Main question: Why Gopi , Why? (Thats from Rashi pOV lol)
1) maybe Gopi has figured out that Rashi is behind the splits coz of evidence gathering: lubricant oul stuff, mango scam , ... maybe
2)NOW THIS IS SLIGHTLY FROM DIFFERENT POV) maybe Gopi thinks that Rashi does not know about the family split taking place, and does not understand the "ghambeerta" of the matter at hand. So what Gopi might be trying to do is try to get Rashi on her side, but makeing Rashi realise what the negative effects of a break up between Jethani and Devrani are?? I beileve Gopi is capable of that: Trying to make Rashi realise whats going on in the house, because she may have noticed that Rashi is not taking it too seriously, and being too childish and giving fuel to the split fire unknowingly (From Gopi's POV),, So Gopi will pretend to be tough for Rashi to realise this, and maybe help Gopi out, or try to avoid reffilling that fuel talk of splits ??COz Gopi knows that when it ocmes to kiddy argumens Rashi is a hard rock to roll back
Either case:: I think case 2 is more likely, coz turning Gopi around too fast is practically wierd and impossible:: and the way to add drag and longetivity to Gopi toughnesss, will be to follow route 2, and as it goes on, Gopi realises that Rashi is the true culprit, then Gopi's third EYE will pan OUT, to see high definition colors.
Hmm, just a thought, but yeah, just wanted to put this thought out here, Gopi trying to make rashi realise, to become more careful and try to resolve matters between hetal-koki, not knowing the cause to be Rashi, but then realising as time goes by, thats how i feel,