Which Gohem do you prefer - before or after Holi - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Good one Aris⭐️

However, I do not see any negative change.. I see a lot of positives though. 😛

Holi changed nothing between Gopi and Aham. Yes. Holi gave Gopi the love she dreamt of and then she feels it has been taken away from her but the truth is it has not been.

Gopi has always given without ever asking for anything from Aham. Their union on Holi day has given her a new confidence. So you think Gopi would ever have reacted the way she did with Aham on the day after Holi if it had not happened? No.. Never.

Gopi takes Aham's anger in her stride and never does anything but that day she was a typical wife, angry so silent. He became a typical husband who tried to pacify his dear wife.. Sometimes it takes some pain to finally see relief.

Hmm. I thought it was more because of a shock that she was reacting that way. I didn't feel she was angry or being silent on purpose. That is why, when her shock wore off, she became normal, but sad and reluctant to touch Ahemji because she was confused about his feelings. I don't think she could be angry at him. But I was happy with the reaction that we got from Ahemji, that's why I wanted Gopi to stay like that a little longer, but the poor soul loves him to death and could never be angry at him.

If Gopi had not fought such a hard battle for love ,I will not be here enjoying it... Similarly this small pain is needed for her and us to cherish his confession forever..

Yes, we will cherish his confession although I would have cherished it the same if it had happened before holi or the SD hadn't happened. It is just too much heart ache piled upon Gopi Vahu; just doesn't seem fair. I hope his confession is coming soon.

Imagine after having seen and felt his love, her dreams shattered (at least that is what she thinks) but when he builds it back again, the castle of dream will be so beautiful because, it was her dream but he made it come true..

You know a thought just occured to me. I wonder if this new shattering of dreams was shown for some new viewers. We have been through all this in the first year, but there may be viewers who joined SNS later and before the final confession, they needed to see Gopi's pain in order to make them cherish the Gohem reunion. I was ready for that castle after the first year. This just felt like opening the same wounds again.

One more thing, Aham may have forgotten what he did but he now is showing her that it was not a spur of the moment love. He is making her physically comfortable with her.. You see her pain when he is doing all this, I see her relief that her husband is the same before and during holi and her hope that her Kanhaji has not failed her.. She may have cried at her Kanhaji's feet but then He answered by showing her that what she thought as joy is nothing compared to what she is going to get..

I am praying to Kanhaji to bring happiness in her life and never take it away again.

Before Holi, Gopi always took the initiative in their relationship and Aham used circumstances to his benefit, now Aham is creating circumstances to show her that he wants her and loves her dearly. Isn't she worthy of wooing?😛

You know how to throw a punch line, don't you, Harini👏. Yes, this answer is the best one. Gopi is worth all the wooing that Ahemji can do. Yes, I loved it when he quesioned her day after holi, wore her favorite shirt and took the blame for the spilled tea - never in my wildest dreams did I think Ahemji will do that😆.

I hope I make sense.. The best love stories go through pain to win and that makes them endearing. If Gopi had got what she wanted, we would be happy but now when she gets it, we will be ecstatic. .I am just loving their relationship now😃

I love love love them. Just fee sad for now for Gopi. Just when she has hope for some happiness, she gets a punch in her heart. But we know she is strong, she can handle it. I am having a difficult time of it though. Why can't they show someone else going through this pain for a change. Anyway, yes, we will be ecstatic when she finally gets her love. Hope we don't have to wait too long.

Originally posted by: 5cents

Aris nice post!!👏

Harini, what an awesome reply. OH! God this is exactly what I would have written. You ROCK girl👍🏼⭐️. I may sound pompous in saying this but will still say this😆...Actually very few people understand, free will and unconditional love...it is very complicated 😉. There relationship has changed for the better only. This small pain & indifference will make their union sweeter and better and more comfortable. She'll have a life sweeter & better than her dreams as she has taught Ahem unconditional love with her faith & hope😳. Ahem is taking the right next steps. their love is growing with each passing day...I love that. Before Holi it was different now it is different ( love is never stuck in one season😳).

Ahem's wooing😳 mind blowing😍. Isn't this what you all wanted & were waiting for...his redemption, his tears, his hopelessness ( what went wrong & where) his misery/agony. So enjoy that for few days with Gopi's sorrow it is a double whammy now. But his wooing is making it worth while wait now😳.

