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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Awww navya... that was sooo beautiful to read and very though out post 👏⭐️


made complete sense⭐️

the title says it all...samarpan... gopi very much lives through the samarpan... she showered all her love, her emotions ... gave away everything...her senses, her body, mind, heart and soul... but Ahem cannot remember these moments... he cannot recollect the happiness, the contentment on her face during the samarpan...Gopi will be sad that he does not remember it.. but Ahem will be in more sad and disappointment for not being in senses when he had his special moments with her...and due to which she had to shed tears...
beautiful take on samrpan👏

Thank you Munni & I have a feeling that though Gopi & Ahem will be sad, it will be Ahem who will be hit by it more than Gopi...He would not have shed a tear but the hurt in his heart that he let down his wife after sharing love with each other will break him apart !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aww Navya.. That was so good and made total sense👏

Yes.. I think it will be a bigger heartbreak for Aham than to Gopi.. For Gopi remembers every moment, every expression, every touch. To Aham it is not clear now.. And he will want to remember so badly.. It was a special day to him too.. So yes.. It is Aham who will suffer more because he does not remember and also because he will remember and then realize that he could not immediately make it special to her and she had to shed tears😕

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Navya I have to add more.. So please bear with me😳
I really think Navya that Aham will be hurt also because it is after now that he will realize the extent to which his wife in some sense has drifted from him. He knows that she loves him unconditionally but inspite of his repeated attempts to make her comfortable, till before Holi he had not acheived what he set out to do.
Being the man he is, he knows intrinsically that it has to do more with him than with her love. So that was what he was trying to bridge. Now imagine when Aham realizes or remembers what happened. Gopi would not have told him and he knows how much of a heart break it would have been for her. But she would have chosen to bear the pain alone instead of sharing it with him. Yes.. That is her love.
But then he loves her too.. Will it not hurt to see the person you love so much not confident enough to trust your reaction.. For that will be his thought. We know Gopi will hide because she will be worried for him, but to Aham it is just his failure to make his wife comfortable enough to share her deepest thoughts. His love was just not enough..
That is pretty hard to digest unless Gopi saves him from it.. So yeah, I definitely think Aham will be more sad


@harini ... 👏 @bold

there is a difference between Ahem's love and Gopi's love... no doubt they love each other unconditionally...

but Ahem, shares his pain with gopi... he sees her as his soul mate and shares his pain with her.. when u love someone, u share ur happiness and sadness with them... he trusts her to be his companion... he trusts her to the extent of sharing his deepest pain

while gopi, shares everything and loves him unconditionally...she still is hesitant or take back foot when it comes to sharing her pain...because she feels, he might be hurt to see her in pain...she is still not confident enough to share her pain with him... she hesitates

in all this, she is not realizing how Ahem would feel, how much it would hurt him, when he comes to know about her not sharing her pain or hurt with him,,,,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow navya!! the is so beautiful.. samarpan -- Perfect for Gopi, ya Ahem will be definitely disappointed for not remembering the special day...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

When you think about it, Ahem would be struggling along with Gopi. One for not remembering and the other for not forgetting. Did that make sense?


What I mean is that for me, I still have doubts about it actually happening. I mean they were playing with each other during the song and at the end of the song it was over? I think not. I may get a few bashers after me, it just seems unrealistic that it happened...
I think they started to get hot and heavy, and during that time the effect took over and Ahem started to feel sleepy. And our Gopi being the good dutiful wife and all, probably told him to sleep.
Why is her reaction the way it is...simple. She is an innocent girl who does not even know what happens between a man and a woman. How would she know? Who would have told her? To her being with Ahem in such a close proximity and in such a romantic position is enough to make her act all shy and smiling all the time. She remembers Ahemji touching her all over. And that is where I am in disagreement...Please don't hate me for thinking this way. I just cannot come to terms that the "deed" actually happened.

Rupal...with the deed there were lot of emotions which were shared between them & that is what is more important than the deed...my take !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

wow very well written.


This topic really made me feel pity for Ahem. But I think he will remember the act. Gopi not remembering her bhaang experience is different scenario. She never tried to remember it. But seeing gopi shying away and acting strangely would definitely force ahem to think what happened. and there are still some evidences of their closeness like photos taken. So Ahem will be forced to remember.

Coming to heartbreaking. Yes Gopi has to bear it all. Ahem will sure have his heartbreak too. But that is required to strengthen their love. :)

Gold will shine only when it is subjected to Fire. Diamond will shine only when it is subject to Friction.

