Gopi's strength - Conscience of being Right

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Gopi's strength - Conscience of being Right

Should gopi confide in someone: No...

she need not and will not confide in anyone...because... gopi said she will not tell anything to anyone and if anyone asks any questions rashi should answer that means... now the ball is in rashi's court
she will not confide in Ahem,,, as she does not want to disturb his work and the issue is a ladies issue... for which he said he trusts his wife and he does not want to get involved in kitchen politics
she will not confide to Koki, because saying anything to koki..will be like triggering her anger against Rashi and Hetal... She will blast off Rashi and hetal is soo dumb, sides with her bahu...so in the end things will get out of hand for which everyone will regret...
so gopi is just perfect in not confiding to Ahem or Koki or anyone👏

Why did she confront Rashi now when there is tiff between hetal-koki?
For gopi, her family is her life, she cannot see unrest, unhappiness and misunderstandings in her family...Once again i say... she can endure her own pain but cannot bear to see anyone hurting the family members and the peace and happiness of her family ...she has been the savior many a times before saving rashi, Ahem, herself and the modis...

She got all these relations after a long wait... and when you get something after lot of effort you appreciate it... same goes here,..gopi appreciates all these relations... she keeps them close to her heart ..cherishes each relation..lives and carries out each relation through her heart and soul
For these relations, for her family's happiness and peace she is willingly ready to sacrifice anything - this what she told her husband the other day

Silent treatment of Gopi:
Like Ahem, Gopi also believes in the phrase actions speak louder than words... and as we say silence is the best weapon..
"speech is of Time, Silence is of Eternity"
"Speech is silver, Silence is Golden"

With this silent treatment, Rashi will be have no rope to hold on to ,,, she will be like a fish out of water...in this process..., rashi will make more and more mistakes koki will taunt for mistakes and hetal can't really defend her... because of gopi's silent treatment... she will not have gopi to salvage her out of the situation...

Will Urshi get back to Gopi on a personal level: No
Ever since the accident rashi was a proof to Ahem and gopi's changed relation...she saw his concern and care for gopi in the hospital and during the recovery track...she witnessed Ahem calling to check on gopi's health... she saw him gifting a mobile phone..she saw him convincing her to take injections...

she might not know how far their relation took forward...but rashi knows that Ahem cares and is concerned for gopi and as a 3rd person... rashi can clearly see the changed dynamics in their relation...so she is not gonna make a mistake of attacking gopi... her target will be hetal-koki only
even in real life if there is a fight or tiff between husband and wife,,,it should not come out of the 4 walls...if it comes out... any other person would try to take advantage of the situation...

As long as they witnessed distance between Ahem and Gopi, they attacked gopi in personal level and attacked her emotionally and widened their gap,,,,,, but now...everyone knows how Ahem and Gopi's relation is...so UrShi will not try to target gopi on a personal level... they will fear of facing the wrath of both koki and Ahem this time...

Gopi's Strength: her Conscience of Righteousness:
What is it about her renewed confidence,..she was strong emotionally and she proved many times before... but what is the difference now. what is giving her the new confidence , what is the reason for her renewed inner strength other than the love for her family...

It is her conscience of doing right and being on the right side...that gives her the inner strength ' when your conscience tells you are right you can win over the world...Rashi is just a single person... it is the wrong doer who will have to fear...Gopi's honesty, her truth, her sincerity, her love are her strengths

Gopi is a silent player, with new approach, new confidence, new determination, new ways to analyze people's intentions... renewed alertness... she can do this single handedly

When you are right, you can face the world...when you are wrong, you cannot even face yourself

P.S: sorry for the long rant once again... all my posts seem to be getting longer these days😕
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni, that was a wonderful analysis of Gopi and her feelings and her wants and desires. I loved how you took each situation and elaborated on it. It was def something to watch her confront Rashi, to ignore Rashi the next day and the electric current that passed her and Ahem during their physical contact. I loved every bit you have put out there. Great analysis and a wonderful post 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wow munni simply fablaso...👏

loved u r analysis...
so true...
some time silience or ignore the person is grater punishment than anything else..
gopi is doing the right thing she has to do this kind of tretment to rashi before only...
now rashi will know what gopi is...😆 i loved it gopi is ignoring rashi...

