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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Vinder.. It is still that one night and the next morning you realize.. It is 3 days for us.. But in serial world, it is just a few hours..😉 Give him a little bit more time.. He is just getting more shocks than he can absorb..😊


harini 🤗 this is what i called a true partner..

what the,, i was just about to type the same lines.. 😆

@ vinder.. it's just few hours.. and more over.. the girl is still in shock .. who is thinking she is married and asking for her husband every few minutes...

he is guilt for the wedding being called off due to him and there is added guilt of her shock where she thinks she is married and on top of that he is pretending to be nilesh over the phone.. and to make the matters worse rashi and jigar say nilesh called anita...

jayanth bhai says.. nilesh cannot call,...now Ahem is surrounded from all corners.. first let him take a deep breath and work on them..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


harini 🤗 this is what i called a true partner..

what the,, i was just about to type the same lines.. 😆

@ vinder.. it's just few hours.. and more over.. the girl is still in shock .. who is thinking she is married and asking for her husband every few minutes...

he is guilt for the wedding being called off due to him and there is added guilt of her shock where she thinks she is married and on top of that he is pretending to be nilesh over the phone.. and to make the matters worse rashi and jigar say nilesh called anita...

jayanth bhai says.. nilesh cannot call,...now Ahem is surrounded from all corners.. first let him take a deep breath and work on them..




He better act FAST then, 😡:: Slow coach, he was never that slow in BASHING Gopi, he never thought how many times she could be innocent but yet he always bashed her, I actually feel good to see him getting shouted at for once.. gives me some peace 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinder90



He better act FAST then, 😡:: Slow coach, he was never that slow in BASHING Gopi, he never thought how many times she could be innocent but yet he always bashed her, I actually feel good to see him getting shouted at for once.. gives me some peace 😡


@Bold - You can get the enjoyment of seeing him being accused by Jayanthi Bhai who also is acting the same now, right? Like he saw Gopi as a culprit, because Gopi did look like a culprit.. she even accepted mistakes herself, he is now looking like the person who did wrong..
So as Gopi cannot do the bashing back to Ahem, you will just have to be happy with Jayanthi Bhai😆

Just my PoV though... When two innocent people are in the same situation, we decide to feel sorry for Gopi and heckle Ahem because he caused the same pain to Gopi.. But he did not do that intentionally. Still it was his choice to let his temper loose on Gopi.. Like it is Jayanthi Bhai's choice to let his temper out on Ahem..
I pity Ahem like I pitied Gopi. I pity Ahem a bit more because he is trying to correct his mistake but yet he is just not making the finish line because 1) we are comparing him with his old self, 2) he is a man 3) he is a business man.. Just my PoV..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinder90



He better act FAST then, 😡:: Slow coach, he was never that slow in BASHING Gopi, he never thought how many times she could be innocent but yet he always bashed her, I actually feel good to see him getting shouted at for once.. gives me some peace 😡


i knew it.. i was expecting it to come..

now this is what i call diversion tactic...

just when we can not criticize Ahem as in this case, where he is not defending himself with Jayanthi Bhai..

immediately he is criticized for that first year of marriage.. all other things he has done for gopi to rectify each of his wrong behavior is thrown out of the window...

anyways.. that's pretty ok.. bad things done by him are hard to forget and good things done by him are hard to remember😊


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


i knew it.. i was expecting it to come..

now this is what i call diversion tactic...

just when we can not criticize Ahem as in this case, where he is not defending himself with Jayanthi Bhai..

immediately he is criticized for that first year of marriage.. all other things he has done for gopi to rectify each of his wrong behavior is thrown out of the window...

anyways.. that's pretty ok.. bad things done by him are hard to forget and good things done by him are hard to remember😊


@Bold: And that is the crux of the story! Extremely well said Munni! 👏👏...it's human mentality to perceive things the way our minds want us to see it.😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinder90



it seems you want me do die of depression today,

i shud stop posting my rants be4 i fait of depression 😭 (oo and Rants are never meant to be taken seriously coz they are not thought oout well by any writer: well thats me, coz i jsut write out what i think non stop without thinking (thats my fall back argument 😃) )

sorry just kiddin

Answer:: (with a heavy tired heart of mine: HERE GOES:) No clear answer, coz we can go a long way talking over this. . .

End of day it comes to a question of us as viewers, we all have different perceptions of this fiction matter::: (fall back argument LOL) :: Whatever Ahem would have said would have made no difference at all... What was worse, again kind of my RANT, but in my POV, i absolutely DESPISED his dumbfounded state, he was already dumb founded, and this accidental situation got him more dumbfounded . . . understandable, BUT FOR HOW LONG::; the longer he stays this way the longer, he will end up hurtnig those around him, BEfore this drags on too much, he needs to make an effort ::: WIll be hard::: BUT HE HAS TO DO IT:: get out of his DAMN tantrums. ... and think logically

OH and wait:: I will ask a question: What way is right in ur opinion for Ahem to progress??


