What would you have done in Aham's shoes? - Page 4

Originally posted by: maddy311

you made ahem lesbian🤣

Snot my fault he is behaving like one! 🤣

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Sorry for the late reply. Trying to work at the same time.

That's what I'm asking. Would you have done something different. Honest answer. No.

Silence is often construed as guilt.

Maybe so. But it is a no win situation. If you shout too loudly people would say that you are guilty. In this situation silence would have been the only option but without the ashamed look.

Agree with this. But you have answered only partially.

I would not have stayed in the hospital all night. Apart from thinking back to the past, why stay? And I would decide which path I want to take. Either make my past my future and my present my past or make my present my future. To waver like this is not only painful but unjust.

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

So guys we have had a lot of speculation and talk and discussion over this issue for days now. Now the question I have is... What would you have done?

Put yourself in Aham's shoes. Start at the scene where everyone burst in and found you on in a very compromising position. Explain what would you have done and why.

Please note. I am not interested in who was to blame and who was responsible and who has been the bane of the Modi's from Day 1! That topic has been hashed to death! I want solutions! Not blame throwing!

Thank you Harini for your detailed reply 😃

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Well Shaun..

The first thing is get embarrassed and mortified of course.. That is just not a very pleasant situation to be in..

Agree. It is a horrible situation.

Then spring apart and say sorry to the other person.

That would be a very natural reaction. 99% of people would react the same.

If accusations start, for one I will be angry and I do not do angry very well..

Angry at yourself? For putting yourself in such a situation? Or angry at others for accusing you... which is only natural under the circumstances.

The first thing I do if I am angry is try to talk but words usually fail me, so I am better keeping quiet.

I am quite vocal when I am angry. But when I am innocent and get accused my words desert me and I become a mumbling idiot 😳

Just listen to the tirade from others and see if there is atleast one chance that someone will listen. But first, let them finish.

Agree. It is best to let people have their head in matters like this and step in at the end when the anger is subsiding.

Corner my mom and dad after that and tell them what actually happened. I want them to be assured. I am sure they would say they already know I will never do stuff like that and I do have to give any explanations..

Also the reaction of 99% of people. Explain yourself. Whether it is needed or not is immaterial. It goes a long way to assuaging the situation.

What is done is done and we will just have to rectify the mistake. That is me of course ...

Rectify within reason I would hope. Sometimes you can only do so much and leave the rest to fate. To try and over-rectify can often cause more harm than good.

(I do really hope this never ever.. I mean never ever happens.. Lord... That will be so awkward.😕)

Doubt it ever will. These types of situations rarely happen in real life. TV soaps they happen on a daily basis lol.

Now if the guy faints😆..that is a different question...😆

If he faints then he ain't a guy 🤣

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Good topic Shaun.

I have no idea what I would have done. I would be mortified and embarrassed and definitely tongue tied, if I am like Ahem and like to keep my feelings and my thoughts to myself I would have reacted exactly like him.

However I would have moved away from the girl, and when she fainted I would not have carried her out and looked for other options, like asking my Bhai to help.

I would have glanced at my wife at least once to reassure her.

Staying at the hospital is fine since my wife would have been with me but not have tried to stay alone and left with her the next day instead of sending her home by herself.

In the end Shaun we can speculate all we want but this is what CVs want. To drive us out of our minds. And this is all about the TRPs. They want to keep us hooked.

Thanks for replying Shilpa. I guess I am as guilty as the SNS CV's 😆 I will often create a thread or post something in a thread to provoke a reaction and make people think. I guess I enjoy seeing what makes people tick.

If everyone is saying 1 + 1 = 2 I will argue that the answer is 3. If they say 1 + 1 = 3 then I will say no the answer is Switzerland. Basically I am just crazy a bit 😆