I'm loving it now 😳

Originally posted by: varshu27

aris u do come up with these thought provoking posts dont u...

I try😳.

i think i liked the gohem before holi or to be more correct before baang...it looked like they were getting where we wanted them to be...even on holi ahem was bent on making it memorable for gopi...he kept trying to color her and kept getting interrupted...

Yes, I loved that. I wonder why he even forgot about that. He never mentioned that he wanted to color her and that was before the bhang thing.

but now though ahem is more comfortable with her maybe cos subconsciously he is aware of their intimacy...its put gopi in a very difficult position...she doesnt know where she stands with him and she is getting mixed signals...

I am as confused 😕 and saddened as Gopi😭. The Gohem scenes they show these days are more poignant for me and seem to take a life of their own. Why don't they show Ahemji teasing Gopi as he did in the new car? I would enjoy that much more.

having said that ...i also like ahem making the effort to make gopi smile...

Yes, as Harini pointed out, we may not have seen that before. Before Holi, it was Gopi who took the initiative, but now Ahemji is making more effort😊. That is a good thing.

maybe tomorrow i will be of a different mind...i dont know...ur posts are such that im sure i will be awake half the night thinking...awesome post

Sorry about that. But because of all these great answers, I think I will have a good sleep tonight😆. But thanks for a great response.

Originally posted by: angl143

Gohem relationship before was sweet, innocent and pure and now that they have taken their relationship to a physical level and viewers were immensely happy but the downfall on this whole picture is this missing link being Ahems memory loss of that day which has gotten people sad and angry as to what was the point of them going taking another step in their relationship if all was to be forgotten by Ahem. The problem is viewers cannot see Gopi sad it pains people's hearts when they see her tears and that's why it leaves a question as to whether the way the Milan showed on Holi was appropriate or not. The Gohem relationship now is still full of love but there is more hesitancy from Gopi I feel to accept that love and care as I think she doesn't know whether to trust her inner feelings when it comes to Ahem as she feels that he regretted wat occurred between them and that's why we are seeing her questioning herself whenever Ahem touches her or comes close to her in someway. In on sense I am happy that it did happen because it brings about a new development in Ahems character and that he is trying to get close her and make more effort in being her Saathiya and hopefully that will lead to him completing the missing link in their relationship and that will result in the true beautiful union of Gohem! Always love ur posts!! 😃

Originally posted by: 5cents

Aris nice post!!👏

Harini, what an awesome reply. OH! God this is exactly what I would have written. You ROCK girl👍🏼⭐️. I may sound pompous in saying this but will still say this😆...Actually very few people understand, free will and unconditional love...it is very complicated 😉. There relationship has changed for the better only. This small pain & indifference will make their union sweeter and better and more comfortable. She'll have a life sweeter & better than her dreams as she has taught Ahem unconditional love with her faith & hope😳. Ahem is taking the right next steps. their love is growing with each passing day...I love that. Before Holi it was different now it is different ( love is never stuck in one season😳).

Hmm, I feel like a mama bird who has to let go of her babies and let them fly away. If they get hurt, I want to snatch them back and keep them warm in the nest. But as you say love can never be stuck in one season. It has to grow and this new development in their life is bringing some changes in their relationship. I may feel sad since I think it is unfair for just one person (Gopi) to be on the receiving end of misery but may be they will show why it was necessary in future.

Ahem's wooing😳 mind blowing😍. Isn't this what you all wanted & were waiting for...

Yes, that I am loving and enjoying to the hilt although he started it all on V-day before Holi. But now he is making more effort and in different ways as Harini pointed out. I hope they keep showing it.

his redemption, his tears, his hopelessness ( what went wrong & where) his misery/agony.

Would love to see that. Haven't seen his tears yet. He will look beautiful with his eyes filled with tears.

So enjoy that for few days with Gopi's sorrow it is a double whammy now. But his wooing is making it worth while wait now😳.

Yes, the wooing is great. Hope the day is near for his full confession.

I'm loving it now 😳

Originally posted by: RachP

I don't know Aris. I like the before SD Gopi and the after Ahem. 🤔 I don't like seeing Gopi so broken and neither do I want to see a stagnant Ahem. It seems like their relationship was ill-defined before and it still is just as blurry now.