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A very very unusual thought came to me as I watch the old episodes of Saathiya.. .I just wanted to articulate it the best I can so bear with me guys if the post becomes a little too long or shortš³
So on one side we have Aham, a man of anger and passion who hated his wife at sight in the beginning of his marriage. He married a girl of his mother's choice and could not digest the fact that she was not what he thought she was. His hatred was so much that he did not give her any chance. No chances at all.. His journey of hatred continued so much that he was glad that she went out of the house and even then he never looked back. Circumstances made him take her back(Naani). Then more circumstances led him to see his wife for who she was truly and after more than a year of their marriage we see Aham falling in love slowly.. He is taking his own time to realize his feelings and is also testing hers.. A man of passion, we have seen him through his journey of hate and care and now love..
Lets take Jigar. Jigar also got married to different girl than the one he wanted. But unlike Aham he decided to take life as it comes. He started his life hoping for the best. He kept giving chances to his wife even when her behavior puzzled him to the core.. He never showed his displeasure at her mistakes. Their journey continued too till a point where he first saw his wife for the person she truly was. Even then Jigar was confused. The decision of sending his wife to her mother was taken out of his hands when his family came to know of the situation. Even then we saw him cry for the ruin that his marriage had become.
Like Aham, circumstances brought the same girl back to his house (Gopi.). But we see Jigar again falling for the same tricks as before. Unlike Aham who took a year to trust his wife after initially thinking she was a gold digger, Jigar has gone on to the next extreme and has already forgiven the biggest betrayal in his life. He is ready to go back to the relationship he had before the betrayal was brought to light.. He has given more chances to Rashi than anyone else..
But if we go by the same logic where Aham and Jigar have been acting in extremes when compared to their relationship with their spouses, is it now possible that as Aham and Gopi march forward in their relation slowly, Jigar also starts to see the truth for what it is?
What do you think will be the next step in their respective relationships?
So on one side we have Aham, a man of anger and passion who hated his wife at sight in the beginning of his marriage. He married a girl of his mother's choice and could not digest the fact that she was not what he thought she was. His hatred was so much that he did not give her any chance. No chances at all.. His journey of hatred continued so much that he was glad that she went out of the house and even then he never looked back. Circumstances made him take her back(Naani). Then more circumstances led him to see his wife for who she was truly and after more than a year of their marriage we see Aham falling in love slowly.. He is taking his own time to realize his feelings and is also testing hers.. A man of passion, we have seen him through his journey of hate and care and now love..
Lets take Jigar. Jigar also got married to different girl than the one he wanted. But unlike Aham he decided to take life as it comes. He started his life hoping for the best. He kept giving chances to his wife even when her behavior puzzled him to the core.. He never showed his displeasure at her mistakes. Their journey continued too till a point where he first saw his wife for the person she truly was. Even then Jigar was confused. The decision of sending his wife to her mother was taken out of his hands when his family came to know of the situation. Even then we saw him cry for the ruin that his marriage had become.
Like Aham, circumstances brought the same girl back to his house (Gopi.). But we see Jigar again falling for the same tricks as before. Unlike Aham who took a year to trust his wife after initially thinking she was a gold digger, Jigar has gone on to the next extreme and has already forgiven the biggest betrayal in his life. He is ready to go back to the relationship he had before the betrayal was brought to light.. He has given more chances to Rashi than anyone else..
But if we go by the same logic where Aham and Jigar have been acting in extremes when compared to their relationship with their spouses, is it now possible that as Aham and Gopi march forward in their relation slowly, Jigar also starts to see the truth for what it is?
What do you think will be the next step in their respective relationships?
