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harini great post.👏.. something very intense and intelligent to munch on a Sunday Noon😛
in the first instance...circumstances forced each of them getting to married to girl who is not their choice... here the situation is the same for each of them...but their behaviors are extreme
Prejudice Vs Regard:
In the beginning, Ahem was completely prejudiced against his wife, it was his misjudgment, preconception, foregone conclusion, unfairness which stood out
In the beginning, Jigar was more based on respect towards his wife and their relation, fairness in relation, regards to his wife, tolerance of her petty mistakes,
yes they are 2 extreme behaviors in the first situation...
second instance - both are faced with the true face of their respective wives ' situation is the same, they are seeing a new side of their wives, though the direction is reverse
Calmness Vs Anger:
In this situation, for Ahem, Calmness dawned up on him, his agreeability and contentment wiped off the prejudice he had for his wife... Here he is at peace, calm, happy, content, joy, pleasant
For Jigar, it was more of annoyance for being fooled by her, anger, frustration for trusting her. ...his animosity, ignoring attitude, resentment took over the regards, respect and fairness he had for his wife
yes they are 2 extreme behaviors in this situation as well...
third instance - here both are faced with similar situation ...when their respective wives are all caring and loving to them.. situation is same... their expected behavior is
Love, Care and Concern:
both are now in the same boat...having pretty much the same feelings towards their wives... yeah agreed the intensity of passion differs between them... need not go into details here
but the question is how will these 2 brothers' behavior change in a future scene where the kalakaries are out
- how will Ahem react to his wife
- how will Jigar react to his wife
- will that be extreme once again... yes,... it will go to the next phase
Guilt and Anger (no extremes but different behaviors)
- When the kalakaries are out , Ahem will be all guilt, blame himself, remorse, self-reproach, shame
- while jigar will be filled with more anger, animosity, annoyance, outrage, resentment, irritability and frustration for trusting and falling in love with the wrong woman
conclusion:
Prejudice Vs Regard:
In the beginning, Ahem was completely prejudiced against his wife, it was his misjudgment, preconception, foregone conclusion, unfairness which stood out
In the beginning, Jigar was more based on respect towards his wife and their relation, fairness in relation, regards to his wife, tolerance of her petty mistakes,
yes they are 2 extreme behaviors in the first situation...
second instance - both are faced with the true face of their respective wives ' situation is the same, they are seeing a new side of their wives, though the direction is reverse
Calmness Vs Anger:
In this situation, for Ahem, Calmness dawned up on him, his agreeability and contentment wiped off the prejudice he had for his wife... Here he is at peace, calm, happy, content, joy, pleasant
For Jigar, it was more of annoyance for being fooled by her, anger, frustration for trusting her. ...his animosity, ignoring attitude, resentment took over the regards, respect and fairness he had for his wife
yes they are 2 extreme behaviors in this situation as well...
third instance - here both are faced with similar situation ...when their respective wives are all caring and loving to them.. situation is same... their expected behavior is
Love, Care and Concern:
both are now in the same boat...having pretty much the same feelings towards their wives... yeah agreed the intensity of passion differs between them... need not go into details here
but the question is how will these 2 brothers' behavior change in a future scene where the kalakaries are out
- how will Ahem react to his wife
- how will Jigar react to his wife
- will that be extreme once again... yes,... it will go to the next phase
Guilt and Anger (no extremes but different behaviors)
- When the kalakaries are out , Ahem will be all guilt, blame himself, remorse, self-reproach, shame
- while jigar will be filled with more anger, animosity, annoyance, outrage, resentment, irritability and frustration for trusting and falling in love with the wrong woman
conclusion:
here in all these instances above... the behavior of these brothers is subjective to change in conjunction with external stimuli or factors (gopi and rashi)...
the way the boys are perceiving and the way the girls are reacting and behaving is influencing the thought process and behavioral outcome of the guys...
the way the boys are perceiving and the way the girls are reacting and behaving is influencing the thought process and behavioral outcome of the guys...
definition from wikipedia😉
Behavior refers to the actions and mannerisms made by organisms, systems, or artificial entities in conjunction with their environment, which includes the other systems or organisms around as well as the physical environment. It is the response of the system or organism to various stimuli or inputs, whether internal or external, conscious or subconscious, overt or covert, and voluntary or involuntary.
sorry sorry... don't know if i made any sense... just ignore this... i am sooo sleepy '.just went on typing
