Just my take ---well most on the forum are not happy that Ahem had kissed Gopi because they have not expressed their love to each other especially his love for Gopi so it should not happen...if I look it from that angle yes maybe it should not have happened but the other point I want to look is
Ahem had an option of just blowing a kiss on the phone or just make a sound for Anitha's sake, nobody would have known but what he did what his heart was saying him to do...be truthful to his wife & none else & he kissed her !!! He cannot even in thought of someone else's happiness can think of being unfaithful to his wife even if she does not know...does it not talk how much he cares for his wife !!! when in love, people want to become closer to their loved ones yet are scared on their reaction, Ahem has been dreaming about kissing his wife & when the opportunity cameby he just grabbed it because he would also know how his wife will react to him...it was a smart move...if she was offended he knows can blame it on the situation & he knows there is still sometime before he can cross the boundary...but if she shy & has a glow on her face, he knows it is time to take his relationship forward !!!
And what fun is it that simple things such as Kisses are planned between Husband & Wife...they need to be on the spur suprises 😉 !!!