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Kristin

@Ichangedit

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

sorry kristin...

here i find rashi more pathetic and selfish and mean than urmi... yeah u read it right...read further...

urmi is selfish we know that ... urmi is doing for her daughter... reason for being selfish is her ..she wants her daughter to be a princess in a very big home...

reason for Rashi being selfish... is just her own self and nothing more and nothing less...she can't think about anyone beyond herself...she has no love for anyone whatsoever...

and i want jigar to be happy with some other girl but not with rashi...😆

made another post regarding rashi and her conscience😉

Okay Munni I can't agree with the statement that Rashi is more evil than Urmi. Sorry 😊

I mean you say that Urmi is doing this for Rashi's sake. So that her daughter can be a princess in a big house but that isn't true. She wants her to be that but only so that she can get things out of it. She wants to bring Rashi into a position from which she can support and give things to Urmi without being questioned. Urmi doesn't care for Rashi. She doesn't care if she is happy in her marriage. when Rashi asked her for help to make Jigar like her again she said that this is nonsense and that she doesn't need him to get what she needs. Urmi is so most evil creature in SNS!!! And I won't be convinced otherwise. I know that will sound like let it go Hetal now but Rashi is still half a child, which has been told over and over again that doing kalakaris is alright as long as it gets you what you want. I agree that she should have learnd otherwise in her in laws house but Urmi never left her alone long enough to achieve that.

However don't get me wrong. I am not saying that Rashi is just a puppet in Urmi's hand. No she isn't. It is true that she could have chosen the hard way!!! What Rashi is doing right now is wrong and she could have seen that and she will have a hard time making up for it. The only thing I actually want to say is that she has the possibility on her to be a good girl

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: shruts18

Kristin dont mind ...i can't believe this you are comparing eating habits with the nature and conscience😆🤣

@Kristin.. I don't have experience in social work but I cannot see that influence of nurturing to play the role that it becomes a defense.. I do agree that Urmi's influence is bad for her and Urmi taught her to be the selfish person she is but for Rashi, it goes more than that nurturing is just the point.

Yes. We do things by the way we are taught. So although physical violence is abhorrent to me, there are still some who accept that it is a part and parcel of life. But that does not make it correct nor gives you an excuse to do it. Rashi is not living in isolation. She has other people around her.. It is just that she does not want to understand and it takes us back to the conscience thing..

Rashi does not have a conscience at all...

So Urmi taught Rashi to get what she wants but why does Rashi feel or to that matter Gloat when she sees others in pain? Take for example when Gopi was sent out of school for cheating. Rashi did get what she wanted but she still took joy in shattering her hopes further by gloating over the fact in her face.. This is not something that is nurtured. It is the way she is.

Sorry for making you defend her again Kristin. But Urmi is not the excuse for Rashi's evilness . But I am sure this is how the CVs will finally redeem her..

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Kristin

@Ichangedit

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: navyab
But when a German goes to Japan or vice versa they learn to adapt & love that culture...which I do not see in Rashi !!!

... gosh this is turning into hard work!!! Why did I let myself turned into half a RaJi fan? 😆

Let me put it this way I wouldn't start making noises while eating but only because I find eating noises really disgusting 😆 so nothing to do with the discussion but it had to be said 😛

I agree Normally people would take on the habbits of their new environment but then there are these people, who go into a new environment but hold on to her old one. Aka Rashi depending on her mother more then anything and not learning to depend and trust Hetal and Koki. She still does not see herself as part of the family but sees all of them as enimies. Which might have something to do with the way this marriage happened. You know she had to protect her back and couldn't let her guard slip and then also Urmi, who would never let go of a way to get money and free stuff aka Rashi the bahu of the Modi family 🤢

So to put it short. Because she didn't want to change, because she didn't let go of her past, because her past didn't let go of her and because she had to make sure nobody found out her secrets.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: navyab
She realised that Urmi cannot provide it...she realised they did not have chawal when she was in rajpal nagar & Jigar can provide all the material comforts hence she is forced to include him in the list !!!

Well said Navya.. That is exactly how it happened.. 😕 Poor Jigar is good only with his Modi name and wealth..

