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Harini (may I call you that, never got the permission from you, always call you justlikethat and it seems too long), thanks for bearing with me and discussing this with me. Your points are valid.
My point is not if Gopi did some mistake or somebody else did. It doesn't even matter if Rashi is exposed. This is strictly about Goham relationship and Ahamji's treatment of Gopi in the past. My point is Ahamji should remember how he reacted when similar things like the mango thing happened in the past. This mango fiasco is very similar to a lot of other kalakaris (for which Gopi took the blame) in the past. This should trigger in Ahamhi's mind some memories of similar things that happened (it doesn't matter who was responsible) and his treatment of Gopi. Does he not want to remember because he didn't have to suffer at that time. But he made Gopi suffer and I am sorry, the CV's need to give that depth to his character that recognizes how he made her suffer at that time even if he doesn't think it was his fault.Ahamji is a very fair person. Now that he can't bear to see Gopi in pain, that should remind him of her misery when he gave it to her. When Gopi admitted she lied on purpose, that should light a bulb and he should be asking himself - "Hmm, I wonder how many times she has lied before to maintain peace in the family and omg, I thought she was at fault and how I punished her and gave her pain."It just does not add up. May be he is blocking his past on purpose because it will bring him a lot of pain, but then somehow the CV's should make it clear to simple viewers like me who don't like these kind of riddles😕. There is a contradiction in character here. Ahamji faces things fairly and squarely. He is not one to run away or hide because he is not ready to face a difficult situation. He is a man of integrity who is madly in love with his wife. The CV's need to make it clear once and for all why Ahamji is not looking in the mirror. Even a 10 second scene with Ahamji talking to himself for clarification on this will do.I am so sorry for my long rant. Thanks for being patient with me.
aris, till harini comes online... i would like to address the ones in bold
@bold1 - Ahem got to know about gopi's reason for the mango fiasco today, he asked her, she said why she took the blame... when was he supposed to think and draw a line that she could have done the same (taking up the blame ) in the past... its' just a few minutes of scene...
and more importantly he is currently more worried about her missing smile, he is seeking or trying to figure out the reason for pain in her eyes which replaced the sparkle and shine in her eyes...he is noticing her pain, her hesitation, her ignoring him, with constant little talks he is trying to get back the smile and ease off her pain... he might not be doing this loud... but in his own subtle ways he is trying to cheer her up - in today's episode, he said he trusts her decision., he switched on the light for her... these are the subtle things which make impact on gopi
currently his whole and sole aim is bring back the smile on her face... he wants the same gopi whom he saw till holi night...
@bold 2
i completely disagree here...Ahem is not blocking his past... he thinks it to be a bad dream...a misunderstanding... like koki, Ahem thinks about present and future ... rather than brooding over the past... he is doing the same,.. handling his wife in a gentle manner, to see her happy and smiling ...
and more thing... you said if he brings the past ...it will give him pain... here i disagree,,, if Ahem is avoiding or blocking as u said ... if he had talked to gopi about the past... it would be the case of poking a healed wound with a knife... if he talks to her, it would renew all her bad past and Ahem does not want to do that to gopi...past is which gopi already got over it ,and we know she will never hold any grudges against ahem...
one last statement ... kalakaries will come out when they have to... Ahem is doing perfectly the right thing ... concentrating on the present problem in hand and their future rather than on past...
the repentance will come when the time comes... why do we need to rush... let him get over this problem first...
hope i made sense and harini will give you a much better explanation for these 😃
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