The Ultimate Question- Why so negative? - Page 3

Am back! You definately have a way with words!!! I had expected something intense and insane but i was surprised that it was so emotional! Really nice!

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Aahlam very good post

@harini thank you

people or forum members feel, that SNS is promoting negative thoughts,... is that what we need to learn? No, any form of art (movies, serials, plays) promotes goodness winning over evilness...

here in SNS also we are having both good and evil...it is based on your intellect, as what is affecting your thinking...
if you are feeling too much negative impact from the serial, it implies you are letting the negative thoughts influence you..as it is more evident... but for once try to think from gopi's side, we have all the goodness in her... her patience, her honesty and her truth are what is bringing happiness in her life... Rashi, may be happy sometimes, but it is all short term and at the end, evil always faces the death...

Aahlam... i love the fact and agree with you, SNS is very close to real life in characters... i loved the process of gohem falling in love... it's not a rain sequence or any dance which got them close..they showed the process of falling in love in a most meticulous and precise manner which was never shown before...

I love the way gopi's patience is paying off..Any medium brings out 2 sides of a coin... it's your conscience which will tell you what to take from a show... if your conscience lets you take bad from it... take the negative things... but no person's conscience will let you choose bad over good...

now in the serial, we have good and bad ' and we need bad because

- we can not estimate the value of goodness without evilness
- we can not estimate the value of light without darkness
- we can not estimate the value of happiness without sadness
- we can not estimate the value of win without loosing
- we can not estimate the value of success without failure
we need her to show the difference between being good and bad...

when we see rashi... people in general hate her because she has all the negative characteristics in her... it will show how a person should not be

when we see gopi... people love her because she has all the positive and good characteristics in her... it will show how a person should be

SNS is showing the same ... rashi being on the wrong side has never a peaceful day or night she is always on the run for more..and more... no contentment
gopi who is on the good side,,,is content in whatever she gets from life

Just as gopi embraces good and evil with least distinction between them... we need to take bad and good together ,,, but when you want to choose which one to follow, that is when your conscience comes into picture

My name is spelled Ahlam🤢 lol ..It's okay ..Don't sweat it. I'll let you go this time. 😆

Fantastic post 👏👏 You've said it all..I literally have nothing I want to add there ! Just want to sum up your paragraph in one line-- There is no evil without good and no good without evil,therefore, they are both needed.

Originally posted by: vibz88

Am back! You definately have a way with words!!! I had expected something intense and insane but i was surprised that it was so emotional! Really nice!

Welcome back ! Thanks 😳 Haha well now you know I'm not all crazy ! 😆 Glad you liked it 😊 Fahima was telling me to update soon..She was getting nervous at the state I had left her in 🤣So I updated 😛

Okay, I need to go now..Have to do dishes 🤢 Bye bye ..Love you..Good night 🤗 (Good morning to you I guess 😆)

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

My name is spelled Ahlam🤢 lol ..It's okay ..Don't sweat it. I'll let you go this time. 😆

Fantastic post 👏👏 You've said it all..I literally have nothing I want to add there ! Just want to sum up your paragraph in one line-- There is no evil without good and no good without evil,therefore, they are both needed.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

oopsy ...sorry Ahlam...😛 ... and thank you...😃

It's quite alright 😊 No prob 😉

Agree, but life moves faster than SNS's pace. Like a few weeks ago, I couldn't find my pink tweezers. Let's assume it was a hugeee kalakari. I didn't go asking anyone what might have happened to it. I've seen my mom and sis use it. I knew it had to be one of them. I simply went looking for it on my own. And where was it? In my baby sister's room! It took me about 2 minutes.

Originally posted by: RachP

Agree, but life moves faster than SNS's pace. Like a few weeks ago, I couldn't find my pink tweezers. Let's assume it was a hugeee kalakari. I didn't go asking anyone what might have happened to it. I've seen my mom and sis use it. I knew it had to be one of them. I simply went looking for it on my own. And where was it? In my baby sister's room! It took me about 2 minutes.

I don't like the fact that some characters in SNS aren't active enough to get to the very root of the problem. Let's face it...you have to find the itch first and then scratch it! You can't find the itch and try to pet it away.

I don't know if I'm making sense, but what I'm trying to say is that most characters in SNS are passive. The ones that are active, aren't active enough.

Yes, I absolutely know and agree with what you are saying..But SNS is a serial ..so they blow things out of proportion most of the time to try to make the show longer. By active, what do you mean exactly?

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

Yes, I absolutely know and agree with what you are saying..But SNS is a serial ..so they blow things out of proportion most of the time to try to make the show longer. By active, what do you mean exactly?

Wow! Awesome OP GohamHungry! You said it perfectly! And great follow up posts too from harini and aris. On phone so will check out the rest of this thread tomorrow. But well done all around!