Originally posted by: Vinder90
it seems you want me do die of depression today,
i shud stop posting my rants be4 i fait of depression 😭 (oo and Rants are never meant to be taken seriously coz they are not thought oout well by any writer: well thats me, coz i jsut write out what i think non stop without thinking (thats my fall back argument 😃) )
sorry just kiddin
Answer:: (with a heavy tired heart of mine: HERE GOES:) No clear answer, coz we can go a long way talking over this. . .
End of day it comes to a question of us as viewers, we all have different perceptions of this fiction matter::: (fall back argument LOL) :: Whatever Ahem would have said would have made no difference at all... What was worse, again kind of my RANT, but in my POV, i absolutely DESPISED his dumbfounded state, he was already dumb founded, and this accidental situation got him more dumbfounded . . . understandable, BUT FOR HOW LONG::; the longer he stays this way the longer, he will end up hurtnig those around him, BEfore this drags on too much, he needs to make an effort ::: WIll be hard::: BUT HE HAS TO DO IT:: get out of his DAMN tantrums. ... and think logically
OH and wait:: I will ask a question: What way is right in ur opinion for Ahem to progress??
He is progressing ably for now.. Currently he is in a reactive mode and I think it is the wise way to do it atleast for now.. Let the surprises and Shock take a break first before he can do something constructive
Hide behind his mom's pallu and let Koki do all the handy work??/
Stay in his damned trance state till things get worse??
Lay out all his anger on GOpi to let off steam??
What? I say What? How long is the Great Ahem Modi, going to stay in such a pitiful state?
Sorry Vinder.. He is still the man of decisions. He did make the decision to stay at the hospital. He did send all home. He did allow Gopi to stay with him. He did make the decision to lie to Anitha and acted as Nilesh, He is still taking decisions trying to correct his mistake. All actions and decisions may not be right but he is making them as he sees fit..
Will he let off steam on Gopi? I will be glad if he even in anger shares his pain and seek comfort for it tells me he loves Gopi dearly. Also there is a difference between Ahem in anger a year back and his anger now. .This anger is not directed at Gopi at all.. This anger is for his situation, the words are angry.. It is not to frighten Gopi.. It is his helplessness that will talk.. But can we leave that to the time he actually does let out his steam on Gopi? He has still not done so
What my rant is all abuot is RANT about HATE what Ahem has been doing, coz 1 way or other he has been forced by circumstances to do those things
Another thing
The Nilesh false act call actions he's been doing?? HOW LONG?
As long as Anitha needs it. Or as long as the doctor says she should not be panicked.
To cover up 1 lie one has to build a mountain of LIES that started Growing today,
First lie to Anita, the truth comes to Anita, she will be more HURT, and a risk that is she ges to knoww it was Ahe, she might think Ahem still loves her...= GOhem issues
As long as he has Gopi in loop there is no GoHem issues. If Anitha thinks that this is love from Ahem then it will be her mistake. If Ahem loved her then he would have said, "to hell with Nilesh.. I will be there for you.." Plus this was an implulsive decision. Ahem was not intending to continue the mountain of lies as you call it.. He himself told Gopi, "once Anitha is a little better, we do not have to do this anymore"
Second lie to family:: esp. Koki, by not revealing truth to her, Koki was pretty much defending a falst truth to Jayanti bhai about Nilesh calling. .
A big confusion.. yes... Ahem will realize the mistake he is making very soon. He is not doing this by planning something. He is taking his decisions based on circumstances. He will realize the mistake and then repent and correct it.. He will also see why Gopi was first not in favor of this lie.. He will know soon.. He is not doing this to hurt Anitha.. He is trying to salvage the situation under duress.. He is not correct but he will correct the mistake soon.
I ask,, what shoudl Ahem do
Only CVs can answer that😃
To me, he needs to let Koki handle it from the minute Anitha is at home. He should work to find out why he was in the room with Anitha in the first place (well wishful me ... I want Rashi to face the music😉) but if not that then he should try explaining to Nilesh.. Maybe try seeing if Nilesh will see his side of the story. .But the problem is he needs proofs.. And that is where the tape comes in.. But all this is for us for we know Rashi's KKs/.. To Ahem it is still an accident.. So to him the way out is to convince Nilesh or wait till Anitha is better to tell her the truth. Until then the facade has to continue.. He has not choice now..😕
I only ranted about what I did not like him doing, Its too early to make comclusions, but He needs to get out of this fast: coz if He drags on this lost state of his further, its going to do million tiems remo harm that any good
I really don't see any way out for Ahem.. Unless somebody says something and a foul play is suspected, the Modi's have no choice but to go with the tide and hope that Nilesh is ready to understand or wait till Anitha gets better to break the truth to her and then salvage her situation.. Either way it is a looong journey.. It will drag