Isn't it disheartening...

..and pathetic that UrShi can destroy old and so-far strong family relations so easily and so fast??? Where has all the trust and faith gone which the bonding of the two sisters-in-law (Kokila and Hetal) had nurtured for so long? Both so different in nature - one managing the whole household with her discipline and strictness, and the other balancing it out perfectly with her softness of heart - but a few silly words of two conniving women made one turn away from the other.

I admit it happens in real life also, because relations are very fragile, especially the ones that are not blood relations, but have been acquired through marriages. Such relations depend solely on mutual trust, adjustment and understanding. So, shouldn't the fact that Kokila and Hetal have spent a lifetime in perfect harmony (at least I hope the have!), Urshi should not have succeeded in breaking them apart so easily?? It really hurts me to see a close-knit family being destroyed for no fault of their own but because of the greed for power of some evil persons.

Jaya.. Well said👏

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Jaya.. Well said👏

It breaks my heart to see not one but 2 beautiful relationships go down the drain. By the looks of it not just Koki and Hetal's relation but the Aham and Jigar one is also on the line (I hope not but sadly it may be that way). I hope this does not happen and Rashi falls flat on her face..

But when we look at it deeply, my question is, Was their relationship so weak that a few conniving words from a scheming girl can break it so easily?

If Hetal and Jigar trust Rashi who has been proved a liar and a cheat above the people they know are honest and loving then what kind of relation did they have? I know misunderstandings are part and parcel of any relation that too in a joint family. But this relationship has naturally tided a lot over the 30 years of their togetherness.

So if Hetal is swayed by Rashi's words now, then is it that this thought was always brewing deep within her and has Rashi just brought that insecurity out in the open? If that is the case then it is good that they fight and clear the air.

Hetal keeps saying that Aham and Jigar are the same to her and we have heard Koki calling the two exactly as her son and Hetal's son. So the assumption till now was that Hetal is the better of the two as she thinks them as equal.

But their actions in the recent times have proved the right opposite. Whatever Koki says, she still considers Jigar as her own and cares and loves him while Hetal now seems to think that Aham, the boy she said she considers her son can think evil for her son.. My point is there is a lot of difference between saying things and actually living the way you say..

I know that this is one of the worst things Rashi can do, but if Hetal can so easily think bad about Kokila, I think she does not deserve this relationship. 😕 The same argument goes for Jigar. If after knowing that his brother went out of his way to bring him close to his wife, if Jigar misunderstands Aham's intentions then sorry, he does not deserve Aham's brotherly love either..

Just my PoV

Thanks for making me see the other side of the coin. It looks as if the relation of Hetal and Koki had never really had to stand the test of time so far, and so it endured.

Well said and i am also feeling bad for that. But more disguishting for me was that a person who is just two years old for family,is overshadowing all trusts, believes and bondings presenting from almost 25 yrs. It is difficult to assume that during 25 yrs. Modi family has not faced any such type similar problem and certainly they had came out with mutual understanding ,so, the family was running successeully.

Nuff said. You guys said it all👏 this is one test of faith and respect that is going to have to prove itself strong

there isnt much i can add to what u guys haveal ready said...the way hetal and jigar are behaving now...they deserve raashi...and sooner or later raashi is going to make hetal and jigar go against each other too...😡...maybe then hetal will get her wake up call...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Jaya.. Well said👏It breaks my heart to see not one but 2 beautiful relationships go down the drain. By the looks of it not just Koki and Hetal's relation but the Aham and Jigar one is also on the line (I hope not but sadly it may be that way). I hope this does not happen and Rashi falls flat on her face..But when we look at it deeply, my question is, Was their relationship so weak that a few conniving words from a scheming girl can break it so easily?If Hetal and Jigar trust Rashi who has been proved a liar and a cheat above the people they know are honest and loving then what kind of relation did they have? I know misunderstandings are part and parcel of any relation that too in a joint family. But this relationship has naturally tided a lot over the 30 years of their togetherness. So if Hetal is swayed by Rashi's words now, then is it that this thought was always brewing deep within her and has Rashi just brought that insecurity out in the open? If that is the case then it is good that they fight and clear the air. Hetal keeps saying that Aham and Jigar are the same to her and we have heard Koki calling the two exactly as her son and Hetal's son. So the assumption till now was that Hetal is the better of the two as she thinks them as equal.But their actions in the recent times have proved the right opposite. Whatever Koki says, she still considers Jigar as her own and cares and loves him while Hetal now seems to think that Aham, the boy she said she considers her
son can think evil for her son.. My point is there is a lot of difference between saying things and actually living the way you say.. I know that this is one of the worst things Rashi can do, but if Hetal
can so easily think bad about Kokila, I think she does not deserve this relationship.😕The same argument goes for Jigar. If after knowing that his brother went out of his way to bring him close to his wife, if Jigar misunderstands Aham's intentions then sorry, he does not deserve Aham's brotherly love
either..[/DIV]

Just my PoV

very well said !! completely agree with you!! 😃

well said both of you...