I don't know what to think!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I need help!!!

On the one hand the separation track is going really well. Rashi has put it out there in front of practically everybody - she's separated the families in name already.
The difference in reaction was plain to see. When she mentioned that it was the first time that their family had come out like this in front of Jigar and Hetal, Jigar showed absolutely no reaction - he was either didn't notice the distinction or wasn't bothered!! More likely the guy is being ruled by the brain in his pants and can't see past Rashi's smiley face.
Hetal showed a little reaction which shows that she was aware of the distinction but it speaks volumes that she didn't say anything. In the past she may have said that it would have been nice if the whole family could have been here, but the fact that she let it slide shows that she is more than willing to have the separation made.

On the other hand when Rashi made the distinction to Gopi you could see the surprise and hurt in her reaction. She's obviously never thought of Modi Bhavan housing two separate families, to her they have always been one. If Koki is her mum then Hetal is her kaki. Gopi has wholeheartedly accepted Jigar as her devar and hasn't just mouthed platitudes like other people have - I am so including Jigar and Hetal in this!! For nearly two years we've had "Koki is my little sister!" So much for those avowals, platitudes and nothing more!!
Koki's reaction was much the same as Gopi's. She's definitely shocked at what Rashi has said, but she's a smart woman and will make the connections between Rashi saying that and Hetal's current behaviour. She will realise that Hetal is also making a distinction between the two sides of the family.
Poor Gopi and Koki have actually invested their emotions into the family.

Going back to earlier in the episode. I actually enjoyed Koki's show of temper in her bedroom with Parag. It speaks volumes for their relationship that she is able to vent like that. If the same was happening to me I'd be like Koki too. I wouldn't be able to keep it all in - frustration needs a definite outlet.
On the flipside Hetal didn't really want to tell Chirag her feelings but he got it out of her. The way she said everything was sort of like a spoilt child. "I'm sick of Kokila!" Well how very dare you you ingrate!!!!
She has made me so angry that I could so very easily kill!! But I'll calm down after I've vented!!
Kokila hasn't changed in the way she has ordered herself and the house, and if Hetal had a problem with anything she should have said it before the routine became so ingrained it became like a tradition because lets face it that's all that traditions are. It's no use screaming the place down almost thirty years later. Even her own husband looked shocked and I'm not ruddy surprised!! The mouse showed her teeth!! Even if it was only in the privacy of her own room. She doesn't have the guts to directly air her concerns to Kokila but is more than happy to make snide comments like she made yesterday when she was indirectly taunting Koki when talking to Rashi.
For Koki and Gopi's sake the quicker the two families are separated the better it will be!! Hetal had better get used to her DIL always eating out!!


As for GoHem... well I'm still optimistic!!
Even if he has forgotten there's nothing to say that he won't be pleased when he finds out what he did!! I'm pretty sure that he will get his memories back eventually!!
I don't want this to come out through a pregnancy track though!! It would be nice for it to come back to him gradually - maybe by seeing Gopi's reactions to him he will start to wonder. In filmy style it would be nice if accidental touches between them bring back memories of what happened between them. It would be a really lovely way for him to recall it without having it brought up as a big barrier between GoHem!! I don't really want Gopi to know that Ahem doesn't remember but the CVs do think that Gopi's tears are big trp winners.

As for RaJi romance. It would be nice to see if Rashi wasn't so intent on ruining Koki's life. And nowadays seeing the blindness of Jigar and his mum he deserves to be heartbroken just like Kokila is because of his mum.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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such a nice post Nazma...I read everything in ur post but i want to comment only Gohem part..

I agree that CV will make Gopi cries again for the sake of TRP. so she has to know the truth. Ahem will be pleased to know what happend between him and her. I also want the filmy style to bring him his memory back...I am also optimistic
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great post nazma...for once chirag came across as a sensible man...hetal is just a coward...all she had to do is open her mouth and talk to koki...but she is hell bent on being led by her DIL...if she did not like the way koki did things...why was she quite for 30yrs...even chirag questioned as to why the sudden feeling...the way hetal looked then and tried to answer...it was clear this was not sudden...she always thought this of koki...now she is getting the much needed courage and backup from evil raashi to go ahead and do what she has always wanted...hetal and jigar the brainless idiots deserve everything thats coming to them...soon they are going to crash and burn...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb👏 Superb Nazma⭐️ That was a perfect post.. 👏

I am agreeing with you wholeheartedly.. On all points😃
I really at a particular point 2 weeks back did not want the separation. My only driving force being how sad it would make Kokila..
But now I am sure it is better they split than Kokila having to waste more time to same the ungrateful Hetal and her stupid son.. I now know that whatever Koki does, Hetal is not going to be happy and will always look at it in a way that makes Koki look bad.. So it is not just worth it.. Let them have the taste of Rashi alone and let Koki and GoHem with Parag live a life of peace..

