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Posted: 13 years ago
#11
I suppose we are tolerating both of them as we are still watching the show, but to be honest Anita isn't any better then Rashi.

Anita lived in Rajkot possibly for work but when she broke off with Aham she went to America she then arranged a marriage for herself in Rajkot, off course hoping to see Aham, at the wedding her heart was beating excessively when Aham glanced at her, even in the cloakroom the same shocked and staring at Aham lovingly early and then also. So she never moved on with her life in over a year.

She clings to Gopi and she plans Gohems marriage to go on the rocks with her making sure Gopi overhears her questioning Aham recently, and the way she questions him, Gopi and you are not from the same background etc, when Gopi has been taking care of her all this time, ungrateful and self-centred behaviour.

I don't like Rashi either, so I guess if it goes too much we give an episode or two a miss.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

thats really true...no one can tolerate and patience of waiting for two years...she is really a stong woman and than a patni...



umm. . if only her patni relation wasnt squeezed in the dark days. . i mean to say she wud never need this re-strengthening. . . if Koki cud chat to Ahem about Gopi knowing,++ OR concentrate more on AHem's yogyata. . . and telling him to sort things out. . or whatever. along those lines. . that patni inside Gopi wud be alive and kicking long ago . . i have ranted all thsi more systematically in one of suk's post .. dont want to keep repeatin myself. . .

80% of pple seem oblivious to old Ahem . . like he never existed... i bet that in real life if the ever had someone like odl Ahem taht they knew they wud probably not awnt to spenda miunte with him in same room . .that unless if some were too concerned with drooling LOL. .

but anyways. . dont get me started on this yogyata stuff. lol ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: happy_alien

I'm not sure I agree with you Bhavya.

Anitha may love Ahem but I don't think that's any excuse for trying to break up his marriage, truthfully I consider her to be as bad as Rashi. They both exhibit the same slyness of character and willingness to hurt others for their own selfish gain.

may be anitas love is true she is just trying to get back her love may be aham is gopis husband now...but it is true that aham once loved anita...
she still thinks aham loves her she has a reason aham has not accepted gopi as wife still may be subconsciously he had accepted her physically but never told he loves her...
so he still love anita and he himself has shown ray of hope to anita...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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both women are hard to tolerate both are witchy n bitchy both think about themselves not about others both are delusional both need a kick up the backside
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

may be anitas love is true she is just trying to get back her love may be aham is gopis husband now...but it is true that aham once loved anita...
she still thinks aham loves her she has a reason aham has not accepted gopi as wife still may be subconsciously he had accepted her physically but never told he loves her...
so he still love anita and he himself has shown ray of hope to anita...


Bhavya.. Anitha thinking that Ahem still loves her is pure disillusion and we saw that.. Ahem gave her no indication of still being in love with her. She took what suited her and decided to go ahead with it.
As mentioned in other posts, being in love wit Ahem does not give her the excuse to hurt Gopi.
A wife is a wife and she has to be given that respect. Hurting the girl who took care of you, bad mouthing her and then acting sweet is all cunning and manipulative. It is also an act of pure evilness..
Anitha is not excused just because she says she loves Ahem.. If she does she would have seen that he does not love her or atleast would have made it clear.. But she has decided to show Gopi te untruth and break her to mislead her and then break her marriage.

Whatever she deludes herself with, taking advantage of the goodness in others is not excusable. I still maintain that she is as bad and maybe worse than Rashi. Both are woman who have done unpardonable things.😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Bhavya.. Anitha thinking that Ahem still loves her is pure disillusion and we saw that.. Ahem gave her no indication of still being in love with her. She took what suited her and decided to go ahead with it.
As mentioned in other posts, being in love wit Ahem does not give her the excuse to hurt Gopi.
A wife is a wife and she has to be given that respect. Hurting the girl who took care of you, bad mouthing her and then acting sweet is all cunning and manipulative. It is also an act of pure evilness..
Anitha is not excused just because she says she loves Ahem.. If she does she would have seen that he does not love her or atleast would have made it clear.. But she has decided to show Gopi te untruth and break her to mislead her and then break her marriage.