PS: common re how can guys write this great...munni madam thu great ho...😃😃😃
Edited by luckylucky1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wonderful post munni...we saw in todays epi that gopi stuck to her word and ignored raashi...when gopi did not answer the second time near the dining table...raashis confusion and her feeling of being without an anchor was quite visible...raashi will now learn how much she relied on gopi to get her out of scrapes...with urmi ignoring her ...raashi finally will face reality...hopefully at the end of this track raashi realises the people who really care for her...bravo gopi ur quite confidence was a treat to watch...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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dont apologize! loved your long rant!😃...wish my rant could be as meaningful...but you have said it all and i totally agree!😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Munni as always. It seems that Gopi's silent treatment is working now. Before Rashi used to depend on Gopi for every single task she was assigned to do, now with no more help from Gopi's side, Rashi is going to be in trouble in big time. Bearing in mind that Gopi knows her intentions, Rashi will not dare to create more problems any time soon. You are right, righteousness is Gopi's weapon in fighting against evils.
don't worry about your long posts, I would love to read every word of it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni, with every post of yours you leave me speechless to the point that I cannot add anything but to read in awe. Every word, every sentence resounds with such wisdom and thought. Much respect to you, much respect.
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well said Munni 😊👏...agree with you...a person who is honest & knows he or she is doing things correctly along with the support of loved ones, never fears either getting the truth out or helping people realise their mistakes...

Gopi knows Ahem trusts her with her judgement & her maaji has unbreakable trust on her...so with this knowledge along with the love she feels for her family...she had realised the immediate change in her Rashiben when Rashi 1st time mentioned, I had gone out with my family !!! Gopi also loves Rashi dearly & hence she wants to correct her before she creates greater divide between the families & all the family members suffer. Since she wants to correct her Rashiben, she has chosen a punishment which would make her realise how it would be when two family members are split...
If you observe during Baa's talk when Ahem was also being questioned, Rashi did not even give any importance ...in the past instead of being happy if anything good happened to her, she was more intrested in the bad that she could create for Gopi...but now Rashi who has been a witness of Ahem changing knows the relationship between Gopi & Ahem is love & that Ahem cares & trusts for Gopi more than anyone else !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni you do make the most fabulous posts ever👏 That is one great post..⭐️ Awesome..

One of the best things about being right and knowing that you are right is, it gives you unparalleled strength. When you know that you are right and are siding the truth then there is nothing that scares you. You can take abuse and punishments without bating an eyelid.. It never affects you because you side the truth. You pity those who cannot see the truth but you are not scared at all😃
This is what is giving Gopi confidence now.. She knows she is being honest and is in the right side. Hence her decision not to talk about it.. Truth comes out on its own.. It cannot be buried long. But even if you keep shouting, a castle built on lies crumbles sooner or later..

Hence Gopi's silence I think, gives her the strength needed while her silence will be the downfall for Rashi. What her silence will also show is how relationships look when they are in trouble to Hetal and Koki, especially Hetal.

This is what Hetal tried to do with Koki.. But now, she will see the real power of silence as Hetal's silence was wrong while Gopi's has the exact opposite effect..

If you see, Gopi usually achieves a lot by being quiet and silent. She silently endured her husband's dislike and it is her very silence that is going to now make him confess because today her very silence is slowly killing him.. The same will happen with Rashi.
I am glad Gopi takes this route. Her silence is usually the best route to take..😛
Edited by Justlikethat1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oof munni! Where do i even start. Ok i am not going to. I cant find the words to do justice to your post. You said speech is silver. Silence is golden. I am choosing silence...

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