You were so spot on in the way the family members reacted to Rashi's obvious split talk. Gopi and Koki, we always knew will be the worst hit. I am happy that Chirag at least proved that his heart is in the right place. He is hard headed at least for now and has told his wife that she better bite the bullet..
It just proves that it was only for Chirag that the families were together in the first place. Hetal never actually seemed to have liked it wholeheartedly. Just had to keep quiet because she had no other choice.. Now her actual feelings are coming out.😕
@Shilpa - You were so right😛

Jigar, I always knew. He is just plain stupid. When one family takes their bag and baggage and move, it will not hit him even then. He will think they are going on a vacation if Rashi tells him so..🤢 He really deserves the evil wife he has.. and please if you are so sweet and love everyone truly , you will be the first hit. His reaction again proves the superfluous love he has like his mother.

As for GoHem, it is alright. They will certainly pull together. And yes, I believe Aham will remember some time soon (soon could be a month or 2 in SNS timeline) but till then he will keep loving her like he has been. And now with an impending problem, he will be Gopi and Koki's strength.😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaka.lg


such a nice post Nazma...I read everything in ur post but i want to comment only Gohem part..

I agree that CV will make Gopi cries again for the sake of TRP. so she has to know the truth. Ahem will be pleased to know what happend between him and her. I also want the filmy style to bring him his memory back...I am also optimistic


Thanks!!

Well GoHem are the ones we live to watch!!
I do hope CVs twig on to the fact that people like to see Gopi happy and smiling and that showing an unbreakable bond between Gopi and Ahem is going to do much more for the trps than showing Gopi crying her little heart out because another dream of hers has been trampled into the dust.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aww nazma... always love to read ur take...👏⭐️

awesome analysis nazma...👏

Family Separation: so straight from horses mouth... and what do you expect from hetal or jigar,,, are they anyway close to thinking '.i doubt it... Rashi is just bringing hetal's hidden insecurities to the fore, which is pacifying and soothing to hetals' heart as she found a companion who thinks like her..Jiagr - agree with u and Shilpa...yes he does not use the head over his shoulders and is idioitic and stupid to the core😡

Platitude: Koki is smart and she can connect the dots.. but poor gopi ' she was over the moon when she got so many relations at once in her life... she cherished each new relation to her hearts' content...GoKi live the relations or carry their relations through their hearts unlike some people who call sister (koki) and beti (gopi) for the sake of saying

KoRag : yes koki being on the correct side, she vent out her genuine frustration with her husband, who is the first person u share anything with...koki did the same thing... she shared with her husband.. this is marriage all about😛

HeRag: Hetal is doing wrong by going against her conscience... when u do wrong there will be guilt and it will not let u confide ur thoughts even to ur closest relation😡

Separation - will be hard on CBP but their relations will be more stronger and more sweeter eventually and there will lot more happiness in store for them😳...but for MBP, it will be the reverse..they feel they won the battle but the relations in that family will nose dive in no time and their happiness will be plutoed🤢

Gohem: this is such an adorable pair, Ahem will have flashes of these moments...i can seeing being the happy man... making all efforts to pamper, love, tease, flirt with his wife, beyond her expectations... there is no worry about gohem and their love,,, they are just too beautiful and adorable for words😳

sorry nazma no comments for rashi - jigar... there is no term as RaJi for me,...it's rashi , jigar😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27

great post nazma...for once chirag came across as a sensible man...hetal is just a coward...all she had to do is open her mouth and talk to koki...but she is hell bent on being led by her DIL...if she did not like the way koki did things...why was she quite for 30yrs...even chirag questioned as to why the sudden feeling...the way hetal looked then and tried to answer...it was clear this was not sudden...she always thought this of koki...now she is getting the much needed courage and backup from evil raashi to go ahead and do what she has always wanted...hetal and jigar the brainless idiots deserve everything thats coming to them...soon they are going to crash and burn...


Thankyou Varshu!!