Whatever she deludes herself with, taking advantage of the goodness in others is not excusable. I still maintain that she is as bad and maybe worse than Rashi. Both are woman who have done unpardonable things.😡

untill Anita realizes Aham loves gopi...everything is fair in love and war...may be the love has turned one sided but still it will be interesting...she is cunning, an witchy and bitchy for love...a person can go to any level to get their love back...love has no boundary...once if anita realizes Aham loves gopi even than she continues her habit of getting aham back by hook or crook than i have a reasont o hate anita ,,,, till than i will say i can tolerate anita...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I absolutely agree with Harini. Watch out, Anita has just started her game and her more evilness is yet to see. Who knows, she may not go the extent of harming Gopi to avoid her permanently from Ahem's life. She appears obsessive of Ahem and might do any dirty game to achieve her goal. Having said that I am not ready to acquit Rashi of her misdeeds of past one and half year. I feel both are equally evil and dirty minded. Rashi is helping Gopi now only for her selfish reasons and not due to any sisterly love. So I hope by the end of this track both Rashi and Anita will be punished properly in order to serve justice to Gopi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

may be anitas love is true she is just trying to get back her love may be aham is gopis husband now...but it is true that aham once loved anita...
she still thinks aham loves her she has a reason aham has not accepted gopi as wife still may be subconsciously he had accepted her physically but never told he loves her...
so he still love anita and he himself has shown ray of hope to anita...

Bhavya, @ bod, I would like to disagree with your view. Ahem never showed any sign to her that he still has feelings for her, rather he gave clear indication to her many times that he has moved on in his life with Gopi. I will cite the instances below.
1. mentioning that his preferences are changed now and he likes the dhaal prepared by Gopi
2. again mentioning the same thing about her american break fast
3. Ignoring her and quickly moving to Gopi as he was greeted b'day wishes on the surprise party
4. wearing the shirt which Gopi has chosen for him, even though he never wears loud colours.
5. Feeding her first piece of cake and spending time with her in the party (sleeve)
6. showing his displeasure when Gopi refused to go with him for the party
7. Happiness when Gopi agreed to come
8. Staring at Gopi, looking lost outside the car
9. Again, getting intimate with Gopi inside the car
10. Not showing interest when Anita said she is not coming
Any one with normal sense can read the message very clearly that Ahem moved on in his life and loves his wife very dearly. Problem with Anita is that she is disillusioned and thinks what she wants to see. So in no way, she can't be excused saying she is doing all these just to gain her love back.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Precious_

Bhavya, @ bod, I would like to disagree with your view. Ahem never showed any sign to her that he still has feelings for her, rather he gave clear indication to her many times that he has moved on in his life with Gopi. I will cite the instances below.
1. mentioning that his preferences are changed now and he likes the dhaal prepared by Gopi
2. again mentioning the same thing about her american break fast
3. Ignoring her and quickly moving to Gopi as he was greeted b'day wishes on the surprise party
4. wearing the shirt which Gopi has chosen for him, even though he never wears loud colours.
5. Feeding her first piece of cake and spending time with her in the party (sleeve)
6. showing his displeasure when Gopi refused to go with him for the party
7. Happiness when Gopi agreed to come
8. Staring at Gopi, looking lost outside the car
9. Again, getting intimate with Gopi inside the car
10. Not showing interest when Anita said she is not coming
Any one with normal sense can read the message very clearly that Ahem moved on in his life and loves his wife very dearly. Problem with Anita is that she is disillusioned and thinks what she wants to see. So in no way, she can't be excused saying she is doing all these just to gain her love back.

Well said! 👏
The instances you have mentioned would have made any normal person see the truth in front of them!
Love the points you have mentioned in bold! 👍🏼

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't know how you can have sympathy for a woman who is lying, manipulating other people's guilt, stealing someone's husband right under her nose for the sake of so called love.

Rashi has tried to make gopi look bad in front of others, she has tried to create misunderstanding between ahem and gopi but I think the biggest betrayal for a woman is to loose her husband physically and emotionally to another woman. Gopi who welcomed her in her home because Anita was sick.

So I do think that I hate Anita more because only the lowest type of woman will put another woman through this pain. Ask yourself if gopi will feel more bad if ahem slaps her or if she sees him sleeping with Anita. You will have your answer.

The look on Anita face when she saw gopis heart break tells you how evil she is. Don't get me wrong I do not think that rashi should not pay but I think Anitas offence is much bigger.

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