Gopi's strength - Conscience of being Right
Should gopi confide in someone: No...
she need not and will not confide in anyone...because... gopi said she will not tell anything to anyone and if anyone asks any questions rashi should answer that means... now the ball is in rashi's court
she will not confide in Ahem,,, as she does not want to disturb his work and the issue is a ladies issue... for which he said he trusts his wife and he does not want to get involved in kitchen politics
she will not confide to Koki, because saying anything to koki..will be like triggering her anger against Rashi and Hetal... She will blast off Rashi and hetal is soo dumb, sides with her bahu...so in the end things will get out of hand for which everyone will regret...
so gopi is just perfect in not confiding to Ahem or Koki or anyone👏
Why did she confront Rashi now when there is tiff between hetal-koki?For gopi, her family is her life, she cannot see unrest, unhappiness and misunderstandings in her family...Once again i say... she can endure her own pain but cannot bear to see anyone hurting the family members and the peace and happiness of her family ...she has been the savior many a times before saving rashi, Ahem, herself and the modis...
She got all these relations after a long wait... and when you get something after lot of effort you appreciate it... same goes here,..gopi appreciates all these relations... she keeps them close to her heart ..cherishes each relation..lives and carries out each relation through her heart and soul
For these relations, for her family's happiness and peace she is willingly ready to sacrifice anything - this what she told her husband the other day
Silent treatment of Gopi:
Like Ahem, Gopi also believes in the phrase actions speak louder than words... and as we say silence is the best weapon..
"speech is of Time, Silence is of Eternity"
"Speech is silver, Silence is Golden"
With this silent treatment, Rashi will be have no rope to hold on to ,,, she will be like a fish out of water...in this process..., rashi will make more and more mistakes koki will taunt for mistakes and hetal can't really defend her... because of gopi's silent treatment... she will not have gopi to salvage her out of the situation...
Will Urshi get back to Gopi on a personal level: No
Ever since the accident rashi was a proof to Ahem and gopi's changed relation...she saw his concern and care for gopi in the hospital and during the recovery track...she witnessed Ahem calling to check on gopi's health... she saw him gifting a mobile phone..she saw him convincing her to take injections...
she might not know how far their relation took forward...but rashi knows that Ahem cares and is concerned for gopi and as a 3rd person... rashi can clearly see the changed dynamics in their relation...so she is not gonna make a mistake of attacking gopi... her target will be hetal-koki only
even in real life if there is a fight or tiff between husband and wife,,,it should not come out of the 4 walls...if it comes out... any other person would try to take advantage of the situation...
As long as they witnessed distance between Ahem and Gopi, they attacked gopi in personal level and attacked her emotionally and widened their gap,,,,,, but now...everyone knows how Ahem and Gopi's relation is...so UrShi will not try to target gopi on a personal level... they will fear of facing the wrath of both koki and Ahem this time...
Gopi's Strength: her Conscience of Righteousness:
What is it about her renewed confidence,..she was strong emotionally and she proved many times before... but what is the difference now. what is giving her the new confidence , what is the reason for her renewed inner strength other than the love for her family...
It is her conscience of doing right and being on the right side...that gives her the inner strength ' when your conscience tells you are right you can win over the world...Rashi is just a single person... it is the wrong doer who will have to fear...Gopi's honesty, her truth, her sincerity, her love are her strengths
Gopi is a silent player, with new approach, new confidence, new determination, new ways to analyze people's intentions... renewed alertness... she can do this single handedly
When you are right, you can face the world...when you are wrong, you cannot even face yourself
P.S: sorry for the long rant once again... all my posts seem to be getting longer these days😕
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago