Finally a kalakari that will look at the imbalance

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kokila is a devrani, she should be second in command. She has dominated Hetal all this time. Juices and favorite dishes should be for both boys of the family.

I wouldn't put it past Kokila to having gotten pregnant first and luckily with a son so that she could rear him to lead the family. Since she already knew that parag wouldn't lead the family.

I disagree with all people that are upset with Hetal for finally standing up. Kokila needs to learn her place like she lectures Rashi about all the time. She might say the right things but she is a big bully and other than Chiragh everyone puts up with her bs!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rashi is making a big deal of the imbalance between the two families and the sons but in actual fact Kokila is pretty fair between the two boys.

Ahem's mother asks for juice to be made for him but no one has ever stopped Hetal from doing the same for Jigar.

As for favourite foods, yes Kokila asked for Ahem's favourite food but last week or the week before when they were discussing menus and why certain foods are cooked Kokila herself mentioned that they make a certain dish because Chirag likes it.

Kokila may be dominating and a little domineering but she does defer to Hetal, she asks her if it is ok to do certain things. They've built up a relationship over years that compliments each other and has worked well for them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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a joint family only works if everyones needs are met, hence why when hetal n kokila designed the menu it was taken in consideration, there was no issue the juice but rashi made it to be one, n hetal fell for it hook line n sinker. Rashi is manipulating hetal i just hope that sooner rather than later hetal n jigar find out whats really on rashis mind .
As for kokila getting pregnant first n the reason this was told earlier in the show that hetal n chirag did not concieve n had been married for years, kokila did not trick parag it just happened, but if you read my earlier post i said jigar is not hetals biological child he is kokilas n she had given him up thats my prediction
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gopakshi

Kokila is a devrani, she should be second in command. She has dominated Hetal all this time. Juices and favorite dishes should be for both boys of the family.

I wouldn't put it past Kokila to having gotten pregnant first and luckily with a son so that she could rear him to lead the family. Since she already knew that parag wouldn't lead the family.

I disagree with all people that are upset with Hetal for finally standing up. Kokila needs to learn her place like she lectures Rashi about all the time. She might say the right things but she is a big bully and other than Chiragh everyone puts up with her bs!


Yes Koki is devrani and 2ic. But she runs the show cos Hetal allows it and is too useless in any event. Someone has to take charge. And generally every family has one person who makes things happen and everyone accepts it cos to fight it means that you would end up doing it yourself and nobody wants to take that responsibility either. There is sweet nothing that stops Hetal from being No, 1. But she finds it easier to shy away from those responsibilities.

Koki does not favor anyone. Yes she has a soft spot for Aham, which mother doesn't. Hetal has a soft spot for Jigar. But Koki generally treats everyone the same and she doesn't stand for nonsense from anyone. Did she not agree to making the paneer whatitsname the following day? And besides better than Rashi she knows how the household runs and how to keep ALL members happy. I have never seen Jigar unhappy about his treatment in MM. Anyways this girl is a fine one to talk. She couldn't even wake up and feed her husband when he came home late. Gopi did it! Gopi had to tell her what his favorite dish was. Gopi knows better then her when her husband is unhappy.

The fact that Hetal buys into her kalakari is more proof then I need that Hetal is a brainless idiot who has no clue what goes on in her own family. Like mother like dil I guess.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gopakshi

Kokila is a devrani, she should be second in command. She has dominated Hetal all this time. Juices and favorite dishes should be for both boys of the family.

I wouldn't put it past Kokila to having gotten pregnant first and luckily with a son so that she could rear him to lead the family. Since she already knew that parag wouldn't lead the family.

I disagree with all people that are upset with Hetal for finally standing up. Kokila needs to learn her place like she lectures Rashi about all the time. She might say the right things but she is a big bully and other than Chiragh everyone puts up with her bs!


I so agree with you that bKoki is partial towards Ahem would love to see Koki being put in her place

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even I would love to see that arrogant Koki to be put in her right place.

She is always partial towards his son Ahem. Don't know why people turn blind eye to this. She lectures Rashi to respect her Jethani but she herself insults Hetal all the time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ya kokila is little more dominating than hetal...
its nice to see how hetal balances the family...
lets see whether hetal will lead to family breakups...
it will be interesting if rashi succeeds this time in breaking the families...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Do not forget that Baa has given the responsibility to Kokilla to run the house...& any decision she makes even about making a curry she discusses with Hetal & finalises...if Hetal had an issue all she had to do was say she is not happy but she never did it so it is definetly Hetal's fault...If Kokilla was not so strong the family would have split longback !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Do not forget that Baa has given the responsibility to Kokilla to run the house...& any decision she makes even about making a curry she discusses with Hetal & finalises...if Hetal had an issue all she had to do was say she is not happy but she never did it so it is definetly Hetal's fault...If Kokilla was not so strong the family would have split longback !!!



Agreed Navya, and most of the time Kokila may seem hard and unjust but when Rashi and Urmi is too much with Hetal (some episodes before) Kokila stood by Hetal and warned Rashi off on numerous instances Hetal still has not awaken to Rashi's deception.

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