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: d-luna88

Okay Munni I can't agree with the statement that Rashi is more evil than Urmi. Sorry 😊

I mean you say that Urmi is doing this for Rashi's sake. So that her daughter can be a princess in a big house but that isn't true. She wants her to be that but only so that she can get things out of it. She wants to bring Rashi into a position from which she can support and give things to Urmi without being questioned. Urmi doesn't care for Rashi. She doesn't care if she is happy in her marriage. when Rashi asked her for help to make Jigar like her again she said that this is nonsense and that she doesn't need him to get what she needs. Urmi is so most evil creature in SNS!!! And I won't be convinced otherwise. I know that will sound like let it go Hetal now but Rashi is still half a child, which has been told over and over again that doing kalakaris is alright as long as it gets you what you want. I agree that she should have learnd otherwise in her in laws house but Urmi never left her alone long enough to achieve that.

However don't get me wrong. I am not saying that Rashi is just a puppet in Urmi's hand. No she isn't. It is true that she could have chosen the hard way!!! What Rashi is doing right now is wrong and she could have seen that and she will have a hard time making up for it. The only thing I actually want to say is that she has the possibility on her to be a good girl

Now I come with full force...

Urmi is an evil of the evilest persons if there is any such word😆

1. She is using Rashi as a real gold digger...though able to dig few hundreds only😆

2. She wants her dreams to be achieved through Rashi.

3. She never ever told Rashi that always go according to what Jigar says...but always advised her that you dont care for me but jIgar...how jealous is that🤢

4. When Rashi came back to Urmi house, she didnt feed her properly and taunted her,made her work...how loving is that?

5. She took 5000 rs from rashi once which Jigar gave but she was thankless even knowing Jigar gave it🤢

6. She asked Rashi to take Hetal to the parlour for which Hetal will pay...Urmi is always trying to fill Rashi with more evilness!

7. Even for today, jigar got fever but what she advised as a mother?

8. Always she wanted to leisure and have fun with Jigar hence Rashi's money...swiss trip she asked her to brong gifts for her only...cam eot their house and partied...like mother like daughter both selfish and greedy🤢one more one lil less...

9. Lastly urmi used violence in handling gopi which Rashi didnt...the worst part i hate her for

Many examples but cant remember at this timeUrmi is a total loss...she should be kicked right and left, up and down🤢

Edited by shruts18 - 13 years ago

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: navyab
any thing specific on the sudden change munni !!!

navya nothing specific... just want to slowly retrieve and get back to my life😆

but rashi is just 😡

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: d-luna88

... gosh this is turning into hard work!!! Why did I let myself turned into half a RaJi fan? 😆

Let me put it this way I wouldn't start making noises while eating but only because I find eating noises really disgusting 😆 so nothing to do with the discussion but it had to be said 😛

I agree Normally people would take on the habbits of their new environment but then there are these people, who go into a new environment but hold on to her old one. Aka Rashi depending on her mother more then anything and not learning to depend and trust Hetal and Koki. She still does not see herself as part of the family but sees all of them as enimies. Which might have something to do with the way this marriage happened. You know she had to protect her back and couldn't let her guard slip and then also Urmi, who would never let go of a way to get money and free stuff aka Rashi the bahu of the Modi family 🤢

So to put it short. Because she didn't want to change, because she didn't let go of her past, because her past didn't let go of her and because she had to make sure nobody found out her secrets.

Kristin.. Then doing new Kalaakaris is noway to protect your past.. If she is not able to let go of her past because she is frightened she will be caught, then she should be looking to becoming a true person and do it rather than finding happiness in making others miserable.

But I agree (ffwww... At least on one thing..😉) that she does not consider the Modi's as her own and that is her own fault.. Hetal never made her feel like that and nor did Koki.

Even now she is thinking of splitting the Modi's for her own gain and not because she wants her MIL and husband's love.. Their love is just a means to an end.. So if she is holding on to her old habits then it is just because she finds them easier to meet her desires than embracing the new one..

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minoushka93

@minoushka93

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#58

she's the only responsible about the fact that sick jigar had to go to office by rickshaw even if he is the one who insisted to go to office, and , if she had the smallest concern (and real one) she would have stopped ahem from leaving without jigar. I feel so sad for jigar, he's so sweet and was so elated to see rashi rush to get him medicine and water, but a call later she shows her true interest. I so HATE urshi, it's big time they're exposed now!

and now due to their kalakaris they gonna split the family, and for what?! to have the privilegies of baDi bahu??!!

jigar deserves a better wife, a loving wife who cares about him. he deserves a wife. point. because rashi is definitely not a wife to him! how dare she put her MIL and family in trouble in the name of hers and jigars well being?! what nonsense!! rashi was the one who went to college, and still she is the stupidest person ever, how can she listen to her mom and follows her antics.

to the hell with them!!! I'm fed up of watching these evil persons on tv, really the creatives sometimes go very far in stooping the villain so low. I can't believe someone can be so mean...

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Kristin

@Ichangedit

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Kristin.. I don't have experience in social work but I cannot see that influence of nurturing to play the role that it becomes a defense.. I do agree that Urmi's influence is bad for her and Urmi taught her to be the selfish person she is but for Rashi, it goes more than that nurturing is just the point.

Yes. We do things by the way we are taught. So although physical violence is abhorrent to me, there are still some who accept that it is a part and parcel of life. But that does not make it correct nor gives you an excuse to do it. Rashi is not living in isolation. She has other people around her.. It is just that she does not want to understand and it takes us back to the conscience thing..
Rashi does not have a conscience at all...

So Urmi taught Rashi to get what she wants but why does Rashi feel or to that matter Gloat when she sees others in pain? Take for example when Gopi was sent out of school for cheating. Rashi did get what she wanted but she still took joy in shattering her hopes further by gloating over the fact in her face.. This is not something that is nurtured. It is the way she is.

Sorry for making you defend her again Kristin. But Urmi is not the excuse for Rashi's evilness . But I am sure this is how the CVs will finally redeem her..

Okay now I it is getting hiliarious 😆 someone slap me to get me out of this!!!

I am sorry. I didn't mean to say that the upbringing is all there is to current behaviour. This of course is wrong. Rashi did have a choice and she did chose the wrong way and in the end she is now old enough to see this. I know!!

I think Rashi is by nature a rather selfcentred girl, who is strong willed and want things to happen her way. However this does not make her an evil person that happened through Urmi and through the fact that she didn't want to face the truth of things. Because lets see it from her perspective. Should she believe that all she has done, was wrong and that there is no excuse for it, she would have to hate herself or at least her old self and that is a hard thing to do. But it needs to be done!!!

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: shruts18

Now I come with full force...

Urmi is an evil of the evilest persons if there is any such word😆

1. She is using Rashi as a real gold digger...though able to dig few hundreds only😆
2. She wants her dreams to be achieved through Rashi.
3. She never ever told Rashi that always go according to what Jigar says...but always advised her that you dont care for me but jIgar...how jealous is that🤢
4. When Rashi came back to Urmi house, she didnt feed her properly and taunted her,made her work...how loving is that?
5. She took 5000 rs from rashi once which Jigar gave but she was thankless even knowing Jigar gave it🤢
6. She asked Rashi to take Hetal to the parlour for which Hetal will pay...Urmi is always trying to fill Rashi with more evilness!
7. Even for today, jigar got fever but what she advised as a mother?
8. Always she wanted to leisure and have fun with Jigar hence Rashi's money...swiss trip she asked her to brong gifts for her only...cam eot their house and partied...like mother like daughter both selfish and greedy🤢one more one lil less...
9. Lastly urmi used violence in handling gopi which Rashi didnt...the worst part i hate her for

Many examples but cant remember at this timeUrmi is a total loss...she should be kicked right and left, up and down🤢

Shruti agree with you on what you say about Urmi but Rashi is all this and more.. For example in all points regarding Jigar, atleast to Urmi Jigar is a Son In Law. To Rashi it is her husband.. So Rashi takes the bigger spot of being evil and callous here 🤢

And as for physical violence.. Don't forget that Rashi intentionally hit Gopi during the Dandiya on the hand that she just the previous day made her grate herself.. So no Rashi is no new to physical violence either.

Actually we may have to open another thread if we start to compare and see who is more evil😆

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