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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

NO!!!!! You guys have it all wrong.


Watch Koki's expressions again. Everyone keeps saying she is jealous. But she isn't. However she is in thinking mode when certain things happen.

Aham praises Gopi's work performance. The role that Koki was filling prior to marriage. However, he should be praising his wife's other skills too. And Koki wants him to realise that Gopi is his wife. Not just someone who does his chores.

She left them alone when Gopi entered the room. But she deliberately ensured that Gopi was not around the following morning. Why was Aham so desperate for her to be around? There was no chore that needed doing. Did he even realise that he wanted her there. And even more so why did he want her there?

Koki wants Aham to start questioning himself and coming up with the right answers. That he is in love with Gopi. No-one knows her son's mind better then Koki herself. She realises he is in love with his wife. But he needs to admit this to himself and move on in his relationship. So Koki will facilitate this process and gradually make her son see the light.




you know shaun you might have something there with the last part ..i hope that is true ..otherwise i dont want koki turning into monster as she is so beautiful as saas and has given a positive spin on how mil and dil can live together in harmony ...anyway time will tell ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you made everything so sparkling clear, always the way i had thought about Koki, we indeed are FT Tina😆

But then subconscious level is also her own right. She surely did some mistakes in the past as you said and those were conscious decisions which I have never appreciated but it had to be like that only and no use in discussing it again! She is not denying anything, she hasn't yet absorbed it 1% that her son is drifting apart. The day when she'll realize that her son and vau have to have a private life, she'll move back. And I am hoping, rather want CVs to bring Parag into play now. Enough of ignoring him all this while. He's absolutely loving person when it comes to showing his emotions for his family and maybe he helps Koki in adapting to the changing conditions with ease and then it would be real pleasing to see. For isn't in real life, Mil and Fil do come close when their kids get married. They start supporting each other as never before!

And after having said all this, I am sure of this thing also that no matter how much Koki is insecure right now, her pure, sincere and truthful heart and her love for her son and Dil will make her adjust to the changing circumstances soon enough for she has started recognizing the changing relation of her son and vau. And she would sure take a backseat shifting to the front only when required by her son and vau.



I AGREE, IF THIS HAPPENS IT WOULD BE GREAT. IT WILL BE SAD TO PAINT KOKI'S CHARACTER GRAY. ONCE SHE UNDERSTANDS SHE WILL TAKE A BACK SEAT. LIKE YOU I HAVE ALWAYS HOPE THAT PARAG PLAYS A GREATER ROLE IN MAKING HER REALISE THAT SHE NEEDS TO RELEASE THE LEASH SHE HAS ON AHEM. THE HARDER SHE TRIES TO HANG ON TO HIM, THE FURTHER HE IS GOING TO GO...HE IS A MAN IN LOVE NOW. BUT I WOULD LIKE HIM TO THANK HER FROM THE BOTTOM OF HIS HEART FOR BRING GOPI INTO HIS LIFE...HOPE CVS TAKES THE HINTS FROM US ALL...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

NO!!!!! You guys have it all wrong.


Watch Koki's expressions again. Everyone keeps saying she is jealous. But she isn't. However she is in thinking mode when certain things happen.

Aham praises Gopi's work performance. The role that Koki was filling prior to marriage. However, he should be praising his wife's other skills too. And Koki wants him to realise that Gopi is his wife. Not just someone who does his chores.

She left them alone when Gopi entered the room. But she deliberately ensured that Gopi was not around the following morning. Why was Aham so desperate for her to be around? There was no chore that needed doing. Did he even realise that he wanted her there. And even more so why did he want her there?

Koki wants Aham to start questioning himself and coming up with the right answers. That he is in love with Gopi. No-one knows her son's mind better then Koki herself. She realises he is in love with his wife. But he needs to admit this to himself and move on in his relationship. So Koki will facilitate this process and gradually make her son see the light.



What admittance do you need Shaun??????Ahem is clearly telling Koki that Gopi is doing his work so perfectly and he's asking for Gopi's whereabouts...should he tell Koki that he loves Gopi????????this is a show and not a movie where he would go beating in front of everyone that he loves gopi...😆

So Koki is absolutely looking insecure when Ahem praises Gopi in front of her.You people are blindly in love with Koki...thats it😆that you are seeing her hurt expressions as concern and a part of her plan to bring Gohem together!

When two people have to come together, no third party is needed I believe...Gohem would anyway come together now😆Koki is not stupid to keep Ahem away from Gopi intentionally ...this idea is looking so absurd to me now when Ahem is missing Gopi and mentioning her name so many times in front of his mom!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hetp

@bold...rightly said Shaun...koki has noticed Ahem more from the day gopi has gone to her peehar that Ahem is just appreciating her for his work she is doing...nothing else...v r seeing that her presence not around him is letting Ahem to go in flashback...n even yesterday everyone went to mandir but not gopi...koki would have call also her as she is badi vau of modi..but she didnt do that just to make Ahem realise..! so now it would be much awaiting how she will help Ahem to make him realise that there is something that he need to express his true feelings of love towards her


Then what should Ahem do tell me???Gopi is taking care of Ahem and thats the only common thing between them right now, so he's praising her for that only as any normal husband would do! When Gopi would start doing other things for him, he would start praising for them as well😆

And why would Koki not let Gopi come...it was that she was just busy making breakfast as everyone was going out and someone was needed at home to finish the cooking😛

And I dont think a mom like KoKi would make Ahem realize his feelings of love😆she wouldn't interfere! the only thing is she's insecure and lil hurt at the thought of losing Ahem which all Koki die hard fans are taking somewhere else to defend her at any cost😆 I also love Koki but then I am seeing this change in her as well which many are denying to notice.
Edited by shruts18 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

NO!!!!! You guys have it all wrong.


