Is Love Actually Blind??!!! - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly what I feel whenever I see her...

I mean how did Ahem fall in love with her... I keep trying to justify that Anita must be good in some way... She seemed nice initially... but she is being portrayed so dumb... Why?

Creatives have a lot of explaining to do?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhruti

After seeing the episodes of last week and especially after observing and tolerating Anita, i have this running in my mind from a few days, what did ahem actually like Anita sooo much that he fell in love with her... Was he actually blind or is it that love is actually blind???? 😕



Ahemjiii please answer these questions:-
1. did you really liked anita's weird voice??
IN Ahem's case love "was" deaf too
2. did you really liked anita's branch thin phsquie??
In Ahem's case love "had" no taste too
3. did you really liked her ostrich neck???
In Ahem's case "had" no desire to touch and feel.
4. did you really liked her chipku wala attitude????
In Ahem's case "had" only his mom as comparison and she is a chipu too as she wants every one to listen to her only.
5. did you really liked her no flesh and only bones wala body structureee?????
Pls refer to point 3 above.


Am really confused 😕

I put all in past tense as now Ahem is a changed man and he has good taste in life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhruti

After seeing the episodes of last week and especially after observing and tolerating Anita, i have this running in my mind from a few days, what did ahem actually like Anita sooo much that he fell in love with her... Was he actually blind or is it that love is actually blind???? 😕



Ahemjiii please answer these questions:-
1. did you really liked anita's weird voice??
2. did you really liked anita's branch thin phsquie??
3. did you really liked her ostrich neck???
4. did you really liked her chipku wala attitude????
5. did you really liked her no flesh and only bones wala body structureee?????

Am really confused 😕

We know that ahem is very repressed emotionally. Besides his mom in all his other relationshipS like with jigar, kinjal, baa he plays the responsible one not someone who is overtly loving like jigar. So it hard to see him pursuing a girl. Since Anita threw herself on him and was the aggressor in their relationship. He found it easy to just go with the flow it was not love it was something easy for which he did not have to come out of his shell. That is why it was easy not to fight for her.

Where as with gopi he has to be the pursuer and so it has taken so much time but then also gopi has reached him beyond his shell. For gopi he will fight.

As for Anita she reminds of a starved rich socialite auntyji whose smile also contains no warmth. It is hard to imagine this clingy pathetic girl with someone macho like ahem.
Edited by Saathfan - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Perhaps Ahem liked her tailor bird nest like hair?😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That's a bit harsh to the actress rather than the character... I personally think she's quite good looking, I've seen her in another show and she was really good..

But to be honest before Gopi entered into Ahem's life, he was a different person.
The only thing that mattered to him was his mum, work, and status to an extent and he would just do what is practical and logical.
That's why when he found out Gopi was illiterate he was so angry he slapped her, why? Because of his status and because he couldn't imagine not marrying someone like him, who knows English, is modern, and follows his lifestyle.
That's where Anita comes into the picture. She was the perfect girl for him in the sense that she was literate, very modern and had the same lifestyle as him. He was probably thinking practically, and thought she was perfect because she was the same as him. But you see that's where he was wrong, because although we all come up with ideas of how we want our ideal husband/wife to be, in reality these things never matter, because love isn't logical.. And that's how he fell for Gopi, he isn't thinking practically anymore because the things he believed mattered actually don't, and he can't help but love Gopi.. Gopi has changed Ahem, he now reacts to things with a bit more emotion, with love.. It's so cute😳

I don't think he ever loved Anita because he didn't really fight against his mum when she said he can't marry Anita. But he did care about her, he wouldn't be a gentleman if he had just simply used her...
Edited by shazna123 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhruti

After seeing the episodes of last week and especially after observing and tolerating Anita, i have this running in my mind from a few days, what did ahem actually like Anita sooo much that he fell in love with her... Was he actually blind or is it that love is actually blind???? 😕



Ahemjiii please answer these questions:-
1. did you really liked anita's weird voice??
2. did you really liked anita's branch thin phsquie??
3. did you really liked her ostrich neck???
4. did you really liked her chipku wala attitude????
5. did you really liked her no flesh and only bones wala body structureee?????

Am really confused 😕


Why are you bashing the actress that plays Anita? I thought this was not allowed on the forums.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: dhruti

After seeing the episodes of last week and especially after observing and tolerating Anita, i have this running in my mind from a few days, what did ahem actually like Anita sooo much that he fell in love with her... Was he actually blind or is it that love is actually blind???? 😕



Ahemjiii please answer these questions:-
1. did you really liked anita's weird voice??
2. did you really liked anita's branch thin phsquie??
3. did you really liked her ostrich neck???
4. did you really liked her chipku wala attitude????
5. did you really liked her no flesh and only bones wala body structureee?????

Am really confused 😕

It was really bad time in his life and he really does not remember what he saw in her.

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