Ahem and love: where do I fit in this?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem was beside himself. His frustration level increased tenfold to the point becoming desperate. All because of his Gopi not being their for him when he needed her.

His high frustration level was noted be his mum when she found in a state of disarray searching for high and low in the cupboard for his handkerchief. He went on to further express his thoughts about Gopi's ability of both taking care of his thing and finding his things too. He was for the very first time openly reflecting of his appreciation of Gopi to his mum. Whilst his mum attempted to intervene he persisted in praising Gopi. This clearly sending a message to his mum of how dependent he has become of Gopi. Is this enough for him to miss her?

Upon finally receiving her call he was at wits end and could not help but vent his frustration on her. Releasing along the way what he was doing he called out her name and waited for her words to soothe his dishevelled heart and mind. He sure did miss her. His mood changed completely on knowing that she was returning and hurriedly went for dinner, but was taunted by his mum for his sudden change of mind.

When he found out that Gopi was not coming back but was saying over he lost all interest in his dinner. Ahem's emotions were running on a rollercoaster ride. He could not understand just why he was not at all informed and asked for his permission. This totally perplexed him. He felt being her husband he had a right to know first.

Ahem has come to accept Gopi as his wife to himself. His frustration of not having Gopi around and him not being consulted on her staying over is mounting in him. He has not yet expressed to his mum fully and neither to the whole family his thoughts. Should he do this they will know that he has accepted her?

His mum is pushing him to his limits by deleting the miss call on his phone. As long as Gopi is apart from him, how much more will he take before he explodes his frustration?







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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Swasthi for the post, once again spot on.

My comment is very short today, I am not feeling well at all, so sorry.

I actually smiled when he was yelling at her, especially when he said he bought the phone for her so that he can talk to her when he needs to, that was just a perfect line to express his feelings.

He is really missing her and is now in full on husband mode. He wants her to take his permission before going anywhere. Has he realized yet that he is now a typical husband?

He went from mad to calm to back mad and in the end wondering why she didn't yet call him. So will he wait up for her call or will he call her?

It looks like Ahemji is in for a long sleepless night.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely. Thank you Swasthi. I have not watched it yet but will enjoy it even more, thanks to your post.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post as usual Swasthi!!!
The boy's emotions are all over the place and the one person who could soothe him isn't around!!
His mother's actions, although supposedly for his betterment (I'm not sure if this is the word I'm looking for but it will have to do) are only making things worse.
I'm hoping that Ahem is able to make it clear to all an d sundry exactly what his feelings are and what he expects from his wife and mother in regards to him!! The roles need to be clearly demarcated!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely analsyis swasthi...ahem has become paralyzed without gopi...his emotions are like a Yo-Yo...loving this ahem...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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amazingly well written post!!
today's episode was very good,on par with the past few weeks.it was all about ahem being frustrated and helpless.we finally got to see how much he misses her.its becoming very clear that he's in love but when will he realize it.can't wait to see tomorrow!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swasthi...For Ahem, his life is filled with only Gopi...let it be happiness, sadness, sharing problems ...he was so happy when Gopi promised him that she would be back home & with that happiness he went down for dinner...with his mom revealing that Gopi would not be come...his thought process has taken over him...he is not happy that she is not coming but he is also stuck between believing what Gopi told him & what his mom told him...he was expecting her to atleast call him & tell him...she has called but he does not know & it has disappointed him...so how will he resolve this knot which his heart has tied him ip !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post Swathi again...👏👏today i like ahem alot...it is so visible that he is missing gopi like anything...and he is fustrated not finding his hankey...but today he didn't even hesitate to admint that gopi is not in his room when he needs her...he knows that he is more dependent on gopi more than his mom...😃

when she called he vent all his fustration that she didn't pickup his calls before...as soon as he heard her responsibility thaking care of mami and house...he cooled down...is is so visible that he is much calmer than befere talking to gopi...and all of sudden he is feeling hungry.😃



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Lovely. Thank you Swasthi. I have not watched it yet but will enjoy it even more, thanks to your post.


You are welcome Xarina.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NazmaJ

Wonderful post as usual Swasthi!!!

The boy's emotions are all over the place and the one person who could soothe him isn't around!!
His mother's actions, although supposedly for his betterment (I'm not sure if this is the word I'm looking for but it will have to do) are only making things worse.
I'm hoping that Ahem is able to make it clear to all an d sundry exactly what his feelings are and what he expects from his wife and mother in regards to him!! The roles need to be clearly demarcated!!


My pleasure Nazma.

Absolutely, hopes he does just this.

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