Saathiya Love Times- his usual self but till when? - Page 2

thanks shruts! I understand your frustration, because I feel the same here!

Absolutely brilliant post Shruti.

I am glad you made this post as unhappy as you are with the CVs.

I also don't believe what happened was a SR and I have my own reasons, but that is not what I want to say here.

All I want to say is finally today Gopi opened up and stated her wishes and dreams.

Even if she doesn't voice them and keeps them to herself, we know now that she does dream and have expectations.

There had to be a point when something had to give and this is it. I think this is herself realization. You can't keep things bottled up and smile as if it doesn't matter. It does matter, no matter how much we deny it.

She says "No one loves me, not even you Kanaji" Does this mean she is aware of her mamiji and Rashi are fake as they come? Even her mamaji.

My hope is that the right person hears her prayers and helps her. My wish is for Ahem to hear her, but if even Koki hears her I will be fine with it.

Koki has been a mother to her, no matter what, and I hope she get Gopi to open up to her. I hope Gopi tells Koki everything, it matters not what it is, because Koki will at least realize about the bhang ladoo and all.

May be I am hoping for too much, but at least I am happy with the fact that Gopi did not bare the pain silently.

Originally posted by: saathiya93

thanks shruts! I understand your frustration, because I feel the same here!

today, the way he spoke to her annoyed me more than the fact that he doesn't remember anything! I thought we left this angry ahem behind, I understand he's not feeling well but what's the need to vent his anger and frustration on gopi?! 😡

I was crying with gopi today, i felt her pain, and I'm so mad at ahem right now, he needs to take extra care of gopi now, and confess before it is too late, he has hurt her big time today, and we saw gopi's limit to undergo pain without complaining, so if he doesn't want to lose her, or break the lofe she feels for him, he needs to get on it, like NOW!

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Absolutely brilliant post Shruti.

I am glad you made this post as unhappy as you are with the CVs.

I also don't believe what happened was a SR and I have my own reasons, but that is not what I want to say here.

All I want to say is finally today Gopi opened up and stated her wishes and dreams.

Even if she doesn't voice them and keeps them to herself, we know now that she does dream and have expectations.

There had to be a point when something had to give and this is it. I think this is herself realization. You can't keep things bottled up and smile as if it doesn't matter. It does matter, no matter how much we deny it.

She says "No one loves me, not even you Kanaji" Does this mean she is aware of her mamiji and Rashi are fake as they come? Even her mamaji.

My hope is that the right person hears her prayers and helps her. My wish is for Ahem to hear her, but if even Koki hears her I will be fine with it.

Koki has been a mother to her, no matter what, and I hope she get Gopi to open up to her. I hope Gopi tells Koki everything, it matters not what it is, because Koki will at least realize about the bhang ladoo and all.

May be I am hoping for too much, but at least I am happy with the fact that Gopi did not bare the pain silently.

Originally posted by: shruts18

Saathiya, you need not be mad at him dear. He hasn't changed and his anger is just mock anger. And he has all the right to vent it out on her. After all the relations are like that right. It is his basic character and he infact was worried for her too. But life doesn't end here only. One needs many things in life other than "how are you?" or "is everything alright?". And only thing is he should be able to read what is bothering her and make efforts to know her pain. And I am sure when he would realize what happened, he would die a million deaths.

I know, what you say is absolutely true, but I feel so sad for gopi that all her expectations fall down that I can't help being mad at him😕

Originally posted by: saathiya93

@bold, it shows us how badly she's hurt, if she thinks that even her kahnaji doesn't love her, but she even forgot about koki here! I'm sure she knows koki loves her more than her own daughter

Yes she forgot Koki too, but her pain right now so great she is not even thinking of what Koki has done for her. Koki has been affectionate to her, but she is also very strict after the moment is over no difference between Ahem and Koki here.

We are all missing the point here. We are looking at Gopi's smile and her willingness to sacrifice herself for everyone, she is happy if others are happy, but we forget she still has dreams and expectations.

Another thing if SR did happen what was the point of her decking herself to the T. This tells me she expected something else, but got something else. I am sorry my mind still doesn't wrap around the whole SR thing, even with all the clues.

Originally posted by: saathiya93

I know, what you say is absolutely true, but I feel so sad for gopi that all her expectations fall down that I can't help being mad at him😕

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Yes she forgot Koki too, but her pain right now so great she is not even thinking of what Koki has done for her. Koki has been affectionate to her, but she is also very strict after the moment is over no difference between Ahem and Koki here.

We are all missing the point here. We are looking at Gopi's smile and her willingness to sacrifice herself for everyone, she is happy if others are happy, but we forget she still has dreams and expectations.

Another thing if SR did happen what was the point of her decking herself to the T. This tells me she expected something else, but got something else. I am sorry my mind still doesn't wrap around the whole SR thing, even with all the clues.

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

Shilpa, I am with you. I also don't feel that SR/SD happened. My biggest reason is their Holi playing started with the song starting and their SR/SD finished with the song ending is a little too soon. No offense intended direct or indirect. There are other reasons...Anyways, I just wanted to say, I am with you in your thoughts 😊

Awe...Rupal thanks so much. This means a lot to me.🤗

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

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Shruts, I am going to watch the episode and will return and comment. Thanks 😊

Today not only Gopi's heart broke into a million pieces, but so did her hopes and dreams. She has always kept hope alive that someday her Ahemji would be hers and only hers. But today she is broken and only Ahem can fix her. But is he going to be able to understand her pain, her anguish, her dreams and her heartache?

Like the rest of you I am also glad Gopi opened up to Khanaji and talked to him and asked him what his intentions are. She had reached her breaking point and there is no where to turn. I hope either Ahem or Koki hears her and takes appropriate actions and helps her heal.

What happened in the bedroom was done out of love and bonding and nothing else. It wasn't lust or even just taking what is needed. It was pure love and nothing else.

But unfortunately for Gopi, the bhang's side effect was memory loss. And for that we have to watch this sweet girl, who never had a moments happiness, get her dreams stomped on again. So I am hoping that the CV's show Ahem has heard her and either confronts her or maybe even starts to get his memory back...Even in bits and pieces to put it together is ok...

I think that this is a good way for Ahem to realize Gopi's worth. I agree it is frustrating for us to see Gopi in tears always, we want her happy so bad that we are willing to take what we can get. But if this track is to make Ahem realize her worth, it will be better in the long run. If we had them unite, then how would Ahem realize her worth. I also know all this is coming at the expense of more pain for Gopi. And I don't like it either...but, maybe this time Ahem will have to work hard to get Gopi like she worked at getting him. Lets hope Ahem showers her with love and understanding and lots and lots of apologies.

Is there a way back to happiness? Yes. And Ahem has the route, all he needs is to know that he needs to get going and bring that beautiful smile back on his wife's face before it is lost forever...

In all this ranting...BTW sorry for it...I forgot to say thank you to Shruts for this lovely post 👏 and I hope I made sense to all of you. This was something that needed to be done. This is how I feel about todays episode and I hope I didn't offend anyone...If so, my apologies😃