when Rashi is thrown out (please remember, I am talking hypothetically here!!), at least Ahem will be able to give some support if not fully to Gopi...
I hope that makes sense, if not, oh well... šŸ˜‰

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