Relating Mango kaand to the Cooker kaand

Ahamji is getting more and more evidence of how virtuous his wife is. She can do anything to keep peace in the family, even lie. She sacrifices herself for other people's happiness. He now knows why she lied during the mango fiasco. Shouldn't he think back and relate this to the cooker kaand when similar things happened and he tried to throw his wife out of the house? Why is he so dense? He never thinks about the things he did in his past. That's just not that normal. The CV's spend so much time on creating these kalakaris but never resolve them. There has to be a limit to this.

ahem seems like he doesnt think things through...even today he did not question gopi or think about who the real culprit could be...i do love ahem...but sometimes wonder how is it that he is a successful business man...😕

I think he does not think back because he has decided that all that was a misunderstanding.. Except for that Sonal thing, nobody except Koki knows what else Rashi has done.. Aham never paids attention to Rashi.

Originally posted by: varshu27

ahem seems like he doesnt think things through...even today he did not question gopi or think about who the real culprit could be...i do love ahem...but sometimes wonder how is it that he is a successful business man...😕

You are right, Varshu. The CV's don't develop the characters well. Their characters are so inconsistent. A successful and savvy business man like Ahamji can not add two and two together properly? Hard to believe, right?

gopi did not do to stop the fight she have again done it to save her sis and mami. she should not have made koki wrong over her relative but koki trusts and cares for her so much. all gone into the drain.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I think he does not think back because he has decided that all that was a misunderstanding.. Except for that Sonal thing, nobody except Koki knows what else Rashi has done.. Aham never paids attention to Rashi.

He is tuned to his wife, his mom and then his family in which Rashi makes it to the end.. .So today, it was just a household matter that got resolved between the woman. Gopi lied to save a fight.. But there is no way Aham knows there could be a culprit.. For all he cares it could have been Meethi.. But his wife took the blame to avoid a fight.

He may have thought that the same thing may have happened then.. But that matter was more serious. I know him not remembering the past is a pain..

But I think the only time that will happen is when the Kalaakaris are exposed😕 Otherwise Aham will appreciate Gopi for what she is.. That is it..😛

Lovely comments. But even though things may have happened due to misunderstandings in his mind, but he has to think about his reaction to those situations. He tried to throw her out of the house for that misunderstanding. When something similar happens again, a person has to think back on what had happened before and how he had reacted. It is not just to prove who did it, but to make him think how he readily blamed his wife without much thought and reacted badly before. Yes, he can think Meethi did it or it was an accident, but it just doesn't sit well with me that he won't recall how he behaved as a result of the misunderstanding. I blame the CV's for not connecting the dots. It is highly disappointing the way they are just sweeping the past under the rug.

Just realized my answer may sound a little abrupt. Didn't mean to. Just frustrated with the CV's.

Originally posted by: aris22l

Lovely comments. But even though things may have happened due to misunderstandings in his mind, but he has to think about his reaction to those situations. He tried to throw her out of the house for that misunderstanding. When something similar happens again, a person has to think back on what had happened before and how he had reacted. It is not just to prove who did it, but to make him think how he readily blamed his wife without much thought and reacted badly before. Yes, he can think Meethi did it or it was an accident, but it just doesn't sit well with me that he won't recall how he behaved as a result of the misunderstanding. I blame the CV's for not connecting the dots. It is highly disappointing the way they are just sweeping the past under the rug.

Just realized my answer may sound a little abrupt. Didn't mean to. Just frustrated with the CV's.

Hats off to you Harini, you have made every point I would have made and a few more. I am with you on this. Good job in explaining 👏

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aris.. Do not worry about the tone of the answer.. It is perfectly alright and did not come across as harsh😃

But again I will repeat the same point.. The reasons he wanted to throw her out, the necklace, the cooker.. All that was way too bigger than this mango thing today. Yes. He gets a proof that she sometimes takes the blame herself even when it is not her mistake. But she does not do it all the time..

How can Aham know that the cooker thing was not her fault? He just took her word for it and till today, not just Aham, all the rest too believe that Gopi made the mistake.. So there is no way he will think the two are related.

Yes. It is frustrating to have the past swept under the rug. A lot of such things are happening even now. No one is going to know about the Bhang, the garden thing, the mango shake, the pooja on Mahashivratri, the car.. No one is going to know it and that is simply not done..

I am not sure if the CVs even have any intention to expose Rashi again.. But Aham will repent.. That will happen.. He lives in the present and future and I do not think he wants to visit the past now.. She made mistakes, he did.. Then he understood where she was coming from.. Currently that is all Aham is thinking about..

For him to go back to the past, he needs to know he made a mistake. Currently he considers them as the play of circumstances.. Hope I make sense..

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aris.. Do not worry about the tone of the answer.. It is perfectly alright and did not come across as harsh😃

But again I will repeat the same point.. The reasons he wanted to throw her out, the necklace, the cooker.. All that was way too bigger than this mango thing today. Yes. He gets a proof that she sometimes takes the blame herself even when it is not her mistake. But she does not do it all the time..

How can Aham know that the cooker thing was not her fault? He just took her word for it and till today, not just Aham, all the rest too believe that Gopi made the mistake.. So there is no way he will think the two are related.

Yes. It is frustrating to have the past swept under the rug. A lot of such things are happening even now. No one is going to know about the Bhang, the garden thing, the mango shake, the pooja on Mahashivratri, the car.. No one is going to know it and that is simply not done..

I am not sure if the CVs even have any intention to expose Rashi again.. But Aham will repent.. That will happen.. He lives in the present and future and I do not think he wants to visit the past now.. She made mistakes, he did.. Then he understood where she was coming from.. Currently that is all Aham is thinking about..

For him to go back to the past, he needs to know he made a mistake. Currently he considers them as the play of circumstances.. Hope I make sense..

Harini (may I call you that, never got the permission from you, always call you justlikethat and it seems too long), thanks for bearing with me and discussing this with me. Your points are valid.