He is progressing ably for now.. Currently he is in a reactive mode and I think it is the wise way to do it atleast for now.. Let the surprises and Shock take a break first before he can do something constructive

Hide behind his mom's pallu and let Koki do all the handy work??/
Stay in his damned trance state till things get worse??
Lay out all his anger on GOpi to let off steam??
What? I say What? How long is the Great Ahem Modi, going to stay in such a pitiful state?

Sorry Vinder.. He is still the man of decisions. He did make the decision to stay at the hospital. He did send all home. He did allow Gopi to stay with him. He did make the decision to lie to Anitha and acted as Nilesh, He is still taking decisions trying to correct his mistake. All actions and decisions may not be right but he is making them as he sees fit..
Will he let off steam on Gopi? I will be glad if he even in anger shares his pain and seek comfort for it tells me he loves Gopi dearly. Also there is a difference between Ahem in anger a year back and his anger now. .This anger is not directed at Gopi at all.. This anger is for his situation, the words are angry.. It is not to frighten Gopi.. It is his helplessness that will talk.. But can we leave that to the time he actually does let out his steam on Gopi? He has still not done so

What my rant is all abuot is RANT about HATE what Ahem has been doing, coz 1 way or other he has been forced by circumstances to do those things

Another thing
The Nilesh false act call actions he's been doing?? HOW LONG?
As long as Anitha needs it. Or as long as the doctor says she should not be panicked.

To cover up 1 lie one has to build a mountain of LIES that started Growing today,
First lie to Anita, the truth comes to Anita, she will be more HURT, and a risk that is she ges to knoww it was Ahe, she might think Ahem still loves her...= GOhem issues
As long as he has Gopi in loop there is no GoHem issues. If Anitha thinks that this is love from Ahem then it will be her mistake. If Ahem loved her then he would have said, "to hell with Nilesh.. I will be there for you.." Plus this was an implulsive decision. Ahem was not intending to continue the mountain of lies as you call it.. He himself told Gopi, "once Anitha is a little better, we do not have to do this anymore"

Second lie to family:: esp. Koki, by not revealing truth to her, Koki was pretty much defending a falst truth to Jayanti bhai about Nilesh calling. .
A big confusion.. yes... Ahem will realize the mistake he is making very soon. He is not doing this by planning something. He is taking his decisions based on circumstances. He will realize the mistake and then repent and correct it.. He will also see why Gopi was first not in favor of this lie.. He will know soon.. He is not doing this to hurt Anitha.. He is trying to salvage the situation under duress.. He is not correct but he will correct the mistake soon.

I ask,, what shoudl Ahem do
Only CVs can answer that😃
To me, he needs to let Koki handle it from the minute Anitha is at home. He should work to find out why he was in the room with Anitha in the first place (well wishful me ... I want Rashi to face the music😉) but if not that then he should try explaining to Nilesh.. Maybe try seeing if Nilesh will see his side of the story. .But the problem is he needs proofs.. And that is where the tape comes in.. But all this is for us for we know Rashi's KKs/.. To Ahem it is still an accident.. So to him the way out is to convince Nilesh or wait till Anitha is better to tell her the truth. Until then the facade has to continue.. He has not choice now..😕

I only ranted about what I did not like him doing, Its too early to make comclusions, but He needs to get out of this fast: coz if He drags on this lost state of his further, its going to do million tiems remo harm that any good
I really don't see any way out for Ahem.. Unless somebody says something and a foul play is suspected, the Modi's have no choice but to go with the tide and hope that Nilesh is ready to understand or wait till Anitha gets better to break the truth to her and then salvage her situation.. Either way it is a looong journey.. It will drag


Vinder.. My take in maroon.. This is purely my PoV.. Take it or just leave it.. 😛 All I am trying to say is that Ahem is trying.. He is making some mistakes, but then hindsight is always 20/20.. He will see the effect of the mistakes and will correct them. But at the end, it will be a lesson learnt and he will be wiser.. Just don't give up on Ahem yet..😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Vinder, it seems you need a big hug. Come here. I have one for you🤗 Hope you feel better.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What an wonderful discussion going ion here. Loving it...
Harini & Munni completely agree with you.

Vinder, Ahem is a simple human-being... when Gods could not do justice then how can you complain about lesser mortals like him 😛
Sita passed the 'fire test' to prove her purity, but still the social forces compelled Rama to abandon her. For what??/ was that justice? Why did ram not say anything he remained teary eyed all through Agni pariksha but poor Sita had to give the test.
In the famous Mahabhrata a Bhishma pitahmah a Drona sat with their head bent in shame as the ruling Kauravas put the hapless Draupadi to distasteful humiliation...the cheer haran...so why did they not do anything?
Babes, FATE was playing a cruel game ...here too in SNS fate is doing tricks, poor Ahem...my sympathies 🥺
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem shouts at gopi . coz he knows she will not say anything back to him , she only cries...and he is a real man coz he know he can control gopi as a slave.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Beautiful post and you are right, Ahem should get a dose of his own medicine for the way he treated Gopi in the past without letting her put a word in between...

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