yes he isnt the same Ahemji!!!!!! he has now changed to an emotional person than a mechanical robot aris!The reason he isnt telling these two things to the 2 most important women in his life bcz for 1 he knows how will she react (refer kokila about Ahem being nilesh) and for another he doesnt knows how will she react (refer gopi about anita being same anita/or preventing her from hurting).Just my POV!!!!!😳
Then Abbay, Ahemji doesn't know his Gopi at all. That's all I will say.
I can understand though him not telling Kokila even though I don't approve of it and I feel Kokila will give him better advice, but I remember how he hid the fact that he was helping Raji, so I am OK with that part.