disapointed in ahem as a husband and son

he totally ignored gopi his wife and all he thought was for anitha and anitha only i do understand that he felt he was responsible for anithas marriage but he should have atleast involved gopi in the matter could have said to gopi lets go and see how anitha is when nurse said is has come around. he could have said something in his defence when question. why did he have to pick anitha and take her to the hospital jigar could have done or anithas family should have got involved more than ahem. so disapointed in todays epi with ahems character made him careless as husband and son.

It was a matter of being in the wrong place at the wrong time...Ahem at the time became a victim of circumstance due to Rashi's evil-doing! 😡 It does not reflect whatsoever on his role as a son or a husband.

Originally posted by: doc4ever

It was a matter of being in the wrong place at the wrong time...Ahem at the time became a victim of circumstance due to Rashi's evil-doing! 😡 It does not reflect whatsoever on his role as a son or a husband.

It was not about him not speaking up to defend himself, it was about his reaction to what just happened...he was in a state of being horrified and a blow had just hit his reputation as a married man.

It felt like someone had just punched him in the face!

Regarding him helping Anita, that was him being a human being, acting out of humanity. Her marriage had just got broken unintentionally due to Ahem. He feels guilty for what just happened.

With him not seeing Gopi's reactions to all of this, I wouldn't put it that way, they may say few words to each other, but their silent unspoken relationship says a lot more than what brings to the surface.

This is only going to enhance their bond and make it stronger, and show the immense trust and faith they have in one another, it will also show Ahem appreciate Gopi being his support through this difficult time.

It's just a PoV😳

Ahem was insensitive towards Gopi's feelings today.

Originally posted by: poiu123

Ahem was insensitive towards Gopi's feelings today.

Originally posted by: doc4ever

It was a matter of being in the wrong place at the wrong time...Ahem at the time became a victim of circumstance due to Rashi's evil-doing! 😡 It does not reflect whatsoever on his role as a son or a husband.

It was not about him not speaking up to defend himself, it was about his reaction to what just happened...he was in a state of being horrified and a blow had just hit his reputation as a married man.

It felt like someone had just punched him in the face!

Regarding him helping Anita, that was him being a human being, acting out of humanity. Her marriage had just got broken unintentionally due to Ahem. He feels guilty for what just happened.

With him not seeing Gopi's reactions to all of this, I wouldn't put it that way, they may say few words to each other, but their silent unspoken relationship says a lot more than what brings to the surface.

This is only going to enhance their bond and make it stronger, and show the immense trust and faith they have in one another, it will also show Ahem appreciate Gopi being his support through this difficult time.

It's just a PoV😳

well few things...hope it makes sense...we all know how Gopi & Ahem's marriage was at the start...he just could not stand her but whenever she needed support, he was always there, he took care of her when she hurt...he could have stood by & said, I do not care for this women & hence I will not support her !!! That is Ahem's character. Whatever maybe the situation, he as a human being helps people when in need. In anger when this characteristic of his could not be suppressed then in any situation it will not !!!!

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Well said👏 And I completely agree..
If we see his his reactions from wearing "Gopi is a victim" glasses then his silence is making people go berserk.. But if you look at it from his PoV, then this act of him thanking Gopi shows his immense trust in her.

Munni put forth a great point... How many wives will do what Gopi did today? Help and soothe her husband's ex? She is the strongest person I have ever seen on screen. Her innocence and strength are refreshing to watch..

And I am also in awe on how this husband and wife relationship is depicted. If Ahem had told Gopi something, anything as an excuse it would have shown us that he in some corner of his brain thinks that Gopi will not trust him.. But his implicit trust in her intentions, how many husbands will trust their wives to trust them after this. Ahem does. He also knows that actions speak louder than words..

He may tell Gopi a thousand times that he did nothing wrong. But now he is showing her that he is just guilty about his past.. He is not in love with Anitha and is just correcting his unintentional mistake .. I think that is the best he can do under the circumstances.. And as you say this is one perspective..