Much Talked about Koki! - Page 2

Understand that they live in a Joint Family but if you slightly change your perspective and look into each family individually like Mota-Bhai-Pariwar(MBP) & Chota-Bhai-Pariwar(CBP) separately the following analysis can be justified,

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CBP - As of now, the only earning hand is Ahem, as Parag lives on Mota Bhai's earnings.

and if Ahem continues to be irresponsible then Ahem will be Parag-Part II surviving again on his brother Jigar's earnings and then Gohem kids will naturally be left on the morsels thrown by Rashi, as she will not let them to come up in life and it's a different story although in that case Gopi will still feel that her Rashi ben does everything good for her and also for her generations to come'..

Hence the conclusion will be Ahem will continue to be Parag and Our Gopi will continue being servant to Rashi ben'.

Will you expect the MBP to feed the generations of Parag family.. if so how long then '?

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MBP - Mota Bhai is the one who is the head of the Modi Empire and legally Jigar will be his descendant. If the Modi Industries come under the hands of Jigar then imagine Gohem's life after death of Kokila' the two simpleton helping Jigar & Rashi taking care of Raji kids'..(Ahem is also a well-trained Dhobi now .. thanks to his MOM)'.

Why I say this is because you don't find any of Baa's siblings involved in MODI business, infact there is no trace of them'. And also how about Kinjal & Also the American Bua they keep talking about don't seem to be a part of the business too' they might have their shares but they are not the heirs to the throne'..

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Hence Kokila's concern is acceptable as a parents point of view... her hope of her generation being a part of MODI Industries is ONLY THROUGH AHEM''.

P.S. - Sorry for the long post...

Originally posted by: 5cents

Lovely post Shruti & wonderful replies. Shruti, sorry to hear abt your Mom.
Shaun, loved your mom centric routine😃... I always say don't hurt their ego but please don't loose your identity.
Grown up with ..."Matri Devo Bhava" which means "Mother is a God in this world". Mom looks with her heart, feels with her eyes and feeds with her blood. A mom is a bank where her child is safe to deposit all its worries and can withdraw strength, love & confidence. Till today, whenever I have a problem, first person I remember is... my mom & call her to rant😛 or take her advise...And then have the audacity to tell her... you wasted my precious time with your long lecture lol😆 & this vicious circle continues...Being supportive & encouraging is different thing & being pushy is altogether different. 😛.
Parents especially in-laws need to learn to let go of their children when they are grown up / married.😛 .

Now coming to fictional character Koki, I wish I could give a predicated single objective answer. This is my value judgment, 😉convergent answer to a definite problem, Kokila Modi. I have given this ans many times & I repeat...Kokila Modi is not an enigma, she is not full of contradictions but she is not perfect either. she has her own set of insecurities, worries and concerns. She is indeed a very complex character. Complex characters are always interesting study & they fascinate me😉 She has an oversize ego. And an oversize ego is fundamentally driven by insecurity. And we all know the reasons for her insecurity. Looking @ Parag we sure can guess that she did not get best kind of emotional & financial support from her Parag ji. That is why she keeps the shovel ready & ready to legally bulldoze him with no hesitation. All this has made her very ego driven control freak and territorial. 🤢

She does not understand the territory of love as she has not shared it with a wonderful man in her life. That's why she cannot appreciate her son & DIL's relationship. She is abs not able to fathom that why a relationship should be based on equality, mutual respect and why Ahem does anything & everything to make Gopi happy! But here she has made Ahem a complete take charge kind of guy. '.whatever he does, he does it with conviction & might. According to him things done by halves are never done right. When he hated Gopi he hated her with intensity now that he is falling for her... he is loving her with even more intensity...can we blame him😳( we are all ready to smother him with affection now)

Harini & Munni will remember couple of days back I had written this...ctrl c ctrl v...
I think that Koki is quite happy with Gohem relationship, she does not want anything more than this😛😉 no more chooche cooing😳 enuff is the WORD 😛 According to Koki...Gopi shd take care of her son & son shd be happy with her care & concern PERIOD. She herself told Ahem that you have to work hard. So it is MM's business that is what Koki is aiming at, like Arjuna's arrow she wants Ahem only to look at the rotating fish & hit bulls eye, the MM chair. He'll anyway get that as Chirag & Hetal love & respect Ahem, as the eldest son of Modi empire. But since Koki has faced quite a few blows in her life, she does not want her son to get distracted & wants him at the helm of ME. Insecurity is not from Gopi it is from Ahem, as he has Parag's genes too😉
This is exactly what was shared by Koki today to Parag.
True, children are & shd be reflection of their parents but some parents like Koki enjoy "bragging rights" of their children's success as it makes them look plain good & satisfies their ego.