Yes even Chirag who in the past seemed to be quick to blame Koki seemed to think that his own wife had gone a little doolally today.
@bold I also got that impression. She said I'm sick of Koki's domineering ways. It points to a long festering resentment rather than anything done by Rashi, in effect all Rashi has done is provide a way and outlet for Hetal to release her bitterness and insecurity against Koki. She's conveniently forgotten everything that Koki has ever done for her.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Superb👏 Superb Nazma⭐️ That was a perfect post.. 👏


I am agreeing with you wholeheartedly.. On all points😃
I really at a particular point 2 weeks back did not want the separation. My only driving force being how sad it would make Kokila..
But now I am sure it is better they split than Kokila having to waste more time to same the ungrateful Hetal and her stupid son.. I now know that whatever Koki does, Hetal is not going to be happy and will always look at it in a way that makes Koki look bad.. So it is not just worth it.. Let them have the taste of Rashi alone and let Koki and GoHem with Parag live a life of peace..

You were so spot on in the way the family members reacted to Rashi's obvious split talk. Gopi and Koki, we always knew will be the worst hit. I am happy that Chirag at least proved that his heart is in the right place. He is hard headed at least for now and has told his wife that she better bite the bullet..
It just proves that it was only for Chirag that the families were together in the first place. Hetal never actually seemed to have liked it wholeheartedly. Just had to keep quiet because she had no other choice.. Now her actual feelings are coming out.😕
@Shilpa - You were so right😛

Jigar, I always knew. He is just plain stupid. When one family takes their bag and baggage and move, it will not hit him even then. He will think they are going on a vacation if Rashi tells him so..🤢 He really deserves the evil wife he has.. and please if you are so sweet and love everyone truly , you will be the first hit. His reaction again proves the superfluous love he has like his mother.

As for GoHem, it is alright. They will certainly pull together. And yes, I believe Aham will remember some time soon (soon could be a month or 2 in SNS timeline) but till then he will keep loving her like he has been. And now with an impending problem, he will be Gopi and Koki's strength.😃


Thanks Harini!!!
A wonderful response!!!
I also started out with not wanting the relationship between Koki and Hetal to be ruined but as the days have gone by it seems like that relationship was built on shifting foundations on Hetal's part.
Jigar deserves everything he's getting. His trust is going to get broken but the truth has been laid bare for him, if he chooses to forgive and forget then he's making a rod for his own back and digging his own grave!!

As for GoHem I have full faith in their love!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post and comments everyone...I truly hope what you all feel about Gohem is true...I hope CVs do not stall their romance for much longer...I want Ahem to realise soon. It will be sad to see Gopi in tears again...isn't it annoying enough with the kalakaries going on...I thought it was Gohem's romance that sets the TRPs and not her tears...😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Aww nazma... always love to read ur take...👏⭐️

awesome analysis nazma...👏

Family Separation: so straight from horses mouth... and what do you expect from hetal or jigar,,, are they anyway close to thinking '.i doubt it... Rashi is just bringing hetal's hidden insecurities to the fore, which is pacifying and soothing to hetals' heart as she found a companion who thinks like her..Jiagr - agree with u and Shilpa...yes he does not use the head over his shoulders and is idioitic and stupid to the core😡

Platitude: Koki is smart and she can connect the dots.. but poor gopi ' she was over the moon when she got so many relations at once in her life... she cherished each new relation to her hearts' content...GoKi live the relations or carry their relations through their hearts unlike some people who call sister (koki) and beti (gopi) for the sake of saying

KoRag : yes koki being on the correct side, she vent out her genuine frustration with her husband, who is the first person u share anything with...koki did the same thing... she shared with her husband.. this is marriage all about😛

HeRag: Hetal is doing wrong by going against her conscience... when u do wrong there will be guilt and it will not let u confide ur thoughts even to ur closest relation😡

Separation - will be hard on CBP but their relations will be more stronger and more sweeter eventually and there will lot more happiness in store for them😳...but for MBP, it will be the reverse..they feel they won the battle but the relations in that family will nose dive in no time and their happiness will be plutoed🤢

Gohem: this is such an adorable pair, Ahem will have flashes of these moments...i can seeing being the happy man... making all efforts to pamper, love, tease, flirt with his wife, beyond her expectations... there is no worry about gohem and their love,,, they are just too beautiful and adorable for words😳


sorry nazma no comments for rashi - jigar... there is no term as RaJi for me,...it's rashi , jigar😕

Thankyou Munni!!!😳
Love your reply!!!
I agree with everything you've written!! The separation will be tough but ultimately it will be for the benefit of Gopi and Koki!!! They can cope with anything that is thrown at them because they have a strong bond!! They are mother and daughter not by blood but through their hearts!! They are linked by strong emotions not only for each other but also by the love they each have for Ahem. Through good times and bad they will be there for each other!!

As for Rashi and Jigar they are RaJi - made for each other, one being led by his... while the other makes full use of it to get her own way!!

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