Watch Koki's expressions again. Everyone keeps saying she is jealous. But she isn't. However she is in thinking mode when certain things happen.

Aham praises Gopi's work performance. The role that Koki was filling prior to marriage. However, he should be praising his wife's other skills too. And Koki wants him to realise that Gopi is his wife. Not just someone who does his chores.

She left them alone when Gopi entered the room. But she deliberately ensured that Gopi was not around the following morning. Why was Aham so desperate for her to be around? There was no chore that needed doing. Did he even realise that he wanted her there. And even more so why did he want her there?

Koki wants Aham to start questioning himself and coming up with the right answers. That he is in love with Gopi. No-one knows her son's mind better then Koki herself. She realises he is in love with his wife. But he needs to admit this to himself and move on in his relationship. So Koki will facilitate this process and gradually make her son see the light.



OMG shaun nahiii nahi aur nahi😉😆. Koki does not want Ahem to do any more qs answers now😛 she is happy with her Dhikra & Vau's relationship 😃. She actually wants him to put some love breaks & concentrate on his business... earn some more... before he becomes a dad lolz😛. She has very clearly voiced her insecurity to her son, she is scared that he may become lazy bones like his dad . She has told Ahem just to concentrate on business, we'll manage the home front. Koki being Koki would never wait, if she had wanted Gohem to leap forward, she would have clearly told them. She is not kalakari central to wait & watch. Koki can see that her son is almost blinded in love-light & you are saying see the light which/what light😕?
Koki and her awesome brain ...Human nature leads people to do what they perceive to be in their best interest😎😛. Koki is just doing that, if you insist that it was an act of deliberation on Koki's part, to keep Gopi away, was probably in Koki's best interest😈
Tell me abt yesterday's first sc...what was Koki implying ...when she said, I used to do all your work before, so why can't I do it now sometimes😉? It was a simple motherly statement making sure she & Ahem were on the same page. She loves her son & Vau but letting go is bit difficult. She wants the Gohem remote control, which is not possible, that's why she had got a simple dolice DIL who will listen to her & not qs her or her son.
Little did Koki know abt the side effects of falling in love😉😈 She better keep her testosterone-packed hunk son safely😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruts18


Then what should Ahem do tell me???Gopi is taking care of Ahem and thats the only common thing between them right now, so he's praising her for that only as any normal husband would do! When Gopi would start doing other things for him, he would start praising for them as well😆

And why would Koki not let Gopi come...it was that she was just busy making breakfast as everyone was going out and someone was needed at home to finish the cooking😛

And I dont think a mom like Gopi would make Ahem realize his feelings of love😆she wouldn't interfere! the only thing is she's insecure and lil hurt at the thought of losing Ahem which all Koki die hard fans are taking somewhere else to defend her at any cost😆 I also love Koki but then I am seeing this change in her as well which many are denying to notice.

Shriti, we are just trying to rationalize her actions and tell that, this is what makes her character believable and human. She is not GOD or super human as some are making her. In the beginning episodes she had clearly stated that she wants a DIL ,who will be mute & will only listen to her...Mota bhabhi you take a chill pill 😛 😆.
I love Koki as she is take charge kind of lady & her love & concern for all members of MM are REAL and GENUINE!! Yeah, I love Koki, but I really, do not like her ways sometimes...she has to learn to let GO!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Every mother should let go of the strings at some time or the other. If she let goes by herself she will have the respect and love of her son and daughter-in-law.


Anu
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tina I really wanna 🤗you for the replies and being my true friend and companion😊Awesome answers😛 esp. the testosterone one!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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TFS.
I just hope that her insecurity gets over soon and she realises that no one is taking her son away from her. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shruts you know that this is not the newest article on Koki but over a months old right? 😆

And I agree with Shaun Koki wants Ahem to realise his feelings for Gopi. It is true that Koki is a very upfront person, but she has learnt out of experience that pushing Ahem towards Gopi will not work. So she had to take herself out of it some more and it did work, didn't it? Now it is clearly visible that the boy is a gonner for his wife. However his wife is brainless and therefore won't know it if he doesn't tell her so ,which could lead to another heartbreak for Gopi and that is something Koki will not tolerate again. So by keeping them apart a little, she tries to make him understand that it isn't only the work she does for him that he is missing, but also her as a person. That he just wants to see her and hear her voice without a purpose behind it.

In regards of you accusations in regards to Koki wanting him to concentrate on business, well that is her. But she has clearly stated that she wants Ahem to balance his work, privat life as well as the life with his wife. So she doesn't need him to stop at the stage of just appreciating his wife but is happy for them to go further. What she wants is for him to concentrate on his work as well. Koki has seen and felt what it is like to be the wife of a family member, who is not business orientated. And she knows how hard this life was on her and her children and that is why she doesn't want it for her son and her DIL, who is like a daughter for her.

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