But then controversy creates CASH so Ahem Koki confrontation is building up ...but I want Ahem to knock some sense in Koki's messed up brain now😉 please CVs

Originally posted by: fungirl

Understand that they live in a Joint Family but if you slightly change your perspective and look into each family individually like Mota-Bhai-Pariwar(MBP) & Chota-Bhai-Pariwar(CBP) separately the following analysis can be justified,

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Hence the conclusion will be Ahem will continue to be Parag and Our Gopi will continue being servant to Rashi ben'.

Will you expect the MBP to feed the generations of Parag family.. if so how long then '?

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Hence Kokila's concern is acceptable as a parents point of view... her hope of her generation being a part of MODI Industries is ONLY THROUGH AHEM''.

P.S. - Sorry for the long post...

Fun girl loved your arguments & agree with then too to some extent ...but they are mostly your rationalizations, and partly based on your subjectivity...It is Kokila 's "FEAR", that Ahem may turn lazy like his dad🤢. We all humans have some or the other ...fear, insecurity. And all parents want only bEST for their kids. It is wonderful to teach them to DREAM BIG and use their true potential. But Parents shd never try to live their dreams through their kids. If they do that... then many a times kids have a complete break down & kids loose their character strength.
Kokila shd be proud that she has churned out a real man. 😉

Originally posted by: 5cents

Kokila shd be proud that she has churned out a real man. 😉

Originally posted by: shruts18

OMG! First of all, I got scared to hell to read this kind of biggg reply😆!

Then when I mustered courage, I read it all in one go and just couple of minutes for you have said it all so explicitly that it went into my small and broad brain easily😆

I loved all what you have said about real life moms, and about Korag's relation!

But the best part I liked is - Ahem a complete take charge kind of guy. '.whatever he does, he does it with conviction & might. According to him things done by halves are never done right. When he hated Gopi he hated her with intensity now that he is falling for her... he is loving her with even more intensity...can we blame him😳( we are all ready to smother him with affection now)

For too much Rashi and Koki talk, I was missing Ahem talk😭

Getting back to business, this is what I also believe Tina: I think that Koki is quite happy with Gohem relationship, she does not want anything more than this😛😉 no more chooche cooing😳 enuff is the WORD 😛 According to Koki...Gopi shd take care of her son & son shd be happy with her care & concern PERIOD. She herself told Ahem that you have to work hard. So it is MM's business that is what Koki is aiming at. But since Koki has faced quite a few blows in her life, she does not want her son to get distracted & wants him at the helm of ME.

But I fail to understand this? Insecurity is not from Gopi it is from Ahem,...for I think Ahem isn't insecure...if you are saying Koki's insecure about Ahem going Parag's way, then you are right😃

A great reply by the way...one of verw few long mails I really appreciated reading😊

I'm glad you could muster courage to do the right thing😉 lol read the whole post😆😆 it had to be big like big Koki herself 😛 Yes, Koki is insecure abt AHEM following his dad's foot steps. Insecurity is from Koki's side. Ahem is a real love- secure Man now😳
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

No SR yet so we still not sure about that one 🤣

Shaun, you are so DEAD now.😛 I'm sending a goon squad behind you 😆😆
What do you mean????...not sure🤢. We like him coz of his inherent decency.😳

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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

No SR yet so we still not sure about that one 🤣

Originally posted by: shruts18

Fungirl, Tina said it all for me...finally I got a companion who thinks my way on the forum for Koki...thank you Tina😃🤗

AWWW 🤗 to you too hun.
Shaun, Munni & Harini now we are two so better watch out lol😆