GOHEM LOVE IS ALSO THIS PRECIOUS. SO it has to endure some heartbreaks.

Yeah Sadiltl...Ahem will go thru the pain in this incident as much as Gopi had gone thru the last one year...because he will know he is the one because of which she is suffering where all he wants is to see her smile & he will feel very unworthy of himself in their relationship !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That made more than sense. It was a wonderful post. You did well, very well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

When you think about it, Ahem would be struggling along with Gopi. One for not remembering and the other for not forgetting. Did that make sense?


What I mean is that for me, I still have doubts about it actually happening. I mean they were playing with each other during the song and at the end of the song it was over? I think not. I may get a few bashers after me, it just seems unrealistic that it happened...
I think they started to get hot and heavy, and during that time the effect took over and Ahem started to feel sleepy. And our Gopi being the good dutiful wife and all, probably told him to sleep.
Why is her reaction the way it is...simple. She is an innocent girl who does not even know what happens between a man and a woman. How would she know? Who would have told her? To her being with Ahem in such a close proximity and in such a romantic position is enough to make her act all shy and smiling all the time. She remembers Ahemji touching her all over. And that is where I am in disagreement...Please don't hate me for thinking this way. I just cannot come to terms that the "deed" actually happened.



Very well said

Our Gopi is soo innocent in al ways, and this just takes me back to the birthday hand shake scene::: SHE WAS SOOO LOST AFTER THAT SINGEL HANDSHAKE, as if she had got all the hapines in her life:: GOD that is PURE DIVINE NATURE of a person: In real life I have never seen someone as inocent and PURE as GOpi, and I am certain I will never see ANY :Gopi is 1 in INFINITY (statistics will fail to describe how unique she IS,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Navya, you are AWESOMESET👏!! Exactly my thoughts...what do i add hun, you have said it all beautifully😳.
I say, it is the "TEST" of unconditional love of GOHEM😭. Their love will get perfected in pain ( how much more pain not sure😭) But pair of them will stand side by side & face it all😳
I agree, Ahem will be devastated as he has no memory of the lovely union of souls...Did it happen? Did I force myself on Gopi? Or how did it all happen? He'll be himself so full of qs only & no favorable answers . Gopi on the other hand has experienced it all and is very happy & blissful😳. Ahem's love has gone through all the pores of her body...she enjoyed Ahem's air of passion as it had the light of his faith and water of his sincerity😳 but poor Gopi is oblivious of the fact that all this happened coz of cannabis Poor Ahem is abs oblivious of his wife's new found glow in the dark radiance & glow😳. But when Gopi will realize that he has no memory of the Holi time, she 'll form a shell around her and Ahem will be devastated But he will only break Gopi's shell & take it forward, so we'll have a proper SR in the next few months😳 Love is never lost it is discovered and perfected over and over again. It will be interesting to watch...Gohem's, ring around the rosie😳

Gohem's love will thrive & flourish in all this misunderstand & pain. Journey of life is the story of wounding & healing😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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OMG ... I have read everyone post . this really make so muct scents now . How ahem is going to feel about he finds out what happened ... thanks to everyone. now I know why i am a addicted to the story... Ahem and gopi love is so pure and sent from heaven.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


@harini ... 👏 @bold

there is a difference between Ahem's love and Gopi's love... no doubt they love each other unconditionally...

but Ahem, shares his pain with gopi... he sees her as his soul mate and shares his pain with her.. when u love someone, u share ur happiness and sadness with them... he trusts her to be his companion... he trusts her to the extent of sharing his deepest pain

while gopi, shares everything and loves him unconditionally...she still is hesitant or take back foot when it comes to sharing her pain...because she feels, he might be hurt to see her in pain...she is still not confident enough to share her pain with him... she hesitates

in all this, she is not realizing how Ahem would feel, how much it would hurt him, when he comes to know about her not sharing her pain or hurt with him,,,,

well said Munni 😊 when people share pain thats when the relationship is stronger...because in pain is what you will remember your close ones...
But from Gopi's perspective...while growing up she never had anyone to share her pain...after her marriage , Ahem was least intrested, even after her education track, she wanted to share her problem with him, but he cut her off saying he did not want to come in between sisters ...& after that she now double hesitates after seeing the punishment by koki he had to undergo because she shared her problem with him !!! So Im not suprised that she hesitates so much to share it with him & now without him remembering & she being shy, it will be difficult for her to share as she does not know what he actually feels for her...
Yeah with her not sharing , & when he gets to know...Ahem will be even more hurt than actually forgetting what has happened...because in her pain she did not reach out to him...

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